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staring at the time at 11:21 pm wondering if its too late to eat smth bc im hungry and dont have to go to sleep any time soon really, but im also tired and would def go to bed immediately afterwards,.,..
#stupid shit#its not good to eat and then lay down i guess? at least thats ingrained into my head by something#probably worse if its say....spicy ramen#which is what im kinda thinkin of#ah well. i guess ill sleep#2 PB&Js from earlier today is enough
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Day 21: Grand Ledge to Kalamazoo
Distance Covered: 70.69 miles
Total Time (including rests): 7:06 (8:17am-3:23pm)
Time spent riding: 5:29
Average Speed: 12.9 mph
Apples Eaten: 4 (fuji - 7/10, honeycrisp - 7.5/10, honeycrisp - 7.5/10, honeycrisp - 7.5/10)
Another mostly boring ride today. I'm kinda glad the trip is coming to an end, if just for the fact that I'm running out of ways to describe the ride. Biking across Michigan was much more hilly than the last several days, but still flat enough that I never had to switch to the small gear in front. It was almost completely on paved roads, with the small bit on a dirt road being the best dirt road I've been on. It was kinda cool when I started the ride, but it got hot relatively quickly, and by the time I was really into the ride I was greatly looking forward to the portions of shade.
I had a slight tailwind from the north, which was a nice contrast to yesterday's headwind. The tailwind ended up being slightly problematic, because it meant I was going to arrive at the campsite before the 3:00pm check-in. To remedy that, I ended up taking an extra long lunch break, but it still felt like a waste. Today's ride took me on a lot of high-speed state roads, but luckily most of them were either lacking in cars or had a wide shoulder. I spent a tiny bit of the ride near the end on a bike trail, but it was such a short distance that it didn't really impact the feeling of the ride.
I took 2 breaks, at about 25 and 50 miles into the ride. I had a bite to eat (PB&Js as usual) at both stops, but they were both just off the road with a little shade, so they weren't that interesting. As mentioned earlier, the second of those rests was rather long, just so that I wouldn't arrive at the campsite too early.
Small Notes
Train crossing - I've crossed many train crossing and seen many trains on this bike ride, but today was the first time I actually had to stop at a train crossing because of a train coming by
Lost dog - shortly after my first break, a car stopped near me and the driver asked if I had seen a dog running past. Unfortunately, I hadn't, so I couldn't help them with their search for their lost dog.
Bee sting? - at some point on the ride, I heard a buzzing noise behind my head. It didn't disappear when I kept riding, so I thought a bug or something might be flying with me. I waved my hand behind my head, and felt something in my hair. I tried to pull it out, and when I did, I felt a sharp (but small, probably a 1 or 2 out of 10 on the pain scale) pain in my thumb. The thing in my hair fell out and I didn't get to see what it was, and my thumb stopped hurting after 15 minutes or so, so I don't think it was actually a bee, but rather some other bug, but at that moment, I was pretty certain I had just been stung by a bee or wasp.
Pavement Notes (continued)
Here's a continuation of yesterday's notes on types of pavement, this time focusing on paved roads.
Sidewalk - a normally smooth type of pavement, except for a line crack every meter or 2, making it slightly different than just riding on smooth pavement.
Bike Trail (perfect) - when you have a paved bike trail, the pavement is usually rather smooth with no issues you have to pay attention to when riding.
Bike Trail (ruptured) - sometimes, the bike trail will have "seam lines" that come up on the pavement, like the pavement on either side of the line was pushed together. This pavement is usually nice, but you have to be careful with the seam lines/ruptures, as they can cause bumpiness or even flat tires if you go too fast over them.
Grainy Pavement - this is a type of road pavement, where the asphalt feels loose like gravel, even if it isn't. It can be rocky to ride on for both cars and bikes. It's most commonly found as the shoulder of a road which is mostly a different type of pavement.
Rough Pavement - I don't know really how to describe the next 3 categories of pavement, I just think it's important to note that there is a difference between the 3 when on a bike, even if they all feel very similar in a car. On this pavement, your bike tends to "bump along" while you ride.
Middling Pavement - on this pavement, the bike doesn't really bump, but the seat might shake a little, such that if you stay sitting too long on this type of road, you'll end up feeling very uncomfortable.
Smooth Pavement - best of the best, no blemishes, feels like you're riding on a frictionless surface.
Needs-Repairs Pavement - can be combined with any type of pavement (most commonly grainy or rough pavement), and with it there are a lot of potholes, as well as places where the pavement is at slightly different levels, like a partial fix has been made, but the pavement hasn't been completely redone. Common to see on less-well-kept roads in cities.
Design Notes
Don't have much in the way of design notes today. Just have mentions of a few games and what my next plans for them are, if any. This is mostly just repeating information from previous days and is basically just notes for myself, so it might not make much sense, but it was what I thought about today.
Characters, Inc - want to create item generation system, rebalance ability scores, change quest lengths
Time Loop - figure out how to have a small scale working prototype
Grid Delver - lots to do. First, a remake of the original, then create the framework for the new version.
Cardcasting - two directions I could see my self going: (1) work on the world building; (2) work on specific spells, as well as general ideas for spells
This is all. I have only 2 more days of riding left, after which I'll probably make a Post-Ride post, but the blogging is almost over!
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Chapter 2: New Old Thoughts
***TRIGGER WARNING*** Mentions of homophobia/homophobic language and past self harm
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Dean wakes up in a cold sweat yet again. The black shadow he saw thought he saw plagued his dreams every night since he's been there. Which was odd. He usually doesn't dream at all.
He rolled out of bed and peeled off his boxers and shirt, both damp with sweat, and turned on the shower.
The warm water -- with amazing water pressure, dare he say -- soothed his nerves. He would have to search up if frequent nightmares were normal for people moving into new houses later.
After getting dried off and dressed, Dean went downstairs and turned on his old coffee machine. He watched the dark coffee drip down into the pot.
The deadline for unpacking really helped speed up the whole process and the amount of sleep he was getting helped to.
By what Sam had said about Cas, he sounds ok. Just a quiet guy who's fresh out of college and needs a place to stay for a bit.
Dean had finished unpacking the rest of the boxes yesterday. He had saved the library for last and the whole time his knee was a bitch. But he had to say, now that it’s done, It looks really nice.
He poured himself a cup of coffee from the pot and went out into the large, mostly empty sunroom. He was going to have to get some furniture to fill all the floor space so they could sit and read or watch TV in here. Maybe a bean bag and a couch.
The morning sun shone brightly through the windows of the room, casting soft shadows in corners and the shelves. The backyard was really nice and big but over grown. The stones in the fire pit had weeds growing out the cracks and the fish pond would kill any fish that would dare swim in it. The grass was almost knee length and would be a complete bitch to mow. Maybe he could get Cas to do it. Complain about his knee hurting or something.
Dean went back in the kitchen and poured himself a second cup of coffee. He checked his watch, 9:34am. Sam had told him Cas would be there around 10:30, which left Dean almost a full hour to do whatever he wanted.
He does enjoy his time alone but is quite excited for a housemate. He would never admit it to anyone but the house was getting a bit lonely and now that he has everything unpacked, he would guess it would be boring as well.
Bubbles covered Dean's hands as he washed the few dishes remaining in the sink. He wanted to make a good first impression on Cas by having the house clean and was using it as a pass time to cool his nerves.
He’d just put the last plate in the cabinet when the doorbell rang. Dean quickly walked over to the door, running his fingers through his hair before opening it.
Dean was surprised at the man he saw standing outside. He was wearing a tan trench coat over an ill fitting suit with a messily done blue tie. His hair was dark and messy, as if he had just rolled out of bed. A 5 o’clock shadow adorned his sharp jaw. Dean’s eyes moved up his face, and met a pair of eyes that were more blue than the deepest parts of a sunny sky.
Cas cleared his throat before asking, “Are you Dean Winchester?”
Man, that voice . It was deep and sounded as if he had been gurgling gravel every day since he was 12. Dean quit his staring and smiled at Cas.
“Yup, that's me,” Dean beamed, “And you must be Cas.”
Cas squinted a little harder and tilted his head slightly to the side at the use of the nickname.
Dean took a step back, opening the door wide. “Come on in, you have 3 choices in rooms but I recommend up the left stairs at the end of the hall.”
“Thank you.” Cas said as he passed Dean and began walking towards the stairs, his suitcase rolling behind him. The man glanced around as he walked, carefully observing the wooden structure of the house.
Dean closed the door and went into the library and grabbed Soul Enchilada off his shelf of favorites. He laid out on an old love-seat in front of one of the windows and began to try and read.
He read a few lines before starting over. His mind was wandering elsewhere, to his handsome new housemate that would be living with him for who knows how long, how that deep, rumbly voice had said his name earlier, eyes of azure, streaked with cruelan and sky blue.
He thought back to how when he met those eyes, they seemed to stare deep into his soul. The small twinge of annoyance when Dean had used the nickname ‘Cas’ and how he had tilted his head ever so slightly to the side, his plush, lightly chapped lips barely parted. They looked so soft, so kissable. It would have been so easy to have just- NO.
Dean caught his slipping thoughts. Internally scolding himself for not only falling for his new housemate, but a guy.
After closing the book and placing it back on the shelf, Dean went upstairs to his room, into the bathroom, and locked the door behind him. He lifted his arms in front of him, using his right hand he nudged the sleeve of his flannel back and felt his thumb drag over the small, criss-crossing scars on his forearm.
He released a shuddering breath. He is such a disappointment to his father. It was wrong for him to love another guy and no matter what he did he couldn't stop. No matter how many times Dad had taken out his anger on his “disgusting faggot of a son” he couldn't stop the thoughts.
Dean pulled his sleeve back down and looked into his own green eyes in the mirror. He could almost hear Sam's voice saying it with him as he whispered to himself, “Dad was a bastard and a terrible father. You can love whoever you want, Dean, It’s ok.”
Dean had been so careful to hide the scars from Sammy, but one day at Bobby’s place he had his sleeves pulled up to his elbows so he had better access inside the car and little, 13 year-old Sam saw the scars and asked what they were about.
It wasn't until a few months before Dean was leaving for the military that he had told Sam why he had those scars. And Sam just hugged him and told him that it was ok and that he would always love him. Damn, he loves that kid.
Dean sighed. No hitting on hot roommate dude. He could be straight and Dean isn't going to 1) Make him uncomfortable while he stays here, and 2) Get in a relationship with… well, anyone. Not like anyone wants to be in a relationship with someone as broken as him anyway.
When Dean made his way back downstairs, he saw Cas standing in the library examining the books with curiosity.
“Hey Cas,” The sound of Dean’s voice caused the man to turn towards him, “I'm going to go on a grocery run. Is there anything you want?”
He stared at Dean for a moment before replying, “The ingredients for peanut butter and jelly sandwiches is all, Thanks.”
Dean chuckled, “You know, you're out of college now, you can eat some actual food.”
“I'm not a good cook in the slightest and I'm sure I will like some of the stuff you buy.”
“K then, see you later.” Dean grumbled, grabbing his keys and closing the heavy front door hard behind him.
He walked down the steps and started Baby, Bon Jovi’s Wanted Dead or Alive pouring out the speakers. Dean turned up the music and drove down the driveway.
The trip to the store was short and uneventful. He grabbed the stuff Cas asked for along with some stuff to make dinner for the next week(He also got some greens because Sammy would give him another 3 hour lecture on his diet if he didn’t).
Kevin was working again today, somehow looking even more bored than last time. He scanned Dean's groceries while Dean asked about what classes he was taking.
Kevin had told him he was going to be a freshman and was studying computer sciences so he could make enough money to support himself and help support his mom.
Dean said goodbye to Kevin and loaded his groceries into Baby's trunk. The ride home was smooth and fast. Cas was nowhere in sight when he got home and Dean guessed he was probably in his room.
After unloading all the groceries, Dean pulled out two plates and began making lunch. He decided to keep it simple with some PB&Js and some potato chips. He put Cas’s plate on the island with a glass of water and made his way up the stairs to his door.
He knocked on the wood. “Hey Cas, I made some lunch for ya. It’s in the kitchen if you want it.”
There was no reply but he heard a faint shuffle of movement on the other side of the door. Dean went back downstairs and took his plate outside to the small shed in the backyard. The door was unlocked and swung open when Dean pushed.
Inside there was an old workbench pushed against the back wall. Gardening tools hung on hooks drilled into the wall and a slightly rusty lawn mower sat in the corner. He brushed some dust off the workbench and placed his lunch on the wood before checking out the mower.
It looked functional but in need of some repairs. Nothing that Dean couldn't fix himself with the right tools. He checked the drawers of the workbench and found the things he needed to fix the mower and began to work, eating his sandwich as he did.
Dean was so focused on sharpening the lawn mowers blades that he didn't hear Cas’s footsteps approaching from behind.
“Dean?” Cas called?
Dean jumped, startled by the sudden noise.
“Sorry for startling you Dean. I wanted to thank you for lunch.”
“Yeah, no problem buddy.” Dean replied, “I'm making chicken for dinner tonight if that's good with you.”
“Yes that's fine. Thank you.”
Cas left and Dean finished sharpening the lawn mower blades, leaving them on the workbench to attach tomorrow. He picked up his empty plate and headed back inside and dropped it in the sink.
Dean took a package of chicken breasts out of the fridge and placed them in a bowl. About 10 minutes later, the chicken was breaded and in the oven and he began to prepare the potato salad.
He loved to cook. When he was young, his father would drag Sammy and him from motel to motel. All they ate was take out or greasy diner food. Dean does love some good greasy burger and fries and a beer every once in a while but nice home cooked meals were always better.
Once Bobby took them away from John and his abusive parenting style, Dean learned to cook his own food in an actual kitchen. He would wake up early to make breakfast and insist on making lunch and dinner as well.
Dean pulled the chicken out of the oven and set some plates on the counter. He jogged up the stairs to Cas’s door, careful to be light on his bad knee, and knocked.
“Dinners ready!” He said before making his way back to the kitchen and filling up his plate with potato salad and sweet corn. He could hear Cas enter the kitchen and grab the other plate.
“It looks great, Dean,” Cas observed, “Thanks again.”
Dean set his plate down on the table and grabbed some cups from the cabinet before replying, “Yeah, it’s no problem, really. Do you want anything to drink?”
“Just water please. I haven't had anyone cook a proper meal for me since high school and I could never make one for myself due to my inability not to burn the food.”
Dean chuckled, “After my mom passed I didn't get a good meal till I was around 15, and those I would make myself.”
Cas stared at him, “Oh, I’m sorry.” He took the water Dean held out to him.
“Nah man, it’s fine. It was a long time ago.”
They continued to eat in silence for a while till Cas asked Dean, “You were only given 3 days notice that I was coming, yet you have the entire house unpacked and cleaned.”
“I, uh, didn’t sleep much. I wasn’t sleeping well so I made the best of a bad situation and used the time I was awake to finish unpacking.”
They both finished their meal in silence. Dean placed his dishes in the sink and grabbed a beer from the fridge. He sat back down at the table and looked over at Cas.
“So, tell me a bit about yourself.”
Cas’s blue eyes meet Deans. “I am 23 years old. I have an English major and plan on becoming a journalist. I have 6 siblings, 4 brothers and 2 sisters. I grew up in Colorado but moved to California for college, where I met your brother.”
“Hold on. You have 6 Siblings?” Dean gaped
“Yes, Dean. Micheal, Lucifer, Uriel, Gabriel, and Naomi are older and Anna is younger than me.”
“Man sibling rivalry must have been intense.”
“Our arguments were like war backed with all of heaven's wrath.”
Dean bursted out in laughter at that and took another drink of his beer. Cas stared at him with that adorable little head tilt squinting at him as if confused by Dean laughter.
“What about you?” Cas asked
Dean stopped laughing and looked at Cas, “My name is Dean Winchester. I am an Aquarius. I enjoy sunsets, long walks on the beach, and frisky women,”Cas stared at him for a moment before Dean continued, “My mom passed when I was 4. I lived with my Dad if you could call what we did living for about 10 years until I was taken in by Bobby and Ellen. I worked as a mechanic with Bobby while Sam went to college until I decided to go to the military. I was there for 5 years until my knee got messed up and I was sent home.”
“Sorry, that must be horrible.”
“Nah man, it's fine. You get used to it and move on.”
“Is excessive drinking part of moving on?”
Dean stopped smiling and looked away from Cas. They sat in silence for a moment before Dean said, “Well I'm a bit tired, gonna head to bed.”
“Ok, Goodnight, Dean. I will clean up.”
He stood and left the kitchen. He was looking angrily at the ground in front of him as he went up the stairs. He didn't look up until he heard a quiet hissing in front of him.
The blood rushed out of his face and fear coiled in his stomach. It was back. The dark shadow was standing in the middle of the balcony. Dean couldn't get his legs to move. He was stuck. The shadow began to slowly glide towards him, reaching out a long arm-like appendage. He wanted to shout, to cry out for help but his mouth was just as stuck as his legs.
A rush of frigid air washed over him as it drew nearer. The black tendrils of its translucent arm reaching to his side, like it was going to push him over the railing.
“Dean, do you have any tupperware for the extra food?” Cas called from the kitchen.
Dean blinked and the shadow was gone. He shivered as the air began to warm up around him. Dean cleared his throat before replying “In the drawer by the fridge.” He ignored the slight shake in his voice.
When he tried to take a step forward, his feet moved like nothing had happened just seconds before. Dean went into his room and locked the door behind him.
Sleep. That's what he needs. He's just tired and that's making him see things. Everything will be fine tomorrow.
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One Month Into Post-Grad: Debt, Adulting, and Hotels (+ Books)
It’s been a while! I have to admit, when the end of June and the 4th of July went by and I still hadn’t updated here, I became more frantic in trying to figure out what to write. Spoiler Alert: Living at home and trying desperately not to spend any of your savings is a very boring existence. Relaxing? Mostly. Blog worthy? Not really.
With less than three weeks now before I head off to job training, I plan to start ramping up my packing, cooking skills, and figuring out the mess that is living in a hotel for a month during training.
This week, I decided not to dive into one particular topic, but to touch upon a range of Adult Stuffs that I have been reading up on and listening to these past few weeks, featuring student loan debt woes, budgeting, hotel worries, and some awesome books I’ve been reading.
1. First off, the worst: The horrors of student loan debt.
At the recommendation of a Bitches Get Riches post, I listened to the two-part student loan debt series on the podcast Death, Sex, and Money by Anna Sale. I am a podcast junky, so I was in love at first listen, but I recommend it to anyone else out there trying to navigate their oversized debt. Give a listen to others stories and know that you are among A LOT of Americans in the same situation. Especially us millennials.
Personally, I have been debating two methods of student debt reduction, known as the “snowball” or “avalanche” method. The snowball method is a method of debt reduction that tackles the smaller sized debts first. This has the benefits of giving the debtor a feel-good, accomplished feeling earlier and can help motivate you to work to eliminate debts faster. The avalanche method, in contrast, goes after the biggest and meanest of the debts, which means the debts with the highest interest rates. A more in-depth examination of the two is found here. The first method makes me feel all fuzzy inside at the idea of less debt-juggling and quicker achievements. Who doesn’t like the happy endorphins of getting something done? But I will likely swing toward the latter if possible, because the bitter side of me feels that high interest rates are a creation of the devil.
Now, lucky for me, I am still within the six-month grace period after college and will have begun my job by the time I have to start making minimum payments. I do plan on beginning with just my minimums, but once I have a handle on my finances, I want to get a bit more aggressive with my evil loans.
2. While we’re on the topic of money, let’s talk budgeting.
I did it! Sort of. I’ve started to try and track my money. To start off, I did a trial with a fancy electronic system online, which was great but also cost monies I don’t have. After my free trial ended, I kissed the fancy software goodbye, at least until it’s more feasible for me, and decided to turn to the handy-dandy spreadsheet. Luckily, I am definitely not alone on this: I found a useful spreadsheet on Half-Banked, a financial blog by Desirae Odjick, to start me off.
While Desirae’s spreadsheet is limited, allowing for tracking expenses and simple budgeting, it is a great base for me. See, earlier I said I’m tracking my money, not budgeting it, for a reason. Budgeting implies a solid inflow and outflow of money. Right now, without an income and living a lifestyle of mooching off my mom (thanks mom!), I have a limited amount of both of those. To flip that, once I start job training in August and start apartment searching in my new city, I will be spending way more money and actually making a real income. All I can do at this point, unfortunately, is try to create a budgeting system to use once that insanity begins.
3. Speaking of job training — I’m going to be living in two hotels. For a month.
I have two separate training programs in August: The first is a classroom style training to give new recruits information about how the non-profit works and provide us with skills training. The second involves actually working in another city on a mini-campaign to put our skills into practice.
I should mention that neither of these cities will (probably) be the city I finally call home for two years. Meaning, I will be living in two different hotels for a total period of a month.
[Cue panic over how this poor college grad with minimal resources is going to eat without draining my entire bank account.]
Facing the distinct possibility that I might have a refrigerator and microwave to my name throughout the month of August, I started to panic-slash-prepare for this inevitability. Putting on my best “earnest former student journalist” persona, I contacted the woman in charge of housing coordination and asked if my room would have a refrigerator and microwave. Luckily, I got a response only a few minutes later that I would have a mini-fridge in my room and have access to a common microwave. Phew, one worry down.
Thus, I have started to brainstorm food to eat on the cheap (I do not have enough shame to exclude PB&Js from the list) and already discovered the closest grocery store to my hotel. Eating out will probably be a strategic game of finding the cheapest places and making sure to always have leftovers to bring home with me. While the whole thing feels a bit like being thrown back into a dorm room, I can’t say it’s all bad. After all, I’ll be starting my working life looking out at Lake Michigan from the Chicago downtown coastline. Not too shabby.
4. Okay, now that ugly, adult stuff is out of the way: Books I’m reading and loving.
Oh, summer. I will miss you so dearly very soon, in part because all this free time allows me to lay around and read books with zero demands that I write an analytical paper about them.
I admit that I will probably never truly give up my young adult fantasy/sci-fi loves. I’m sure at some point I’ll grow into important, adult fiction that one talks about with cool adult friends, but for now I enjoyed the heck of Sabaa Tahir’s An Ember in the Ashes, a fantasy novel with dual narrators and a fast-moving plot. It features Middle Eastern mythology and has fantastic world-building that I am excited to read more about in the sequel. However, the sequel is currently still in hardback, so I’m lusting after it from afar. I have a small book tower to get through before I can justify that purchase just yet.
Next up, and more related to this blog, is the audiobook Adulting: How to become a grown-up in 468 easy(ish) steps. I’m caught between wishing I had bought a physical copy so it would be easier to go back to Kelly Williams Brown’s tips on the fly, and enjoying the snarky, witty narration by Anjili Pal. I am about halfway through this book and I enjoy the way in which it balances between providing advice that makes me think “I should know that" or "yay, I already do this” with the loving and firm message of “Look, it’s all good because you know this now, got it? Now don’t forget it.” It is definitely a fun listen meant just for someone like me, who has limited on-my-own experience and has an almost obsessive love with tips and life hacks.
This final book has my nerd self excited: The Invention of Russia: From Gorbachev’s Freedom to Putin’s War by Russian-born journalist Arkady Ostrovsky. I’m not sure if I have mentioned it prior on this blog, but I have a freshly-minted International Relations degree with an unofficial regional emphasis on Russia and its periphery. Because I am a weird overachiever, I wrote a 80 page senior thesis on Russian state media influence in Latvia. You’d think I’d kind of be over the topic by now, after a literal year of my life obsessing over Russian ethnic minorities and state media, but apparently not. While this book assumes some base knowledge on the happenings in Russia in the last century, it so far seems pretty approachable. The book focuses on how the Russian media has played a key role in crafting Russian identity since the collapse of the Soviet Union. The reverence for the written word and discussion of free speech and the power of the press alone should make it interesting to those outside the wonky political junkies.
That’s all I have for today! I hope to be back with more regular posts, but between a pair of end of summer vacations and a surprise surgery — nothing too terrible, just unpleasant — my life will be speeding up again. Woo?
Woo!
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