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So uh. Guess who just got an Official Diagnosis™.

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13 Everyday Things You Do That Can Get You Sued (and How To Protect Yourself)

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13 Everyday Things You Do That Can Get You Sued (and How To Protect Yourself)

Sharing a funny picture online

Cassie Urban/rd.com, ShutterstockLove that funny meme that’s been going around? Resist the temptation to share it on your Facebook or Instagram, as taking pictures from the internet and posting them to your blog or social media can open you up to a copyright lawsuit, says Tanisia Nicole Moore, a virtual intellectual property lawyer at Moore Legal Solutions, LLC. “We are all guilty of sharing an image online, but what most people don’t realize is that these images are protected through copyright law,” she explains. “The owner of the image can then sue you for using their work without permission.” This is true even for images that don’t have a watermark or visible copyright symbol or were posted years ago, nor does it matter if you weren’t the original person to share the image. These online-sharing copyright lawsuits have exploded in recent years, and any person who posts any picture or video they don’t personally own is vulnerable to getting sued for thousands of dollars for a goofy cat picture they posted ten years ago.

Protect yourself: Only post your own pictures or videos that you’ve taken yourself with your own equipment or purchase an image from a reputable stock photo site. And whatever you do, stop passing on funny pictures or videos others send you and immediately delete any existing on your social media accounts, even if they’re years old.

Slamming your ex on Facebook

Seasontime/ShutterstockYou may think you’re just venting to friends by sharing sordid details about an ex lover or friend on Facebook, but if there’s any part of what you’re saying that might not be 100 percent true, the law sees it as “defamation”—and you can be sued for it, says Paul H. Cannon, attorney and shareholder at Simmons and Fletcher, PC. “Social media has become such a common part of life that people forget that anything you write on social media is a publication, so if you write a false statement about someone online and it causes them harm to their reputation or financial loss, you can be sued for slander,” he explains. It’s true: In 2012, a Texas couple was awarded 13.8 million dollars after someone defamed them online.

Protect yourself: “As hard as it is, the best way to avoid a slander or libel lawsuit is to keep your criticisms to yourself,” he says. Or if you have to vent, don’t do it in writing and especially not online.

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Leaving a bad Yelp review

Tero Vesalainen/ShutterstockIf you’ve ever had a bad experience at a business your first instinct may be to go online and share all the dirty details. On one hand, this can help you get the problems resolved and help other customers avoid getting taken for a ride by unethical business owners. But this can also open up innocent businesses to undeserved hate and loss of revenue.”As humans, we sometimes have a tendency to get outraged when we do not think we have been treated fairly. This can lead to embellishment of what really happened,” Cannon says. “However you may find yourself sued for libel if you leave a very bad review.”

Protect yourself: Before hitting “submit” on your diatribe, ensure that all the statements you make about a company are verifiable facts that you can prove rather than your opinion about the company, Cannon says. If you must share your opinion, preface it by saying “in my opinion,” he adds. Always follow these etiquette rules for complaining on social media.

Getting hit by another driver

iMoved Studio/ShutterstockThink that because you’ve got basic car insurance you’re good? You may be meeting the requirements of the law but you may still be vulnerable to lawsuits if you don’t carry enough “underinsured motorist” coverage. Ironically, you can end up being sued by creditors if you’re in an accident caused by another driver who has no or not enough car insurance, says Andrew Winters, personal injury lawyer with Cohen & Winters, PLLC. If your insurance isn’t enough to make up the difference, you can end up with large out-of-pocket payments that you can be sued over if you don’t have enough money to cover them, he explains.

Protect yourself: Buy at least as much underinsured motorist coverage as you would need to replace ten years of lost wages, he says. For most people this means having an umbrella insurance policy, making sure to select underinsured motorist as part of that coverage.

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Posting your kid’s dance video on YouTube

LightField Studios/ShutterstockProud parents gotta post proud videos, right? That’s all well and good, as long as you’re not including copyrighted music—say, in a dance recital, impromptu living room jam session, lip sync battle, stage play, or other popular kid activity, Moore says. You can be sued for stealing intellectual property and, no, posting “I don’t own the rights to this song” with the video or crediting the artist doesn’t excuse you. “I usually chuckle when I see this disclaimer, as this means nothing,” she says. “I know adding music to our videos helps set the mood, but you need to be careful not to infringe on the songwriter’s rights.”

Protect yourself: Don’t use music in your videos, or stick to songs that are considered royalty free, Moore says.

Putting in a backyard pool

Golden Pixels LLC/ShutterstockSwimming pools can be a highlight of summertime. After all, who doesn’t love to jump, swim, and dive into the water on a hot day? Unfortunately this is also what makes your pool an “attractive nuisance” to neighborhood children. If a child comes onto your property and is injured or, heaven forbid, drowns while swimming in your pool, you can be sued, says Christopher Earley, a personal injury attorney in Boston. This is true even if you’re not home and you did not give them permission to swim, he adds.

Protect yourself: Keep your pool covered when not in use, surround it with a locked fence, and post “no trespassing” signs.

Selling your crafts online

Alim Yakubov/ShutterstockFor hobbyists, the internet is the greatest invention since sliced bread. You can connect with others who share your passion, get tips, and even sell your products—turning your favorite hobby into a profitable side hustle. However, if you’re going to sell things online, be warned that you are in charge of securing and protecting all your customers’ data, even if computers aren’t your thing. “Cyber security is potentially the next big area of lawsuits we’re seeing in the U.S. and abroad,” says Nicholas Dowgul, attorney at Felton Banks, PLLC, in Raleigh, North Carolina. “If you own a website and you do nothing (or not enough) to prevent cyber attacks, you could be sued for negligence if your customer’s data is compromised and they suffer damages as a result.”

Protect yourself: Don’t skimp on online security. Hire a professional to make sure your website is secure or use a service that exists for the purpose of helping people sell things securely online, like Etsy or eBay. And make sure you’re not falling for these common money scams.

Asking your coworker about their recent surgery

Dmitri Ma/ShutterstockWorkplace banter has become a hotbed of controversy lately and it’s more important than ever to make sure all your comments are kind, courteous, professional, and can’t be misconstrued, Dowgul says. If someone, particularly a subordinate, is offended by something you say, your company may be held liable and, depending on the situation, you could also be personally sued and/or fired, he explains. “You may think it’s nothing more than playful banter or good-natured ribbing but someone else may see it as discrimination or a hostile work environment,” he says.

Protect yourself: Keep conversations with employees cordial and mainly about work. It’s okay to ask someone how their weekend went, but don’t pry into details of their personal life, he says.

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Getting married

KirylV/ShutterstockIt’s sad but true: One of the happiest events in your life is also often one of the most common, if not the most common, reasons people get sued. No one wants to think that their true love will end in bitterness but it’s something you need to consider before walking down the aisle. “The fact is that about 50 percent of marriages will end in divorce and most divorces involve a messy lawsuit,” says Paul Mitassov, a lawyer practicing in Toronto, Canada.

Protect yourself: “Prenuptial agreements will minimize your risk exposure,” he says. “Get one.” It’s not the most romantic conversation you’ll have with your fiancee, but it may be one of the most important. Just make sure yours is a good one, unlike these ridiculous prenups.

Getting tagged in a picture on Instagram

Adam Hoglund/Shutterstock“Social media is the new ‘paper trail’ and the worst part is most people don’t even realize they are making one,” says Nicole Sodoma, family law attorney and Managing Principal, Sodoma Law. What may seem like a fun vacation pic with your new love can give a lot of unintentional information like your location, clues to your wealth, and your current relationship status—all of which can be used to sue you, she explains. “For example, posting a cute picture with your girlfriend to Facebook before your divorce has been finalized can result in an ‘alienation of affection’ lawsuit, impact an alimony claim, hurt settlement negotiations, and much more,” she says. This is true even if you don’t post the picture yourself, like when a friend tags you without your knowledge. These are other photos you should never post on social media.

Protect yourself: It’s tough in this age of oversharing but ideally take a social media break for anything personal, she says. And, don’t forget that text messages and emails are considered evidence too.

Tagging someone else in a picture on Facebook

kurhan/ShutterstockFrom a legal standpoint, social media is the source of all evil these days. Not only can getting tagged in a picture open you up to a lawsuit but so can tagging others, says Kevin Adkins, attorney with the Kenmore Law Group. “Many people may post a slew of photos to their Facebooks or Instagrams and tag everyone in them but if you don’t have their permission you can get hit with a lawsuit,” he explains. Everyone has “the right of publicity,” so if you produce or share their likeness without their permission, or post pictures of them in a way that gets them in trouble (like tagging a picture of a friend drunk at a party, which causes them to get fired from their job), they could sue you.

Protect yourself: Always ask for permission before you tag someone in a picture, he says. Or, better yet, don’t tag anyone and tell people to tag themselves if they like.

Taking a video at the park

Ivica Drusany/ShutterstockWhen something scary, interesting, or upsetting happens, your first instinct may be to pull out your phone and start recording the scene. Unfortunately these videos may be illegal and open you up to a lawsuit, says Thomas J. Simeone, lawyer with Simeone & Miller, LLP, in Washington D.C. “People take videos all the time these days and routinely include strangers or unsuspecting people in the content, but if you live in a ‘two-party’ state you must have permission to record a conversation or else you could be sued, even if the recording was inadvertent,” he explains. “This includes not only videos taken in public, but also security camera [footage].”

Protect yourself: Don’t record people without their permission; and when making a video be careful not to include bystanders.

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Walking your dog

Monkey Business Images/Shutterstock“Many people believe that if their dog has never bitten anyone in the past, they cannot be liable the first time that it does, which is a myth,” says Simeone. In most states, if your dog previously displayed any aggressive or violent tendencies, such as barking at strangers and cars—which nearly all dogs do—that could make you liable for a later dog bite, he explains.

Protect yourself: Always keep your dog on a tight leash, he says. If your dog does bite someone, one of the first questions that will be asked is whether the dog was on a leash, as many cities have mandatory leash laws, the breaking of which makes you liable. Even in the absence of such a law, failing to have your dog on a leash can be used to argue that you failed to control your dog and prevent the attack.

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I'm very headtilt at childhood-friends-to-lovers as a trope, potentially because I rather cynically see childhood friends as "people who you briefly hung out with because they were in your immediate proximity", and adulthood as an opportunity to escape your immediate social circles and find people who you're actually compatible with on a deeper level.

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Me: I tend to make worse eye contact in emotionally charged situations.

Psychologist: That's a good observation.

Me, internally: I've made one (1) clear and lucid statement about myself that I'm entirely confident in. This is great. I'm going to get a good grade in autism assessment, something that is both normal to want and possible to achieve,

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I still can't for the life of me tell if my affective empathy is high or low, but what I can tell is that it's contrarian af. The more you try to make me empathise, the more resistant I'll be, but if there's a circumstance where it's made clear to me I'm absolutely not supposed to empathise with someone guess what's going to happen?

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I'm just now realising that a childhood full of me driving away potential friends by being too clingy and obsessive has made me afraid to ever seem like I'm genuinely enthusiastic to talk to someone rather than just tolerating the interaction.

....in retrospect, the source of this was incredibly obvious. Oops.

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I am doing significantly better than I was this time last year, if only by virtue of the fact that I haven't panicked and ghosted any of my professors, but I mean that bar is so far underground it woke a fucking balrog so I'm still nowhere near the level of functionality I need to be doing "decently".

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It is a truth universally acknowledged that if I am faced with an awkward situation to resolve I will find the worst possible solution that causes maximum offence and inconvenience to as large a number of parties as possible.

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8,10,20 for the ask game?

8: are you a jealous person?

Not anymore! I... will admit I used to be very possessive of my friends when I was younger (much younger - I mean under 13 years old), because I didn't have many and was insecure about the idea of them ignoring me for someone else, which did have a habit of happening. But I've matured since then, so between learning to be comfortable on my own, and having had enough experience with friendships secure enough I didn't constantly feel like I was about to be ditched for someone else to realise that the ones where I did feel that were weak friendships to start with, and the realisation that I need to take responsibility for my own feelings and not blame someone else for them, I don't really get jealous at all.

This does mean that I have very little patience for other people's jealousy, either, though. It should help me understand them better, but instead I'm just left going "I was able to grow past this, why haven't you?". Which is probably uncharitable and mean, so I don't say it, but I do feel it sometimes.

10: Do you believe in ghosts?

No. I'm that boring skeptic atheist... someone... warned you about. Not sure who warned you, probably tumblr? I try to be respectful of belief in the supernatural so long as me bluntly stating my lack thereof isn't perceived as disrespectful all on its own, but... it would probably take something reasonably significant to make me believe in the supernatural, and it would have to be something that can't be explained as just brain weirdness.

20: Do you feel loved?

Just answered!

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4, 7, 9, 13?

4: do you smile at strangers?

Well... I'm pretty sure the process of smiling at strangers is supposed to be "eyes meet, one of you smiles, other smiles back", and I am terrible at eye contact so... That doesn't quite work for me. On the rare occasion I do make eye contact I try, but I'm pretty sure it's very awkward.

7: Would you ever cheat on someone?

Um. No? What do you expect me to say to this, "yes sure of course I'd deceive someone I love"?

But, to be honest, I can't even imagine being tempted to. It would ruin both my relationship with the person I'd be cheating on and cheating with (the second might claim it won't but I'd find it hard to believe - it would certainly make it impossible for our relationship to feel legitimate) so I don't get the point - unless people do it out of pure sexual attraction? In which case sex is really just not that important to me.

If I start to feel interest in someone while dating someone else, I'd simply bring it up to them - if I am dating them I trust them to be someone I can have difficult conversations with. If it's a dealbreaker I'd decide who is more important to me but that isn't really likely tbh, since every relationship I've been in or even just potentially negotiated hypothetical terms for has been open/polyamourous anyway. Which is less because I want to date more than one person and more because I wouldn't want to stand in the way of my partner dating someone else they love. (Though even if it doesn't actually come up I think I'd be uncomfortable dating someone who outright forbid it, because it would feel... possessive).

So, yeah. It annoys me when people try to prove how virtuous they are by going "I just don't understand how someone could do that, aren't I so good and pure?" but I genuinely don't understand why someone would cheat. Do they just... not value the integrity of their relationships at all? Communicate with your partner! That's the point of dating them!

9: what's the worst pick-up line someone's ever tried on you?

...Awfully bold of you to assume people regularly try pick up lines on me. But I can give you the most awkward attempt at "picking me up" anyone's ever made. I was on a walk with a guy who was intensely reminding me of my ex. So then he says something like "you're quite attractive, you know?". And my brain goes "reminds me of my ex" -> "called me attractive" -> "my ex has called me attractive" -> "Yeah, I've been told that before" and just blurts the last one out. Without thinking.

I then clarified I'm not into men, and we never spoke again. The funny thing is I am nowhere near as confident in my looks as this makes me sound - my brain just short circuited at spat out entirely accidental cockiness.

13: what's something you've tried once and would never do again?

Dating a man :).

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Me: I think I might be on the autistic spectrum, but I don't want to draw any conclusions because I could just be a neurotypical person not understanding what the criteria really are.

My therapist, after less than two sessions during which I didn't mention any of the above thought process: Have you ever considered you might be on the autistic spectrum?

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I really love some of you.

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I am not going to crush on a straight girl with a boyfriend. I am not going to crush on a straight girl with a boyfriend. I have more self-respect than this.

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I've come to the conclusion that I can't tell the difference between "really trying" and "not really trying" (when it comes to myself, that is).

How do I know if I lack willpower because I'm "not really trying" or if I've genuinely exhausted it?

Sometimes when I reach a certain state of exhaustion, I will just give up. Completely. And I know I could keep going, but I also know progress would be incremental and the drain on my energy would not be worth it. Is that "not really trying"? From the outside it would certainly look that way.

And all these questions would be easier to answer if my threshold for exhaustion were reasonably high. And... sometimes it is. But when I crash it can stay absurdly low for long periods of time and during that time it certainly looks like I'm not trying.

And it's easy to say that I am trying my best when I want to get things done, but otherwise, how do I tell if I don't care anymore because I'm unmotivated or if I'm legitimately too tired to care?