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#I am dreadfully familiar with this certain flavour of existing where i feel so cold and unknown right next to someone because they just dont
feralhogs
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#Vent vent
#Chatty
#And its the most aggravating that she uses all the moral sounding arguments that totally do not apply! Like calling stuff toxic
#I was literally so fucking civil to her. What would a decent fucking person do?
#Oh shit. What did i do? Can i fix the problem? Are you okay? Nope. We go right to the blowup
#I know theyre all fucking symptoms or whatever i literally do not care at this point. Theyre her symptoms not mine!
#Why should I pay the price?
#And there goes all my patience loyalty forgiveness understanding therapisting momming from the year I roomed with her
#I did nothing for her. I didnt care about her. Apparently.
#She was being patient with me. You know when she was shitting all over any dream i told her about
#I feel like such a robot being so technical about this but its because i have never been safe enough to really be warm and open with her
#And if i was warm and open it was really stupid of me like throwing pearls before swine and being deliberately blind to reality...
#I am dreadfully familiar with this certain flavour of existing where i feel so cold and unknown right next to someone because they just dont
#Have it in them to see you or ask how youre doing or anything and deep down you believe
#Im not loved and its true! You arent loved by that person. And this family member who is supposed to really really be there for you loves yo
#U less than a stranger on the street and you have to tell yourself no this is love
#Just a different kind you have to lie to yourself
#And feel like I guess this is my life now
#And i feel small and doomed and resigned to the isolation which i guess is how i got thru it as a child...
#What a load of disgusting people. They are not worth it. I dont want to be a bleeding heart anymore and give them little scraps of having a
#Corteous relationship with me because its like the universe patting them on the head and saying you did a good job see?
#Is that worth a week of troubled dreams?
#They could play pretend in their delusion so I could have shitty dreams?
#Hmmmmm literally none of it is my problem
#My parents mental cage of denial not my problem
#Thats their puzzle to go to pains to put together isnt it?
#Is my sister getting a powerpoint of how shes ruined my life? Noooo that would make it way too easy for her. No answer key for these people.
#I could! But i wont.
#I could worry and caretake! And dim my opinions to soothe them! But i wont.
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