#-beta friend aka 'therapist friend' that only exists to listen to them vent about their REAL friends? | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

katyspersonal · 11 months

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Also guys, if you've sent me something in Discord, I have not seen it. I've had Discord closed for several days now because that app just makes me feel worse when I feel socially withdrawn, and in general I am mostly offline these days (you could tell..) . (I also got like 10 asks about ships....... I will get to them but huge amount of positive engagement makes me feel shy)

#personal #distractions are nice..#it is just.. many things #like i also cut ties with my only irl friend #i told it like it is: negligence constant broken promises and only remembering i exist when all of her-#-'better' friends are busy #like... it became so painfully apparent that she doesn't want me in her life (when with other friends she's every day and-#-posts pictures with them often)#boyfriend too.#you know that situation when you fail to assert yourself as a valuable friend and become the-#-beta friend aka 'therapist friend' that only exists to listen to them vent about their REAL friends?#also ignored calls and me having to send a message like 10 times to get something she promised out of her already...#why i am even elaborating if everyone had this situation at least once?#but cutting someone out of life is always extremely stressful even if that's to the better #i just hate pestering people to give me at least some attention

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