#I hope the counsel judging him includes everyone who had to deal with his entitled ass. Because I will not be merciful or kind

[astral-catastrophe]

Momma doesn’t want her opinions of my dad to change my views on him, yet in reality, my respect for him had diminished two ish years ago when he didn’t trust my mom with something they were both being secretive about, but as the smart and eldest daughter I was able to piece it all together.

In reality he is a manipulative and selfish bastard who cares for nothing other than himself, despite his claims that he loves the siblings and I.

If you really loved us, you would be more considerate and flexible and kind. You haven’t been kind. You have been awful and said awful stuff about my mother that is not true. Anything she has said about you is stuff that I not already knew, but is stuff that is visible.

maybe I truly am just my mother’s child, but I can’t deal with a father who isn’t nice to me, isn’t nice to my siblings, and most importantly, is so fucking awful to my mother.

I want him to stop trying to fix whatever he thought he broke. Reality is that I haven’t trusted him in years because when I did go to him, he never helped with shit. He never actually helped and made stuff worse because he always tries for peace but never understood that my situations didn’t need peace I needed someone to take away the person who mentally abused and manipulated me but he instead instigated her by not stopping her from anything. Despite my complaints and his so called superior knowledge just because he’s a fucking adult.

I COULDNT HAVE STOPPED ANYTHING MY EX BEST FRIEND DID BY BEING NICE. I WAS OBLY EVER NUCE AND SEE WHAT THAT GOT ME?? TRUST ISSUES. SELF WORTH ISSUES. MILD BODY DYSMORPHIA. I CANT ENJOY MUSICALS OR WEAR HEADBANDS OR WEAR SPARKLY SHIRTS OR KEEP MY HAIR LONG. ALL BECAUSE OF HER AND HE DIDNT TRY TO HELP DESPITE MY ASKING

yea you’re a fucking adult, but that means you should be the protector of your family and should trust them so you can help them. Not whatever you did. You did everything wrong, hated father of mine