#I feel like I'm less personable on this blog just bc it's reserved more for horknee thoughts 😭

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I speak for myself and some ppl that we don’t like Layla bc she appears way more than Shanola and Kate’s husband and Jeremy’s ex wife, and her body language with Noel is always different from other spouses of the cast. She does nothing wrong if Noel and other cast members are ok with that, but out love for Noel is fading because of such pattern of posting, I know they couldn’t care less and I’m just ranting

By "they" not caring, you mean Noel and Layla? I understand what you're getting at.

I know I've said it before on this blog, but if you take the role of Mickey Milkovich out of Noel's career and he just becomes that dude from Twilight, The Riches and whatever else he's been in, would anything about him or his wife matter to anyone? Like you might stumble on his instagram in passing, lay eyes on her, notice that they seem like a visual mismatch, maybe even look her up for two seconds, just to determine her name or something, and probably move on, right? I assume it's how you'd feel about most mid-level actors that you recognize but have no investment in.

It's how I feel about her. She's just this person who exists, but I pay very little mind to her because I see no reason to. I understand from your post that she irks you because her behavior feels comparatively more intrusive than the other cast mates' spouses. For example, in pictures, she's got a leg draped on him, once pre-Shameless and once post-Shameless. She also sometimes inserts herself in group shots that seem reserved for just core cast, but there she is anyway.

So, let's say Cam and Noel were a real-life couple and Cam would reunite occasionally with his buddies from Gotham. In this scenario, Noel, because he really liked the show, befriended certain members of that cast in real life and even got a small part through his connections to Cam. Would it bother you the same way to see Noel intrude on all things Gotham and show possessive behavior in pics with Cam when it was clear that the other Gotham spouses were much more reserved by comparison? 🤔 Maybe you would. Who knows?

At the end of the day, I don't question anyone's dislike of her to the extent that I'm trying to reframe their point of view. I'm just trying to convey my own objectivity when it comes to her because it's easier for me to accept that certain people are who they are, and that's that. It's my choice whether to hyperfixate on them in a way that impacts me negatively or clear them altogether from my purview and stay neutral. So that's the path I choose and that's why I choose it.