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#Femer

ne nje qytet ne nje shtet ku nuk njihen vlerat e kesaj qenie te shtrenjte e cila eshte femra ne nje vend ku nuk ekziston barazia gjinore ne nje vend ku mashkulli mbizoteron ka me shume force se nje femer ne nje vend qe e quajne femren te paafte dhe te pavlere nqs nje nga ata miliona meshkuj qe ndodhen atje jashte futej ne vend te nje prej ketyre femrave pa asnje lloj te drejt cfare do thoshnin valle ca do mendonin si do silleshin ? Ka lloj lloj femrash ashtu dhe meshkujsh besoj se ne qofte se nje femer bie nen pushtetin e nje mashkulli atehere jeta e saj per mendimin tim eshte e pavlere,ka marre fund .. jam e ketij mendimi qe nje femer i duhet,ka nevoje per ngrohtesine e nje mashkulli apo dashurine e nje mashkulli mbrojta afrimititeti i nje mashkulli por jo kurre me detyrim eshte gje e bukur te kesh mbrojtje nga nje mashkull por valle para se ti kerkosh te gjitha keto prej nje mashkulli dhe duke qene ne pritje per te ardhe ne jeten tende nje mashkull i tille a mendon se fiton gje nuk mendon se pret dicka te gatshme po nga vetja jote valle ca kerkon ? jooo e dashur jeta tende eshte vetem e vetem ne duart e tua njeher pastaj mendo tere te tjeret je nje qenie njerezore qe duhet tia dali mbane vete ne jete pastaj eshte nje ndihme dhe nje nevoje plus mashkulli ne qofte se lejon nje mashkull te te bej cte doj ateher per cfare vlere ke ti si individ? gjysma jone na pret jashte po sado i mire qe te jet ai mos harro qe ti je femer dhe ai eshte nje mashkull edhe ndjenjat e tua jane me delikate se sa te tuat eshte vet ne natyren e femres po gjithsesi edhe ata kane ndjenja

kur provon nuk eshte se gjithmone do te kesh rrezultate pozitive do kete edhe zhgenjime sepse ne skemi aftesi magjike saqe ti kuptojme ndjenjat dhe qellimet e tjetrit Eshte nje thenie qe me inspiron me te vertete qe ne cdo pyll ka nje tufe me derra le te themi se pylli eshte mjedisi ne te cilin jetojme qe perbehet nga njerez edhe derrat le te themi se jane njerzit injorant pa pike kulture pa pike respekti qe po na shemtojne jeten na e prishin por sduhet ti lejojme ata te bejne nje gje te tille nje zhgenjim nuk do te thot nje humbje me largimin nga keta njerez do perfitosh shume sic eshte qetesia jote shpirterore per fat te kaq vendi qe ne jetojme nuk as shume vajza as shume djeme 'sakllam' bejne veprime qe sjane ne pelqimet tona po smund te pershtatemi me te gjithe eshte mese llogjike saper cunat ideal nqs do nje mashkull te tille normale qe ekziston dhe do te beje vet jeta taa kuptosh per arsyen se do te ta vertetoi mos i mendo faaare kalamaket edhe te paedukatet si pune e atyre ka ploot

gjithsesi femer e dashur thesar i fshehte jepi forca vetes tejkaloe veten dhe diturit e tua kalo cdo penges qe te del para se keshtu eshte jeta ndoshta nuk ka barazi gjinore por ti ia di vlerat vetes e nuk eshte nevoja tu vesh veshin atyre fjaleve qe nxjerrin nga goja te tjeret do lajkat do uljet qe te bejne sepse normale njerzit pa karakter dhe pa asnje fille respekti jane te afte per ta bere kete gje njerez qe se duan as vet veten femra ka nje force jashtzakonisht te madhe brenda saj por ngjarje qe ndodhin nga zhgenimi dhe merzitja nga mungesa e dashurise dhe e respektit nga te tjeret por dhe nga vetja e bejne qe ta harroi ate per nje fare kohe po do vi dita qe do ta gjej prap dhe do behet pishman qe se perdorte kaq kohe feeemeer zgjohu ke force dhe luan nje rol shume te rendesishem ne kete shoqeri. Nje arsye e vetme qe do kisha deshire te isha mashkull do ishte vetem per lirine me te plotte se sa ne grat kane per asnje arsye tjeter ne na mban sedra mentaliteti na mban shoqeria ne nje kafaz te mbyllur me kyc qe spo e hapim dot po ne sido qe te vi puna ne e gjejme celesin per liri me menyren tone eshte zgjuarsia jone qe na ben te zgjidhim cdo gj qe na del para ndoshta mendojme shume dhe e merzisim veten goxha po kjo eshte nga fakti se kemi ndjenja te teperta jemi qenie delikate nje femer e dashuruar ka force po nje femer e e vetme e lenduar di cdo te thot vuajtja dhe vetmia dhe e mban perbrenda po di dhe me mir se sa nje q seshte e lenduar si te harrij diku qe do dhe cfare eshte lumturi femer te lutem mos harro kur vlerat e tua se dhe po i harrove fatkeqesisht dikush do gjej rastin dhe do ta shfrytezoj mos pyet me mund ta besh nje mashkull si te duash besom.. rendesi ka ce do besh ti me jeten tende cilat jane planet e tua ?

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sweetlyoriginalcoffee-blog · 7 years

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bored?

find the number one song played on the day you were born

play with refrigerator magnets online

take quizzes

name combiner

take me to a useless website

draw a stickman

guess where you are in the world

creepy wikipedia articles

learn what it’s like to live on minimum wage

find recipes based on what ingredients you have

see your dashboard in 2011

every audio post you’ve ever reblogged

do stuff with online friends

make your own music

see what your favorite sites looked like years ago

personal letters written by famous people

make spiderweb drawings

the fucking weather

okay this puts things in perspective and is really rad

icon maker

create an animal

what happens on the internet in one second?

talk to a robot

the bored button

Shakespeare insult generator

watch traffic

delete yourself from certain sites

build a social network

a dog’s social media website

who would win a fight between ____ & ____

this is why i’m broke

make gifs

turn your handwriting into a font

just open this and don’t move your cursor (FLASHING LIGHTS TW)

explore the universe

bitch-slap someone with an eel

throwback playlist

digital public library of america

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1. push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise. 2. push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable. 3. get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else. 4. stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything. 5. buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice. 6. buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small. 7. strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full. 8. organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle. 9. have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck. 10. push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog. 11. message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through. 13. think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything. 14. become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends. 15. lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you.

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A self care list. I’ve been working on this. I promise it’s worth it.

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