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bijoumikhawal · 1 year

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If you see an effeminate man and take that as evidence that he's trans for your headcanon please,,, reconsider. Plenty of effeminate trans people would be effeminate no matter what sex we were assigned at birth. This isn't to say trans men can't be effeminate or that its problematic to headcanon effeminates as trans, just that effeminacy is a very broad experience and effeminacy in a man doesn't imply what his assigned sex was anymore than the color of his hair does.

#Cipher talk #Isak and other guys have talked about this and how it serves to separate us from other fags and therefore 'redeem' us because the queer #Community writ large still has an issue with. Queer men and effeminates and such #For me looking at a man who wears women's clothes and makeup and saying 'oh this is evidence he's got a cunt' feels. A Little Vile #And it's rhetorically disconnected from faggotry. I think this is changing now but so many fags are AMAB lmao #And I say fag here to specifically mean a type of gender experience within effeminacy #And that doesn't magically make them unrelatable genderwise because actually. Assigned sex is kind of BS!#When I started articulating that my gender was faggotry (or more accurately being a khawal) most of it was Isak and glimpses into #Conversations AMAB people were having that made me realize it was an option and it felt accurate to me #I did see a headcanon post months ago and I do still feel bothered by it thanks for asking

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