pansexual is good 💗💛💙
bisexual is good 💗💜💙
just respect how people self-identify and resist the urge to assign bad faith assumptions onto why they identify the way they do. we as a community need to be kinder and more understanding with one another. we all have our reasons for the language we use for ourselves and our queerness, and more often than not, there isn’t some bad, harmful reasoning behind our labels.
and of course, some folks identify as both bi and pan. this post is just about how people just assume every bi and pan person who does not use both labels has made a choice between the two labels, or in other words, considered both labels and rejected one for the other. and this is simply not the case.
i can’t speak for anyone but myself, and personally i don’t like when my self-identification is painted in a negative light in comparison to another label; that my pansexuality is a rejection of bisexuality. it isn’t. i have nothing but love and respect for bisexuality, bisexual history, and bisexual people. i’m just simply not bisexual. it isn’t any deeper than that.
and if you’re wondering why it matters if people think this, it’s because language matters. queer people’s experiences with their identity and the language they use for it should be acknowledged and respected, rather than dismissed in favor of creating a uniform narrative, especially one that is negative, that we all neatly fit into.
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> Last week sometime...
caepaecaesurae
... I apologize for the #tyrian/ tag, by the by. My moirail has trouble wvith your alternates, that he is still wvorking through.
brackishbarracuda
so i noticed
i didnt mean to start shit
caepaecaesurae
You havwen't, and he holds no animosity. Only memories.
brackishbarracuda
i cant reely say shit tbh w u
i used to have the same problem w certain cronus alts
i aint gonna go into it but im betta than i was
caepaecaesurae
.. There are so vwery many things wvrong wvith certain Cronus alternates.
brackishbarracuda
an nearly all a mine are fucked so
caepaecaesurae
I'm glad you're doing better
..and that the entire Ampora line is not currently completely poisoned for you.
brackishbarracuda
trust me theres a few i could stand to see w a head on a different end a the room than the rest a them
but i got double diamonds and both are v much amporas
caepaecaesurae
There's some that -I- wvould be inclined to separate from themselvwes.
brackishbarracuda
aight if im bein honest its one in particular and its an erian so i still count that as improvement
caepaecaesurae
I'd agree. WVas he perchance recently invwolvwed in the dashcourse?
brackishbarracuda
i dont think so i aint been payin attention
i dont mind a name drop if ur currious just dont out me aboat it its complicate
complicated efin
caepaecaesurae
Reasonable. ... I don't speak wvith many Eridans, I suspect it's not likely to come up, so I'll abstain.
brackishbarracuda
as in dont tell me or u wont out me
caepaecaesurae
Don't tell me -- I wvouldn't out you either wvay.
brackishbarracuda
s fair
caepaecaesurae
But this wvay, I'm not likely to read his page out of curiosity.
Or ask a thousand questions that aren't my business. I'm afraid I'm as gossipy as Arlequin can be.
brackishbarracuda
trust me tho if he shows up and starts shit youll kno who it is
caepaecaesurae
Do let me knowv if you evwer need a hand.
brackishbarracuda
pike i said its complicated 38/
and f reel tho i aint mind questions from u in particular
caepaecaesurae
If you're certain, then -- wvho, and dare I ask his specific failings?
brackishbarracuda
violaceousvanity
too many to fuckin count
brackishbarracuda
most a which is fuckin w my rails pusher
an holdin the fact said rail had feelins for him over my damn head when i was low
caepaecaesurae
.. Ugh.
brackishbarracuda
im really tryin naut to go on a tirade aboat every fuckin thing hes done wrong bc i wont stop if i get started
its platonic af
caepaecaesurae
I knowv the feeling.
Aye, interference in romantic affairs often can be.
brackishbarracuda
hes still a part a my rails past tho before i knew him and he swears hes his friend so im over here just shruggin violently
brackishbarracuda
ur ugh in response was afishiated tho its hard to properly disgusted w somebody existence when other ppl aint as pissed as u are
Last Wednesday at 2:44 PM
caepaecaesurae
I sympathise. Interpersonal conflicts of that nature are... Awvkwvard at best.
caepaecaesurae
Pardon for disappearing on you.
brackishbarracuda
nah shit happens
u aight
caepaecaesurae
> Caesurae looked at that question, blankly, for over a minute before he could bring himself to quietly facepalm, sigh, and gather his words.
Sleep came unexpectedly, that's all.
brackishbarracuda
count ur blessings i had to watch cats the musical before i could get my wrigs to fall the fuck asleep
caepaecaesurae
You havwe wvrigglers?
I feel like I should havwe knowvn, sorry for the inobservwance.
brackishbarracuda
i dont talk aboat them much
naut publicly anyway
brackishbarracuda
too much shit can go wrong
but yeah i got five a them
caepaecaesurae
It's easier to protect something no one knowvs about.
Gods, that seems daunting.
brackishbarracuda
i mean they aint mine i kinda inherited them but they mine u feel
cept one
ones actually mine
caepaecaesurae
I believwe Arlequin had a fewv sprung on him wvhen it turned out one of his flings came from a timeline wvith interesting biology.
He adores havwing a massivwe family for church reasons though.
brackishbarracuda
yeah
caepaecaesurae
May I ask about the inheritance?
brackishbarracuda
bouy seems pike hed b happy just havin em drip off him while he fucks around in the kitchen
caepaecaesurae
That's fairly accurate, aye.
brackishbarracuda
dead red
caepaecaesurae
I'm sorry.
brackishbarracuda
they didnt really have anybody else
me and the rails look after em
caepaecaesurae
Good that someone or something does.
If you havwen't ended up lusus-bonding wvith them yet you might be able to get them lusii in a timeline somewvhere. I suspect you havwe though, by the sound of it.
brackishbarracuda
loz would raise from his fuckin ashes and haunt my ass if i ever got rid a them especially now
brackishbarracuda
theyre mine
caepaecaesurae
I'm glad you care for them.
I'm...familiar wvith the concept from Beforus, and from my moirail's family. It's not something I'vwe personally evwer wvanted, but I'm glad it suits you.
Are they young, still ?
brackishbarracuda
it aint someifn i ever personally wanted either tbpfh w u
little shits grow on u
yeah
caepaecaesurae
Has Arlequin met them yet?
brackishbarracuda
ach is the oldest and shes under five sweeps and ayas the youngest and shes in a coon rn
i think we planned on it but it aint happened yet
brackishbarracuda
lotta shit goin on rn
caepaecaesurae
I suspect he'd enjoy it quite a bit. He adores spoiling wvrigglers.
brackishbarracuda
yeah i can sea that lmao
hes a big cod damn nerd
brackishbarracuda
hey i got a question
caepaecaesurae
Aye?
Fire at wvill.
brackishbarracuda
do u no anybody youd trust w a needle
pike tattoos
do u think arlequin would kno anybody in the church oar
caepaecaesurae
I knowv Porrim has a studio here, though I'd havwe to gently feel out howv she feels about seadwvellers. I'm sure Arlequin knowvs howv to apply tattoos in the old wvay, wvith hand-made tools and ointments rather than wvhat one wvould vwisualise in a modern tattoo parlor.
I'm sure Nadaya wvould knowv someone, and could ask, if that wvould be of use.
brackishbarracuda
idk if i trust his evaluation of i trust u naut to kill me while u do this
but yeah if u could ask around so i got options id afishiate it
tbh isle still probubbly sea what arlequin can do seein as i already trust him
caepaecaesurae
Arlequin I wvould trust completely to do blackwvork. If he specifically says he can do brilliant colors and gradients, I'd believwe him on those too.
I trust Nadaya not to put other people into stupid situations. He tries plenty of things himself he wvould not consider for others.
brackishbarracuda
thats fair
caepaecaesurae
I'll see if I can put together a list for you -- and I'll mention wvho each recommendation came from, as wvell. I'vwe been somewvhat tempted to look into it myself, I just havwen't been able to think of a design I wvanted.
At least anything that wvasn't somewvhat trashy.
brackishbarracuda
hell let it be trashy
caepaecaesurae
References to the Kraken
brackishbarracuda
lMAO
caepaecaesurae
A tramp stamp, if I could bring myself to it
brackishbarracuda
PLZ I N-E-ED T)(IS
caepaecaesurae
Haha
Gods. Maybe.
brackishbarracuda
oh my shi t
absofuckinlutely i am behind this
and behind u so i can stare at it
caepaecaesurae
I appreciate the vwote of confidence.
"This side up"
brackishbarracuda
im la ughign i swear to fuck
man embrace that shit
caepaecaesurae
On the one hand, yes.
On the other, if I don't, I can fake being a vwery dignified older man at wvill.
And people wvho don't knowv me wvill believwe it.
brackishbarracuda
i mean thats fair but u can do that w some paint an sealer
caepaecaesurae
..Oddly true. Of course, I could put on a vwariety of different tramp stamps at wvill in the same wvay.
brackishbarracuda
embrace ur inner trash prince
caepaecaesurae
You are a terrible influence, but I'm almost intrigued enough to put together a selfie.
brackishbarracuda
i am tho
caepaecaesurae
This Side Up is the best one I can think of. Maybe a reference to the Gunshowv
WVhat are some other good ones, vwisible from the front?
I am preparing something.
brackishbarracuda
suns out guns out has alwaves been a personal fav
isle ahab ur crosshairs idfk
visual pun
put ahabs on ur bicep
caepaecaesurae
Oh, perfect
brackishbarracuda
i am all for this please dear cod
also ur attractive just fyi
caepaecaesurae
Thank you, I appreciate that. You as wvell, from the pictures I'vwe seen.
brackishbarracuda
the reactions ur getting are worth this shit alone
caepaecaesurae
Oh, aye, I need to do this more often.
brackishbarracuda
u reely do i almost wanna reblog the dam thing again
caepaecaesurae
One feature of tumblr that I personally appreciate is the ability to schedule posts to go off at pre-determined times years into the future.
brackishbarracuda
oh my shit
ohhh my shit
caepaecaesurae
And you look at your dashboard, and you ask yourself "WVhen did I reblog that -- Oh. Ohhhhhhhhh right."
brackishbarracuda
i am here for this
brackishbarracuda
plz at least keep the gun
caepaecaesurae
Hah. I don't knowv. The tiny one?
brackishbarracuda
yeah
i mean its easily hidden w sleeves an its a good ice breaker
caepaecaesurae
It is at that.
If I did, I'd probably ask Arlequin to apply it for real. Things I imagine into place are easy to imagine awvay again.
brackishbarracuda
i nearly said id imagine so and stopped myself
wtf me
caepaecaesurae
I can imagine it, and I wvouldn't havwe caught it.
brackishbarracuda
hes doin aight if ur currious thats my rails
caepaecaesurae
I'm glad he is.
brackishbarracuda
i get over excited about the bouys so i apologize in advance
caepaecaesurae
Hah. Both vvic and his brother?
Enthusiasm is a blessing, enjoy it.
brackishbarracuda
yeah
f reel tho they aint get out much so im over here wavin a lil flag when they talk to ppl on their own
caepaecaesurae
I havwe a fewv friends like that.
Thankfully theyvwe started getting along wvith one another, wvhich is nice.
brackishbarracuda
tru tf to that
Last Wednesday at 6:44 PM
brackishbarracuda
are u sugestin arlequin is a wrong choice
caepaecaesurae
No, I just knowv Arlequin wvell and don't knowv if he knowvs him.
Arlequin making more positivwe social contacts is good.
brackishbarracuda
(that was a joke )
tru af tho
caepaecaesurae
I'm not that great at jokes if the punchline is someone being offended, if I'm honest.
brackishbarracuda
aight fair
caepaecaesurae
Sorry, chief.
brackishbarracuda
nah u aint got anyfin to apologize for
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