#I'll see them a couple of times per year and we'll say hi and thats fine for me. I do that the bear minimum because i know for my mother it | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

mrfoox · 2 years

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The few times I suprise people or have them disagree badly its usually concerning family and relative logic

If no one knows anything of my family or that situation they'd probably think im a big fan of family bc im generally caring and loving but man....

In my opinion, if an person is an asshole or overall just very bad for your mental health and they are unwilling or unable to change... You don't owe them your time. Ive had people argue with me about it and that's fine everyone thinks differently but imo... 'sharing blood' doesn't mean you owe them your time and health etc

I'd rather invest time and love into the people who are good to me back, whether we share blood or not

#miranda talking shit #Ive had more than one person get uncomfortable or suprised when i just say i dont.... Love or want to see 80% of my family #I'll see them a couple of times per year and we'll say hi and thats fine for me. I do that the bear minimum because i know for my mother it #Matters. I can do that for her but i am not going to go out of my way to see them or talk to them...#My mom is the only one i love and care about in the family. My oldest brother and i have gotten an better relationship as we've aged #So he's second place but uh... My sister and other older brother? I'll say hi to them and answer if they talk to me but thats that #Lets not talk about dad wjjengkskwmdo yooo :')#Nah but people probably think im unreasonable or cold or something for thinking this way but yeah #For me thats the situation and i think no one should force themselves so much for people who treat them bad etc #'but you share blood you have an connection that-' yeah but that doesnt mean they are owed my time or love.#Family #This is a bit of an vent no im not here to argue but like goddamn

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