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Good Vibes Only: All About Insertable Vibrators

Insertable vibrators are like the little black dress of the vibrator world. Simple, versatile, and sexy. By definition, these are vibrators that are meant to be inserted into the vagina but in reality, they are fantastic beginner vibes for just about any purpose. 

It wasn't that long ago that insertable vibrators came in one shape. Long, relatively slim, and with a curved tip. You could find them sold as "personal massagers," targeted at women to release shoulder tension and headaches. 

That classic shape is still with us today and for good reason. The simple turn dial on the bottom means no fumbling with complicated buttons, the shape is fantastic for internal vibration as well as external stimulation to the clitoris and the plastic material transmits vibration powerfully and effectively. 

Of course, there is now a huge array of insertable vibrators available for your pleasure, so let's take a look at what is out there and what may be the perfect insertable vibrator for you. 

  ** Side note: We are going to focus on one armed vibrators in this rundown. In other words, no rabbit this time around!

WHAT IS AN INSERTABLE VIBRATOR

A vibrator designed to be inserted in the vagina of the user.

They are often not suitable for anal use because they do not have a flared base or stopper you need to prevent anal over-insertion

They are generally about 4 inches in length or more to make for a satisfying internal feeling

They come in many different shapes and colours and materials

You can get rechargeable or battery operated

A longer "one branch" vibrator ie. not a rabbit or dual stimulator

They often, but not always, have a curve for amazing g-spot stimulation

THE CLASSIC INSERTABLE VIBRATOR

As shown above, this shape has been around for decades. Their slim shape makes them fantastic for beginners or anybody who does not like a fuller feeling. They can also be incredibly budget friendly, particularly if you opt for a battery operated, turn dial model like this Doc Johnson Velvet Touch Vibrator (pictured above).

G-SPOT INSERTABLE VIBRATORS

    The biggest difference with g-spot vibrators is their shape. When exploring internally, the g-spot can be found about an inch inside the vagina on the front wall, so it is best stimulated when you crook your fingers in a beckoning motion. That is why g-spot vibrators have that distinctive curve either in the entire arm or towards the tip, so that when you insert it, you will automatically have a vibrator that is aiming for this intense pleasure point.  

REALISTIC INSERTABLE VIBRATORS 

  Realistic insertable vibrators can also be called vibrating dildos because they have the shape and look of a penis. These are fantastic for anybody who wants something softer for insertion because they are often covered in soft silicone or other materials over a firm core where the motor resides. They can also have a suction cup which lends itself to creative fun. 

WHO SHOULD USE INSERTABLE VIBRATORS?

  Anybody who does not like clitoral stimulation or finds it too sensitive for vibration

Beginners looking for something simple and affordable

Couples who want to explore foreplay with vibration

Anybody curious about internal vaginal stimulation

G-spot seekers looking to explore 

OTHER AMAZING USES FOR INSERTABLE VIBRATORS

Stimulating the clitoris

Stroking the skin, nipples, perineum, testicles, or other sensitive areas

Acting as a long handled bullet for anybody with mobility and reach issues. 

To soothe headaches by placing on the temples of back of the neck

There are some great budget friendly choices for insertable vibrators that are ideal for the exploratory beginner or you can go for a rechargeable power house guaranteed to make your toes curl. Either way, Naughty North has something for you and if you ever need help choosing, you can email our experienced staff at info@naughtynorth.ca

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The G-Spot: Everything You Need to Know

If you have heard of the g-spot but don’t know much about it, you are like the majority of Canadian women. Many of us have vague ideas that it is a spot in our vaginas that is supposed to bring incredibly intense orgasms when stimulated but that’s about as far as our knowledge goes.

We at Naughty North pride ourselves on educating and informing our customers, so let’s take a look at this mysterious pleasure center so you can decide for yourself if g-spot stimulation is right for you.

IS THE G-SPOT REAL?

The truth is that science still has no consensus on the existence of the g-spot. The truth may be that the g-spot exists in some bodies but not others. Another theory is that the g-spot is less one specific spot and more an area of the vagina that can feel pleasurable for some folks when it is stimulated. And, of course, many believe that the g-spot is very much alive and well in all bodies, has a specific location, and responds well to a certain kind of stimulation.

WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?

The g-spot is a short-form for the Gräfenberg spot, named for the gynecologist who first made the discovery. It is in an area called the urethral sponge which can be sexually responsive. It is a bundle of nerves located about 1-3 inches into your vagina along the inner wall (out towards your belly button) – about halfway between your vaginal opening and cervix.

WHAT DOES THE G-SPOT FEEL LIKE?

Many people say it feels a bit rough, bumpy, or ridged, like the surface of a walnut. Others say pressing on it feels like pressing on the tip of your nose. It should be about 1 inch in diameter and will feel rougher than the rest of your vaginal wall. If you are turned on when you are searching, it may be easier to find, since it can become larger with arousal.

THE BEST WAY TO FIND THE G-SPOT

I am going to recommend that your first quest for the g-spot be a solo mission. If you can find it on your own, then you can direct a partner to get in on the action later. It is also very important to already be aroused when you start to explore because this will engorge your g-spot and make it easier to find.

When you’re ready, lay on your back and plant your feet with your knees up. Use two fingers and insert them into your vagina palm up. This will allow you to crook your fingers towards your belly button in a come-hither motion that seems to be quite effective in g-spot searching.

A g-spot vibrator can help because they have the type of bulbous end and curve that will help seek out where you are most sensitive. In addition, vibrators are generally firm, and many people with g-spots find that a firmer type of stimulation is more effective in arousing the g-spot

HOW WILL I KNOW IF I’VE FOUND IT?

If you’re having trouble finding the right spot with your fingers, or can’t identify an area that feels different to the touch, don’t get frustrated. The g-spot responds well to firm, steady pressure so you may want to reach for a toy. Some people like vibration, some don’t but maybe start with a g-spot curved vibrator turned off and see where it gets you first before adding vibration.

Many people describe g-spot stimulation as feeling the need to pee and this stops them from going any further. This is because you’re stimulating an area that is part of the urethral sponge. All the better reason to explore alone at first and empty your bladder before starting out. If you are uncomfortable with the feeling, you are going to clench your PC muscles (the ones you clench to stop from peeing) and that is the exact opposite of what you’re looking for. Ride the feeling, and keep applying firm pressure to the spot that feels the best. Put a towel under you if you’re worried and just see what happens.

  DOES EVERYBODY LIKE G-SPOT STIMULATION

We cannot stress this enough. G-spot stimulation is NOT for everybody. Some may find the kind of stimulation we describe above incredibly uncomfortable. Some may not have that sensitive spot at all. And, crucially, studies show that up to 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm so odds of you having orgasms from g-spot stimulation alone are pretty slim.

As we mentioned earlier, not everybody responds to g-spot stimulation and not everybody enjoys it, so don’t get frustrated. The g-spot is not the holy grail of sexual pleasure. It is just another potential way to experience sexual pleasure in your body.

Naughty North has an excellent selection of g-spot vibrators to help you seek out this ultimate pleasure. Just <<CLICK HERE>> to shop.

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Naughty North's Top 20 Sex Toys of 2020 Chosen by YOU

The year 2020 was one that a lot of us may want to forget and we at Naughty North certainly thought twice about even writing a ‘best of’ list this year. What changed our minds? It was you, our customers. You came to us with questions about reconnecting with your partner in lockdown, or connecting long distance during a forced separation. Many of you were seeking sex toys for the first time as a way to find pleasure during uncertain times. 

We decided to give you this peek into which sex toys your fellow Canadians were buying in 2020 so you can see you weren’t alone. And maybe it will give you some fun ideas on how to start of 2021!

GUARANTEED FUN FOR COUPLES NEAR AND FAR

Whether it was bluetooth compatible toys to be used across continents or up close and personal toys for long nights in lockdown, couples toys topped our bestsellers list month after month. 

We-Vibe Chorus Remote & App Controlled Couples' Vibrator

Eva II Hands-Free Silicone Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator by Dame

Lush Ava Remote Controlled Couples' Vibrator

TOP PICKS OF THE POWERHOUSE PLEASURE SEEKERS

2020 seemed to be the year of bold, powerful choices for seeking pleasure. Rumbly wands and thrusting vibrators were flying out of the store like never before and these were your top picks.

Magic Wand Original Wand Vibrator

We-Vibe Wand Cordless Waterproof Rechargeable Wand Vibrator

California Dreaming Orange County Cutie Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator

Fantasy For Her Ultimate Pleasure Double Ended Vibrator

Fantasy For Her Thrusting Heating Waterproof Silicone Rabbit

QUIET AND DISCREET PLEASURE IN LOCKDOWN

Lockdown meant a bit too much time with those in our bubbles and a lack of privacy for many of us. We had lots of requests for small, quiet, and discreet but these two were your top picks for orgasms on the downlow.

Exposed Estelle Powerful 10 Function Bullet Vibrator

Zumio E Powerful Oscillating Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

  SISTERS ARE DOING IT FOR THEMSELVES 

G-spot vibrators and air pulsation toys for the clitoris were more popular than ever before. Seems like a lot of you knew just what kind of pleasure you wanted and exactly how to get it. 

California Dreaming Surf City Centerfold G-Spot Pulsating Vibrator

Pillow Talk Sassy G-spot Vibrator by BMS

LELO Gigi 2 Silicone Rechargeable Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator

Satisfyer Pro 2 Clitoral Stimulator

Womanizer Starlet 2.0 Clitoral Vibrator

SQUEAKY CLEAN AND SLIPPERY WHEN WET

2020 saw more lubricant sales than ever before, we are guessing due to the huge upswing in sales of toys for solo play. And don’t even get us started on toy cleaners! We could barely keep either in stock. In fact, many manufacturers struggled to keep up with demand as the bottles they normally used were scooped up by all of the hand sanitizer companies. 

Sliquid Naturals H2O Lubricant

Wicked Sensual Care Cleene Toy Cleaner

FOR THE TRULY ADVENTUROUS

Seems like a lot of you took the time in lockdown to explore new kinds of pleasure and we couldn’t be more proud. BDSM kits were bit hits, as well as beginner anal toys and more specialty items like penis pumps. 

Please Master 10 Piece BDSM Kit

Performance VX5 Male Enhancement Penis Pump System with Realistic Sleeve

Booty Call® Booty Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

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Cock Rings 101: How to Put a Ring on It

PUT A RING ON IT WITH A COCK RING

We understand your need for that extra kick to get to a more heightened and prolonged sense of pleasure, but did you know that cock rings are some of the most versatile sex toys out there? 

Here are just some of the amazing uses of cock rings:

To make your erection firmer and last longer

To delay ejaculation

To help folks with erectile dysfunction maintain an erection

To give extra stimulation to your partner during penetration

To take your dildo or vibrator to the next level

To enhance your fingering game

Our selection of cock rings has something for every budget and need. We have rings that vibrate, work by remote control, and have quick release straps just in case. Don't be afraid to explore and experiment with these versatile and fun toys.

HOW DOES A COCK RING WORK?

Penis Rings, Pleasure Rings, C-Rings, Love Rings, Couples Ring - these are all the different names for a cock ring but they all do the same basic thing.

Cock rings fit around the base of the penis, or the penis and testicles, to let the blood flow into the penis and slow down the blood flowing out. That temporarily trapped blood is what allows you to have a longer, firmer erection that can last for an extended period of time. 

ARE COCK RINGS SAFE?

Are cock rings safe? You bet. Just make sure you follow some simple rules:

Never wear a cock ring that feels uncomfortable when you first put it on

If a cock ring pinches or gives pain, take it off immediately

If there is any discomfort, discoloration, dramatic swelling, numbness, or coldness – take it off immediately

Never wear a cock ring longer than 20-30 minutes

DO NOT FALL ASLEEP WITH YOUR COCK RING ON

Keep lubricant nearby to help take off the ring if necessary

Don’t use a cock ring with numbing creams because this may lessen your awareness of how your penis is feeling

HOW DO I FIND THE PERFECT COCK RING?

Cock rings come in different forms, sizes, and with varying additional features. What your desires are would be the basis in finding the perfect fit. Here are some good guidelines to follow for the first time cock ring shopper

A simple, stretchy ring is usually a good first time purchase because you can wear it around the shaft alone or shaft and testicles

A vibrating ring is great if you are using it with a partner, to add extra stimulation for your partner. 

A snap on ring is perfect for anybody who is a nervous first time user because it is a quick release

Loop rings (that look like a lasso) are completely adjustable and a good starting point for experimenting with looping around the penis and testicles. 

HOW DO I PUT ON A COCK RING?

Most cock rings are extremely stretchy and easy to put on. We advise starting with a stretchy ring rather than metal or aluminum, until you are more experienced.

AROUND THE PENIS SHAFT ALONE

Stretchy rings can go on a flaccid, semi-erect, or erect shaft

Apply some lubricant to the inner rim of the ring

Ease the ring gently down the shaft with 2 fingers

PRO TIP: Trim your pubic hair at the base of your shaft to avoid it getting caught in or tugged by the ring

AROUND THE SHAFT AND TESTICLES

The shaft should be flaccid or barely semi-erect

Apply lubricant to the inner ring or rings

Ease each testicle into the ring so it encircles the scrotum

Gently fold the penis into the ring as well

PRO TIP: If this method feels uncomfortable to you, try placing the shaft in first, then the testicles.

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The Best Sex Toys for Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction affects approximately 49.4% of Canadian men over the age of 40 at some point in their lives, so believe us when we tell you that you are not alone.

At Naughty North we are often asked by men and their partners to recommend sex toys to help with issues around performance or erectile dysfunction and we understand how sensitive a topic this can be. Whether your difficulty is with getting an erection, maintaining an erection, or lasting long enough to please your partner, we have some recommendations for you.

Of course, we at Naughty North are not medical professionals. We can recommend some products that may help with your difficulties but please speak with your doctor as well.

Cock Rings

How they work: The purpose of a cock ring is to allow blood into the penis but then to keep it there, allowing for a longer, firmer erection and to delay ejaculation.

Who should use it: Any man can use a cock ring since they are put on a flaccid penis. If your problem is keeping an erection or premature ejaculation, it may be the perfect solution and cock rings have the advantage of being super affordable.

What to look for: A ring set like the Screaming O Ringo 3 Ring Set lets you experiment with what works for you. Try putting one around the base of the penis and one around the base of the testicles. Or encompass your penis and testicles with one ring for a tighter fit.

Many, like the Optimale Vibrating Ring have a small bullet vibrator included which is meant to stimulate the penis as well as their partner’s clitoris. Cock rings should only be worn for 30 minutes at a time and you should never fall asleep wearing one since serious medical issues can arise from trapping blood in the penis for too long. We always advise using a soft stretchy ring so that it can be removed quickly and easily.

 ***You can shop all cock rings HERE***

PENIS PUMPS

How they work: A penis pump is either a battery-operated or hand pumped device placed over the penis. The vacuum suction draws blood into the penis, helping you become erect. You can also use a cock ring after pumping to keep the blood in your penis longer.

Who should use it: Penis pumps are great if you have trouble getting an erection to begin with because you can use them when you are flaccid. The suction not only helps you achieve an erection but can feel extremely pleasurable and can temporarily make your penis feel and look larger.

What to look for: Make sure your pump has a quick release valve so that you can safely and quickly take it off if you experience any discomfort. Go extremely slowly at first and see how you react to the pumping experience.

***You can shop all penis pumps HERE***

HOLLOW STRAP-ONS

How they work: A hollow strap-on is a hollow dildo in a harness which is worn around the hips and between the legs. Your penis goes inside the hollow dildo, which can accommodate an average sized penis either flaccid, partially erect, or fully erect. These dildos can also be ejaculated in to and washed easily, so you can continue to satisfy your partner even after your own completion.

Who should use it: We recommend hollow strap-on for men who cannot achieve or maintain an erection but who want to have penetrative sex.

What to look for: Because many models encase the penis entirely within the dildo, we recommend a vibrating model like the Body Extensions Be in Charge Set so you both can enjoy some extra stimulation. If you want more realism, we recommend the Everlaster Stud Set which comes in 3 different skin tones.

***You can shop all hollow strap-ons HERE***

Penis Sleeves and Extenders

How they work:  Penis sleeves and extenders are soft, hollow sheaths which fit over the penis, allowing the feel of increased girth and length. Some are meant to cover the entire penis including the tip while some are open ended and designed more to provide girth and texture to the penis.

Who should use it: Not all sleeves are practical for men with erectile dysfunction since they rely on having and maintaining an erection to keep them in place.

What to look for: If a sleeve is something you want to try, look for one that has a harness which fits around the testicles like Fantasy X-Tensions Enhancer or the Ultimate Stud Extender. This will help it to stay in place whether you are fully erect or not.

***You can shop all our penis extenders and enhancers HERE***

Masturbation Sleeves

How they work: While classic masturbation sleeves like the Fleshlight Pink Lady are familiar to many, they are not designed for erectile dysfunction. The company Hot Octopuss innovated what they call the Guybrator which can be used on a flaccid penis. The focus is on vibration, rather than thrusting or insertion, which means pleasure can be achieved even without the ability to ejaculate.

Who should use it:  There is more variety of masturbation sleeves and devices on the market for the male body than ever before.  From textured silicone tubes with inner ridges to top of the line vibrating pleasure devices, it is just a matter of choosing something that will work for your body.

What to look for: If maintaining an erection or premature ejaculation are an issue, the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit will allow you to work on your staying power on your own, without the pressures of having to perform for a partner. If you would like to explore penis vibrators that don’t require an erection, we recommend the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo or the PDX Elite Vibrating Silicone Penis Stimulator as a less powerful but more budget friendly beginner’s option.

***You can shop all masturbation sleeves HERE***

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Naughty North's Self-Care Must-Haves for Every Body

Self-care is more than just bubble baths and long walks on the beach. At Naughty North, we believe sexual pleasure is a big part of self-care. Connecting with your body and taking the time to find pleasure in it is wonderful for your physical and mental health. Of course, Naughty North has an amazing selection of pleasure products to help you achieve sexual satisfaction – vibrators, dildos, strokers, and a whole host of BDSM goodies – but we asked our staff to name some of their favorite Naughty North self-care items that aren’t toys. Here are their picks.

  Earthly Body Hemp Seed Massage Oil - Lavender Scent

Lavender has amazing relaxation and calming properties, and this oil feels amazing on the skin, with tons of natural ingredients. Use it for massage or apply it yourself as a deep, soothing moisturizer.

B-Vibe UV Sex Toy Sterilizing Pouch

This beauty can kill 99.9% of all bacteria on your toys in 3 minutes and who doesn’t love that idea these days? It comes in a great travel size and can accommodate toys up to 10 inches long but yes, you can put your phone, keys, and anything else that will fit into this system, giving you peace of mind.

Exsens Intime Balance Intimate Cleansing Gel with Aloe

If you have sensitive skin, you owe it to yourself to try Intime Balance. This gentle gel is perfect for intimate cleansing during your menstrual cycle, after waxing, or any time you don’t want harsh soaps on your most sensitive skin. It’s a great way to take care of your body’s largest organ – your skin.

   Safe Sex Antibacterial Toy Bag

You don’t have to spend big bucks to make sure your toys are safe and cared for. These Safe Sex Antibacterial and Antimicrobial bags help kill bacteria while they also keep your toys safe from lint and anything else they may encounter in your drawer. Self care is making sure your toys are clean and germ-free each time you use them.

Liberator Throw and Liberator Travel Throw Sex Blankets

A blanket just for sex is decadent, sure, but these Liberator Throws are worth every penny. They are waterproof and velvety soft to protect your sheets or any other surface from whatever you get up to with them. That means less laundry, less worry about staining, and more freedom to enjoy yourself solo or with a partner.

  SWISS NAVY Toy & Body Cleaner Wipes with Tea Tree Oil & Lavender

These wipes are so much better than your average drug store disposable because they are designed to freshen you up gently and effectively in the afterglow and take care of any lube left on your delicate skin. You can use them on your toys as well and trust the tea tree will takes care of any bacteria left behind. These are great for on the go or those times you’re just too wiped out to get out of bed!

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How to Have a Sexy Menopause

Canadian women have some of the highest life expectancies in the world with an average of 82 years, which means a lot of us are still happy, healthy, and enjoying sex long after menopause. With the average age of menopause landing somewhere around 52 years old, that’s a lot of orgasms still to be had!

Although the media may tell us otherwise, menopause doesn’t mean you are suddenly not sexy or sexual. It can just mean you may have to go about seeking pleasure a little differently. After all, hormone changes and age do bring about changes in the body and the libido. That’s why our experts at Naughty North have put together this great list of suggestions on how tackle some common changes that come with menopause and how to keep that fire lit either solo or with your partner.

Alu Water Based Aloe Vera Lubricant by Dame

VAGINAL DRYNESS & LACK OF NATURAL LUBRICATION

As estrogen production decreases, so does the ability to create natural vaginal lubrication, which can lead to dryness. This is a very common complaint. Here are some of our tips

Use lubricant every time you masturbate or have sex with a partner so you don’t have to rely only on what you can product naturally. Look for thicker lubes or ones that are pH balanced and gentle.

Masturbate! If penetration is uncomfortable, try to have orgasms through clitoral stimulation alone. This will increase the blood flow to the vagina

Use a lubricant daily to help you feel more comfortable

Consult a doctor if you are finding that nothing seems to be working for you.

Naughty North Recommends

Alu Water Based Aloe Vera Lubricant by Dame

Slippery Stuff Water Based Gel Lubricant

Satisfyer Pro 2 Air Pulsation Clitoral Stimulator

  Inspire Silicone Vaginal Dilators Kit

VAGINAL TIGHTNESS AND DISCOMFORT DURING PENETRATION

As we age and estrogen decreases, the vaginal walls can lose their elasticity as well. That’s where discomfort during intercourse often comes from. Of course, there are more extreme examples and if you feel you fit into that category, please consult a doctor or a pelvic floor specialist who can help you out.

Use lots of thick, cushioned lubricants during partnered or solo sex

Masturbate using external stimulation of the clitoris to get the blood flowing throughout your vagina and pelvis

Try a vaginal dilator set to help loosen up your muscles

Forego using hard, inflexible vibrators internally and opt for softer, smaller, flexible models

Naughty North Recommends

Inspire Silicone Vaginal Dilators Kit

Sensuva Unscented Hybrid Silicone/Water Formula Personal Lubricant

Iroha Rin Kogane Waterproof Silicone Vibrator

  LELO Luna Beads Kegel Exerciser Set

URINARY INCONTINENCE (PEEING OR DRIBBLING)

If you find yourself peeing a bit when you sneeze or pee, rest assured this is completely normal. Although not just a menopausal issue, the pelvic floor certainly weakens as we age, and this decreases our ability to clench those muscles like we used to. Here are some of our best tips:

Have lot of orgasms. This involuntary contracting of the pelvic floor muscles is great exercise as well as just plain amazing.

Strengthen your pelvic floor with Kegel exercises. A strong pelvic floor helps not only with urinary problems but with vaginal discomfort and can make your orgasms more powerful. Luckily, Kegel balls come in many shapes and sizes including ones that vibrate, helping to draw much needed blood flow to the pelvic region.

Naughty North Recommends

LELO Luna Beads Kegel Exerciser Set

Rechargeable Kegel Ball for Beginners

Magic Wand Power Rechargeable Cordless Vibrator

DECREASED LIBIDO AND DESIRE FOR SEX

This is very common in women at menopause and there can be several underlying factors. Hormonal changes do play a part but so can stress and any number of the other factors we are talking about here, which can affect your self esteem and body image. Again, if you are concerned, please consult your doctor. Here are some tips our experts recommend to help get you in the groove.  

More foreplay can help you get to a point where you are able to relax and enjoy yourself. Try massage candles or oils with your partner

Masturbate or have partnered sex without orgasm as a goal. Try using an external vibrator all over your body – your skin, nipples, etc. – to awaken desire

Try using a clitoral stimulation cream to enhance your body’s natural arousal. These often create heightened sensation that can give us that boos we need.

Naughty North Recommends

Magic Wand Power Rechargeable Cordless Vibrator

Earthly Body Hemp Seed Massage Candle - Lavender

On Arousal Oil Original by Sensuva

Liberator Wedge and Ramp Combo Sex Positioning Cushion

STIFF AND SORE MUSCLES, BACK PAIN AND JOINT PAIN

As we get older, our bodies change as well and suddenly the positions we used to enjoy during sex can become uncomfortable and challenging. There is a large selection of cushions, straps, and bolsters on the market that can help by supporting your back, hips, neck, or anywhere else that challenges you. Here are some of our favourites:

I Like It Doggie Style Sex Position Strap and Support

Liberator Wedge 24 Inch Sex Positioning Cushion

Liberator Wedge and Ramp Combo Sex Positioning Cushion

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Choosing a Vibrating Booty Toy: A Beginner's Guide

Sometimes you want some extra power behind your anal adventures and that's where vibrating anal toys come in to play. At Naughty North we have all kinds of vibrating anal sex toys that are going to give you that extra thrill. In this department you will find Vibrating Anal Beads, Vibrating Butt Plugs, Vibrating Prostate Massagers. Read on and let us walk you through making the best decision for your body and your pleasure. 

And if you are completely new to anal play, please feel free to check out our informative in-depth article ANAL SEX: A MUST-READ BEGINNER'S GUIDE

Benefits of Anal Vibrators

WE-VIBE DITTO VIBRATING SILICONE REMOTE CONTROL BUTT PLUG

Vibrators means specifically for anal are going to be safer to use than regular vibrators because they will have a flared or stoppered base that will prevent over-insertion

Many (but not all) are smaller in size so they are easier to insert for an anal beginner

The extra stimulation can help your sphincter muscles relax for penetration

They can be a great lead-up to anal penetration from your partner

A wireless remote anal vibrator means your partner can control your pleasure for some teasing and control play

Some even have a 'rimming' function for extra thrills

They can offer extra stimulation to the prostate and are great if you are seeking that amazing prostate orgasm experience

They can be worn anally while your partner penetrates you vaginally and they will be able to feel the vibration too!

Anal orgasms! Read on to find out how

How to Achieve Anal Orgasms 

Anybody with a vagina may be able to reach orgasm through anal penetration, with anal vibrators making it even more likely. Basically, the vagina and rectum share an internal wall, so anal stimulation can actually carry through to the vagina in a couple of ways.

The clitoris has long internal legs which reach all the way back to the rectum, meaning that you can actually achieve some clitoral stimulation through anal penetration. 

In addition, anal penetration can indirectly stimulate the g-spot and the a-spot. The a-spot or anterior fornix is another area located at the back of the the deepest part of the vagina near the cervix. When stimulated through the tissue that separates your vagina from your rectum, both locations can produce intense orgasms and even squirting. 

How to Choose an Anal Vibrator

B-VIBE TRIPLET VIBRATING SILICONE TRIPLE ANAL BEADS

Consider the size

Anal vibrators are often but not always smaller than traditional vibrators so read the size descriptions carefully and you won't end up with something too big (or too small)

Shape is important

If you have a prostate, you may want something angled specifically to stimulate that sensitive gland.

If you are a beginner, opt for something with a very tapered tip that will be easier to insert. 

You will need something with a longer or larger base if you want to thrust with your vibrator. This style will be easier to grip

A narrow but long base (think upside down T shape) will be more comfortable for long-term wear

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What are its functions?

Consider a wireless remote item if you have mobility issues that will make reaching controlling a vibrator more difficult once in place

Do you want thrusting? Rimming? Patterns of vibration? Anal vibrators come in a huge array of functions which generally come with a price. We always recommend starting with simple vibrations in a less expensive model and then deciding if you want something more elaborate. 

Which lubricants can you use with it?

JO H2O ANAL ORIGINAL WATER BASED LUBRICANT

Anal play means lots and lots of LUBE. You may already have a favourite brand of lubricant so make sure it is compatible with the vibrator's materials. Here are lube rules of thumb:

Water based lubricant: Can be used with any vibrator material but is not as thick and can dry out quickly so you may need to reapply

Water/Silicone hybrid or combination lubricant: Safe with vibrators of virtually all materials since they contain only a drop of silicone to make it last longer without drying. We at Naughty North LOVE hybrid lubes for anal play. 

Anal specific lubricants: Read the label. Most are a water based gel which works great with all vibrator materials. If they contain an oil base, you should avoid them (see below)

100% Silicone lubricants: These are generally not compatible with silicone vibrators and can deteriorate the materials. Unless the manufacturer description specifically says their vibrator is suitable with silicone lubricants, these should be avoided.  The exceptions are glass or stainless steel and metal toys which are compatible with any lubricant. 

Oil Based Lubricants: This includes the old stand-by Vaseline, petroleum jelly, and any other oil based lubricants. Oil is not only hard on vibrator materials but it is difficult to wash off your skin after the fun. Again, the exceptions are glass or stainless steel and metal toys which are compatible with any lubricant. 

****Important safety tip: Oil based lubricants will also break down latex condoms, causing them to rip open during use. ***

To see Naughty North's fantastic selection of anal vibrators, click the image below!

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Remote Control and Couples' Vibrators 101

We at Naughty North believe that any pleasure product can be a couples' toy if you use your imagination. Still, couples' and remote control toys have come a very long way in the last decade, with the introduction of Bluetooth app compatibility and wireless remote controls that let you play from across the room of across continents. 

Styles of couples' and remote control vibrators

Simple corded bullets or eggs: These are fantastically affordable and great beginner items. Usually a simple shape with a short cord attached to a turn dial remote that is battery operated. They are better for a single user who controls the remote because the cords aren't usually that long but we leave that up to you. 

Vibrating cock rings: We love these for their simplicity, versatility, affordability, and orgasmic potential. Vibrating rings have a stretchy ring that slides over the penis or your favorite dildo, then a vibrating bulb that is meant to stimulate the partner as well as the wearer. The beauty is that on most models you have control of where the stimulation bulb goes, so you can mix it up depending on your desired position of the anatomy of your partner. 

U shaped wearable vibrators: These were made famous by Canadian company We-Vibe who were the first to think up this fantastic style. Meant for folks with vaginas, the smaller part of the U slips inside while the outer portion snugs against the clitoris. The internal shaft is small enough that your partner can penetrate you with a penis or dildo comfortable but the vibrations are intense and can be felt by both of you. Many styles are now also wireless remote or Bluetooth app compatible for simple usage.

Vibrating panties: These have come a long way in recent years. Yes, you can still get the traditional bullet tucked into a slot on a one size fit most included lacy panty. This style is fun and affordable. BUT you can also now get powerful vibrators that attach to your own undies through a magnetic clip and are controlled through wireless remote or Bluetooth. These area game changers because they brought never-before felt power to this classic toy, but also because they are more comfortable and inclusive when you get to wear your own underthings. 

Anal vibrators: You may not think of these as couples' toys but with the addition of wireless remote controls, you have endless possibilities for naughty couple fun. Just insert and hand the control over to your partner or enjoy complete control when you are playing solo. 

  Insertable vaginal vibrators: These are often egg shaped or perhaps take on the shape of a kegel ball and are inserted into the vagina where they can vibrate against the sensitive tissues and the g-spot. The external remote controls mean you can take charge of your own pleasure or hand it over to your partner. Many styles are quiet enough that you can wear them out in public!

Wireless remote control or Bluetooth app?

Sex toy manufacturers love applying new technology to their products in order to make your experience more enjoyable. the latest technology to really take off is Bluetooth app control. 

PROS

Any style of remote is going to give you a tremendous amount of control over your pleasure or your partner's for teasing or sending them over the edge

Remotes are fantastic for folks with mobility issues because you can often set the toy in place, then take control from a more comfortable position

Bluetooth app controls took off during covid-19 as couples were forced to stay apart for long periods of time. These devices allowed you to maintain a sexual relationships across continents

Some apps, such as the one with Satisfyer products allows you to give control of your item to more than one person, allowing you to experience multiple partners 

CONS

If you have concerns about your privacy, Bluetooth app control may not be for you. Of course, companies go through rigorous security testing but you should still be aware of the risks. 

Wireless remote controls will have limits to their range and often do not work if there is any obstruction between the two users

Many remote control or Bluetooth app controlled items can be on the pricier side. 

Remotes can get lost, although replacements can usually be purchased from the manufacturers. 

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The Naughty North Checklist for Orgasmic Anal Sex

Anal sex can be an intensely pleasurable experience when you have the right tools for the job. Naughty North has thick, cushioning lubes, anal douches, and everything else you need to make your booty very happy.

If you are looking at trying anal play or expanding your anal repertoire, either alone or with a partner, here are some items you may want to invest in and why exactly we at Naughty North consider them important to your anal health and pleasurable anal play:

A pleasure product designed for anal play

Anal play toys MUST have a flared end or a stopper at the base for safe use. That is why we have hundreds of products designed just for back door play. Your sphincter muscles are powerful and pull in anything that does not have a wider base to stop over-insertion. Nobody wants a trip to the ER for anal play gone wrong

A thick, long-lasting lubricant

Never EVER try anal play without a good lubricant. No, a lubricated condom is not going to be enough. Anal play takes time and patience and for that you need a thicker gel lubricant or something with silicone in it. We have some great recommendations in our Anal Health section.

A good supply of condoms

If you are having penetrative anal sex with a partner, we strongly recommend using a condom. Any lurking bacteria in the rectum can cause creep up your partner's urethra and cause urinary tract infections and nobody wants that. Also, if you want to avoid any potential mess or having potentially unpleasant odours on your sex toys, condoms take care of that as well. And, last but not certainly least, condoms let you go between anal and vaginal or between toys easily and safely. Just switch out the condom between acts and you're good to go. 

An anal douche or enema

We understand that not everybody wants to go through the trouble of douching before anal - the act of cleaning out the lower rectum by inserting warm water. But, if you are finding that anal is becoming increasingly common in your playtime or you are nervous about any mess, there is a large selection of douches from absolute beginner to expert level available at Naughty North. 

A good antibacterial toy cleaner

We recommend using silicone sex toys for anal because they can be disinfected with boiling water or a bleach/water solution. But, if you want to do a quick wipe down before you can do a deep clean, look for antibacterial sex toy cleaners that can eliminate any lingering lube, residue and bacteria in the short-term. 

You can explore our full range of amazing anal sex toys by <<CLICKING HERE>>

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Booty Plugs 101: A Beginner's Guide to Choosing a Butt Plug

Butt plugs come in so many shapes and sizes, they can certainly seem pretty daunting at first. Not to worry. Whether you're a plug pro or just looking to start exploring some booty fun, Naughty North has what you need. Here are some tips on picking just the right plug for you!

Check and double check the size. A tiny beginner's plug and a gargantuan pro plug can look the same size in product images. Don't let your eyes deceive you and end up with something way too big (or too small!)

Know your materials: Most plugs we offer are silicone but we do have some glass or metal, which is going to be unforgiving on your first time butt. If you are starting out, silicone will have more give and flexibility for you. 

To vibrate or not to vibrate: Not all vibrating plugs are huge and they can be a lot of fun if you're looking for some extra sensation. For the pros out there, we also have some AMAZING vibrating plugs that are big enough for even the most discerning pro. 

Prostate yay or nay? Some anal plugs are labelled 'prostate' toys, stimulators or plugs. Don't let that set you back if you don't have a prostate. Anybody can use these products, but if you DO have a prostate, it opens up another dimension for potential thrill seeking. 

Think about the shape: 

Narrow, tapered tips are going to be easier to insert.

A plug that is wide in the middle is going to give you a stretch after you start to insert. 

A finger ring on the base is ideal for thrusting in and out

An extremely narrow neck is great for leaving the plug in for longer periods

Bumps or ridges will give you extra stimulation as you put it in and take it out

A wide, thin base is more comfortable to leave in longer because it snugs between your cheeks. 

Lather on the lube

The golden rule of anal play is that you can NEVER have enough lubricant. After all, you're dealing with delicate tissues that have no natural lubrication to protect them. At Naughty North we have a great selection of lubricants to help you on your way. Here are some tips for buying the right one for the job:

Water based lubricant: These are fantastic for anal with the only drawback being that they can dry out after time and prolonged play so you have to keep reapplying. They are also thinner, so may be more difficult to get precisely where you need them. 

Silicone & water based hybrids: These are thicker, last longer, and are fantastic for anal play. They are also safe with your sex toys and with condoms. 

Pure silicone lubricant: Another fantastic choice for any anal play and safe with latex condoms. The big BUT here is that they are not always safe with silicone sex toys and can degrade the materials. So, we recommend them for glass and metal, but not for silicone toys unless the product description specifically says otherwise. 

Anal specific lubricants: We have several lubes just for anal play which are generally water based and make thick like a jelly so they go on easily and stay where you put them. 

Safe anal play is our #1 priority

At Naughty North we care about your health and safety. You can visit our ANAL HEALTH department <<click here>> to find condoms, great anal lubes, and antibacterial toy cleaners. 

Let us assist you!

Did you know that we’re offering free shipping for orders over $69? Definitely, just the right amount to cover your butt plug, lubrication, and maybe something extra for the road.

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A Beginner's Guide to Pegging

Have you heard of pegging? We bet you have, even if you don’t know that specific term. If we have piqued your curiosity, read on, and let Naughty North open your eyes to the fastest growing couples’ sex act of the decade!

The term pegging was coined in Dan Savage’s “Savage Love” advice column, but it is a practice as old as dildos themselves! The definition of pegging is a sexual practice where a person with a vulva performs anal sex on a person with a penis by penetrating the anus with a strap-on dildo. It may sound clinical, but oh boy, can it feel amazing for both involved, with intense prostate stimulation for the receiver and some amazing clitoral stimulation for the giver… if you do it correctly.

If you are curious and want to give pegging a try, read on, and let Naughty North walk you through getting started with this handy beginner’s guide.

STEP #1 – TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR PARTNER

Any kind of new play in the bedroom should start with discussion about what you want and what your expectations will be. You are going to need a harness and a dildo or probe so why not shop together? Scroll through the offerings and pick something that looks to be a good fit for the both of you in terms of style and size. It can be an amazingly hot and sensual experience.

STEP #2 – TRY OTHER TYPES OF ANAL PLAY BEFORE YOU GET PEGGING

If you have never tried anal play of any kind, either with fingers or a toy, we suggest you try those out first. Why? Any kind of anal play needs some good preparation and time working out how to make it enjoyable and comfortable. The person receiving needs to have at least some experience with anal penetration so they can instruct their harness wearing partner in how, when, and how quickly to proceed. Once you have picked your pegging set, use that dildo manually first as well to get used to it.

STEP #3 – PICKING THE PERFECT HARNESS AND DILDO

Don’t feel you need to pick a pre-packaged set unless both the size of the dildo and harness look suitable for both of you. It can be daunting to mix and match but you can always as our experienced staff at Naughty North for suggestions. Here are our tips for first timers

If you are new to anal, get a small probe or dildo. You can always work your way up but something too big will be uncomfortable

Make sure the harness will comfortably fit the wearer. Double check the measurements to be sure

You should opt for a harness that has a pocket in front of the clitoris for a bullet vibrator. This gives the wearer amazing stimulation while they are wearing the harness

Some of our favourite products include:

Anal Explorer Strap-On Kit with 2 Silicone Dildos. This set gives you variety in sizes of dildos and the harness fits up to 60-inch hips plus the dildos themselves are silicone, which is always the best choice for anal play.

Sportsheets Vibrating Velvet Strap-On Harness with the Please Slim Anal Silicone 5 Inch Dildo. This is a great duo if you want vibration for the wearer and the versatility to use different dildos. The harness comes with a bullet that is tucked in the front of the harness and the slim probe is flexible and great for beginners.

Any Boundless Strap-on Harness with a Boundless Silicone Dildo. We love these items because the harnesses don’t rely on straps but instead slide on like undies. There are 3 styles to choose from so you can get something that appeals to you, and they are all washable. Pair them with one of the dildos that come in various sizes, textured or not, for a fantastic pegging experience.

STEP #3 - START WITH SOME REALLY FANTASTIC LUBRICANT AND USE A LOT OF IT

We hope that everybody knows by now that the anus is not self-lubricating like the vagina. And, while you may have gotten creative with lubricants when using your fingers (think Vaseline, coconut oil etc.) those are not suitable to use with sex toys. Oils can damage sex toy materials so get yourself a great, thick lubricant with lots of lasting power. The rule of thumb with anal play is to use LOTS of lube and then apply even more. Here are some of our absolute favourites for pegging:

JO H2O Anal Original Water Based Lubricant - This is a thicker lubricant made with more cushion for the pushing’ and a long-lasting formula that won’t dry out and get sticky.

Slippery Stuff Water Based Gel Lubricant – A water-based gel lubricant that is used in doctor’s offices so you know it is great quality and will stay where you put it.

JO Classic Water/Silicone Hybrid Lubricant – Hybrid lubes are the unsung heroes of anal play because they are ultra-long lasting and super slippery. They work well with sex toys because they are mainly water-based with just a touch of silicone for extra slide.

STEP #4 - FIND A GOOD POSITION

Probably the most popular position for pegging is doggie style, with the receiving partner on their hands and knees, and the other kneeling behind. Not only does this give great access to the anus, but it also puts you at a good angle for prostate stimulation and allows the giver to reach around and stimulate your penis at the same time. It also means the person wearing the harness is going to have some firm stimulation from either the base of the dildo or a bullet vibrator.

STEP #5 - STRAP UP AND START SLOWLY

Now you should be good to go! Use lots of lubricant and patience. For the partner wearing the harness, it is going to take some getting used to and it can be difficult to judge how forcefully you’re thrusting your hips. Communication is the key to pegging and remember that anal sex should NEVER be painful. Take it slow and enjoy!

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All About Wand Vibrators: Are they Really Magical?

Wand massagers have been the go-to vibrator for well over 50 years with the invention of the Hitachi Magic Wand (now called just Magic Wand). These powerhouse vibrators were first marketed as personal massagers but it didn't take long for folks to find out how good they felt on parts of their body other than their sore back. 

Wands now come in hundreds of shapes and sizes so it can be difficult to choose the perfect one for your body. That's where the expert staff at Naughty North come in. We have put together this guide to wand vibrators so you can feel certain that you can make the right choices. 

Let's look at some questions you may want to ask yourself before buying a wand. 

Do you want plug in, rechargeable or battery operated

Wands come in all 3 styles. Plug in wands are the most powerful but you are limited to the length of the cord because they must remain plugged in to be used. Rechargeables come in all sizes and intensities and are a good choice for anybody who does not like the idea of batteries. Battery operated wands are generally smaller and not as powerful. 

Is noise a factor? Do you need something quiet?

There is not way to be discreet about using a Magic Wand and its other powerful cousins. While some are quieter than others, any larger wand is going to most likely be heard through a closed bedroom door. Is this is a factor, you may want to go with a quieter Rabbit or Air Pulsation toy. 

Is your clitoris extremely sensitive?

You may want to choose a smaller wand or even a bullet vibrator instead. If you find that a lot of direct stimulation is uncomfortable for you, we also recommend you use a wand through your clothing or put a sheet in between the wand and your body. 

Does your clitoris need a lot of stimulation to orgasm?

This is where wands do their best work. Many folks who have trouble reaching orgasm with other more traditional vibrators are able to climax with the larger, more powerful traditional wands. 

Do you have trouble holding anything large or heavy?

Some wands can be extremely heavy, and particularly top heavy at that, with the weight centered around the bulbous head. If that is an issue, you may want to try something smaller or go for a rechargeable wand with less power and a smaller motor. 

Would vibrations carrying up through your hand and arm be an issue for you?

Larger, more powerful wands do put out a lot of power and those vibrations can carry through the handle and onto your hand, or even up your arm. We recommend wands that have a silicone handle that helps to diffuse the vibration. 

Do you want something waterproof?

Plug in wands are not waterproof. End of story. Same as you would never use your hair dryer around water, same goes for a plug in wand. Luckily, there are several rechargeable models available now that you an submerge so make sure you read the product descriptions and do your research

Do you want to travel with your wand?

This is another case of weight being an issue. You may want something smaller or rechargeable if you plan on travelling with a wand. Just be sure not to leave your charging cord at home!

Do you want your wand to be multi-purpose?

Several styles of wands come with attachments that cover or slip onto the existing head and add a whole new dimension to your wand. There are attachments that turn your wand head into a g-spot or prostate vibrator and even some that turn it into a rabbit vibrator. The We-Vibe Wand comes with 2 attachments - one that is a penis stroker and another to add texture and sensation. 

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Air Pulsation Clitoral Stimulators: A Beginner's Guide

We at Naughty North love our air pulsation toys. These relative newcomers to the sex toy world took the market by storm with their promise of quick, intense, and often multiple orgasms without ever directly touching the clitoris. We recommend them all the time for anybody who likes powerful clitoral stimulation, and especially those who have trouble reaching orgasm through traditional vibrators. But, with so many versions on the market, it can all get confusing so let us break down what an air pulsation toy does and how to shop for the best one for your body.

What’s in a Name?

Air pulsation, Pleasure Air, Sonic Wave, Pressure Wave and Suction are all terms that get thrown around with these types of air stimulators. Why can’t anybody just settle on one name for them? We won’t bore you with the details, but it has to do with patenting and naming rights between the biggest manufacturers of this style of product. Different terms belong to different companies, which can make it confusing for the consumer, but we at Naughty North try to make things easier by putting them all together in one collection so you can browse between brands.

  How do they work?

These stimulators work by sending rhythmic pulses of air directly onto the clitoris using an internal motor. They all have a hollow head which is meant to enclose the clitoris, allowing the targeted air to pulse on this sensitive area. The feeling is incredibly intense and is often referred to as ‘touch free’ stimulation because there is no direct touching of the clitoris. The feeling is one that is difficult to describe but we at Naughty North like to say it’s almost like receiving oral pleasure but from a bionic tongue that never slows down and never gets tired!

Are they really touch-free?

You see the term hands-free to touch-free used a lot to describe these products. Here’s what it really means. Yes, the head is hollow, and it sits over the clitoris. However, the clitoris is a wonderfully complex organ and there is much more under the skin than what we see on the outside. So, the sides of the product’s head will often touch the sides of your clitoris and you can feel the pulsations from the stimulators deep down into the clitoral arms that are inside you. This is part of what makes these stimulators so incredibly powerful. By delivering strong enough sensations, you are stimulating the clitoris right down to its very root and through every part, which makes these products so fantastic for multiple, quick, and intense orgasms.

As for the hands-free claim, that is more on the mark. Many air pulsation toys can be set in place and will stay there, particularly if you are laying on your back. In fact, they work best when you don’t move them around at all, once you find that perfect position. Some are even small enough to snug up under the labia so you can keep them on your clitoris during couples’ play.

IS IT LIKE A PUSSY OR CLITORIS PUMP?

Air pulsation products are different from a traditional suction toy, although we do have those as well at Naughty North. A pump creates a seal, and you gradually increase the suction by allowing the motor or a hand pump to draw more and more air out of the cup. This helps to engorge the clitoris or labia, drawing blood to the surface and heightening arousal. Suction only works if there is an airtight seal around the area you are pumping so the product will have a release valve or button to break the suction.

 A clitoral suction stimulator creates a seal with the hollow head, but it sends the air to your clitoris with an in and out function that stimulates rather than engorges. It does not create a suction vacuum. Think of it more like the feeling of oral sex. The word ‘suction’ is sometimes used for air pulsation toys, often to avoid any of the above-mentioned patent infringement, but if you read the product’s description, we make sure to clarify exactly what it does.

WHAT MAKES THESE TOYS DIFFERENT THAN VIBRATORS?

Air pulsation products don’t necessarily use vibration to bring you to orgasm. Some products offer only air pulsation, which is plenty of stimulation for most folks. However, many products now offer a combination of pulsation and vibration, taking everything to the next level. These products have the same hollow clitoral head and air pulsation, but an added motor causes vibration to travel through the head as well. Many products allow you to operate the vibration separately, which is great for anybody who wants that extra boost of power before climax.

Increasingly more companies are turning air pulsation stimulators into dual stimulation or rabbit styled vibes as well. Instead of that traditional bunny ear style we are used to, they place an air pulsation opening for the clitoris, then a vibrating shaft that is meant for internal stimulation. These types of products are amazing for blended orgasms that encompass the g-spot and clitoris or for anybody who loves that feeling of internal fullness with their clitoral stimulation.

HOW DO YOU USE A CLITORAL SUCTION STIMULATOR?

The easiest way to use one of these stimulators for the first time is laying down with easy access to your vulva. We also recommend you get the lay of the land in terms of the toy’s buttons and functions before you get started. These devices are generally quite powerful, and we recommend starting on the very lowest setting.

You will need to spread your labia apart to expose your clitoris and gently enclose the clitoris with the stimulation head. A little bit of lube around the rim of the head can help with the seal once the device is turned on.

Once you have your device in place and press the ‘on’ button, you can lay back and enjoy scrolling through the various levels of intensity. If you turn it on before placing it, that’s okay too but be forewarned that these types of stimulators can be quite noisy when not snug up against the clitoris.

WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE?

The suction on these clitoral stimulators feels very different from the typical vibrator. First, the tip of your clitoris isn’t touching anything because it is nestled in the hollow cup at the end of the device. Secondly, you are getting very targeted stimulation in just that one very small area, unlike vibrators where the vibrations can carry throughout your pelvis.

Having said that, the tip of your clitoris is like the tip of an iceberg, and by giving such intense stimulation to the head, you are sending stimulation down to the arms which are hidden underneath the surface. Some folks describe it like having a series of mini orgasms as the stimulation to the clitoris reaches deeper and deeper, leading to a final, intense climax.

We have also heard this kind of stimulation described as “orgasming despite yourself.” Essentially, the stimulation is so intense and targeted that your body can reach orgasm before your brain even gets on board with being aroused. For some, that kind of quick release is just what they want, while it can leave others feeling physically satiated but mentally unsatisfied. Of course, all air stimulation devices have levels of intensity, so you can move up and down through the levels, allowing you to become fully aroused and work your way up to a satisfying orgasm.

DO THEY REALLY DELIVER MULTIPLE ORGASMS?

An air pulsation stimulator can certainly deliver multiple orgasms, but every body is different, so there is never a guarantee. Some manufacturers claim that their brand of “touchless” stimulation means your clitoris won’t get overstimulated from direct contact like it could with a vibrator, so you can orgasm again and again.

While this is true in theory, air pulsation devices are very intense in their own way. For some bodies, it is a feeling of small orgasms leading up to a big finale, for others, they can come again and again. It will depend a lot on your individual sensitivity and whether you feel like you want to continue with more stimulation after your first orgasm.

HOW DO I PICK THE RIGHT AIR PULSATION STIMULATOR FOR ME?

Any air pulsation toy is going to work with similar technology. Choosing the right one is going to depend on what you want from your toy other than orgasms. Here are some things to consider:

What is my budget?

Do I want pulsation only or the option for vibration as well?

Do I want dual stimulation of the clitoris as well an arm for internal stimulation?

Am I planning to travel with my toy? Some models even have lids to keep things discreet and clean while travelling

Am I able to reach my vulva easily with a smaller toy or do I need a longer handled toy?

Do I want to use it in the bath or shower? Most but not all models are waterproof.

How important is it that my toy is extremely silent when in use?

Does it come with interchangeable/replaceable/different sized heads?

Do I want battery operated or rechargeable?

Want to check out some of these beauties for yourself?

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And, of course, if you still can’t decide, feel free to email us at info@naughtynorth.ca and ask for help from one of our sex toy experts.

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All About Strapless Strap-Ons

In the world of pleasure products, strapless strap-ons are a relatively new invention but they became immediately appealing to many couples who wanted penetration without harnesses getting in the way.  

What is a strapless strap-on exactly? The idea is that the wearer inserts the anchoring bulb into their vagina, which leaves the dildo portion protruding so they can then penetrate their partner with it. This allows the wearer to experience vaginal and g-spot stimulation while also stimulating their partner anally or vaginally

Despite the name, many folks choose to use a harness with their strapless strap-on dildo so they can enjoy more control and confidence. A harness helps to stabilize both ends, so the wearer still gets internal stimulation while having more control and stability when they thrust into their partner. 

CHOOSING A STRAPLESS

When choosing your strapless, it may be counterintuitive, but a larger anchoring bulb is easier to keep in place. 

Take note of features such as remote control for vibrating strapless strap-ons which will make using the features easier. 

Models with a flexible neck are going to be more difficult to control once in place and are more likely to need a harness

GETTING STARTED

We recommend wearing your strapless around the house to get a feel for how it works before trying it with a partner

When trying with a partner use lots of lubricant

If your partner is newer to penetration or unused to the size of your strapless, use it manually first. Instead of wearing it, hold it by the bulb and penetrate them that way, or allow them to penetrate themselves with it to ensure they are comfortable with the size and shape. 

Try positions that leave the wearer on their back with their legs closed to allow for more stability over the strapless. Have your partner ride you. 

DO STRAPLESS STRAP-ONS REALLY WORK?

The answer to that is yes... and no. In truth, it is incredibly difficult to control a strapless enough for effective penetration of a partner without using a harness for stability. Even is you have extremely strong pelvic floor muscles, a strapless can be difficult to control and natural vaginal lubrication can also contribute to the bulb slipping out of place. Using a harness gives you both a feeling of security and stability while you still get to enjoy the same pleasures you were seeking. 

OTHER FUN WAYS TO USE YOUR STRAPLESS STRAP-ON

Fulfill your roleplay or gender swap fantasies

Let your partner give you a 'blow job' 

Use the bulb end as a handle for solo or partnered play

If you still have questions about strapless strap-ons or any other products at Naughty North, be sure to drop us a line at info@naughtynorth.ca

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Silicone Pleasure Products: Are They Really Better?

What's the deal with silicone?

At Naughty North, we often have customers who come to us asking about silicone sex toys. They may have heard or read somewhere that they should be buying silicone products but don't really know why. Read on and allow us the explain what silicone is all about in the sex toy world. 

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It often comes as a shock to folks who learn that the sex toy industry is completely unregulated on a federal level. This is particularly important to know when you think about items that are going to be closely acquainted with the most sensitive parts of your anatomy. 

Luckily, there are a lot of ethical manufacturers out there who go out of their way to make great quality materials that are lab tested and safe. Similarly, we at Naughty North do our research and only offer products from manufacturers we trust and who deliver quality, safe products. 

Does this mean all other materials are evil? Not necessarily. At Naughty North we also offer products in PVC, TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber), and TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) but we only offer products that are free from phthalates, which are the harmful chemicals used to soften certain rubbers. We believe that consumer education is the most important factor in choosing sex toys, so you will find materials listed on every single product. 

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Still, silicone is the preferred material for sex toys in general because it has some big advantages over materials such as rubber, jelly, elastomer, and PVC. 

It is non-porous. Meaning bacteria can't seep through the surface of the material and become a breeding ground for infections

It is unscented. This is a huge consideration for anybody who is scent sensitive or is turned off by that rubbery smell of non-silicone toys. 

It is hypoallergenic. Most folks have no allergic reactions to silicone.

It lasts a very long time. With proper care, a silicone toy should last indefinitely, unlike rubbers that break down with time

You can completely disinfect it. This is important if you share your toys with other partners or if you engage in both anal and vaginal play with the same toy. 

It comes in many textures and densities. This means a silicone toy can be completely firm like a vibrator or soft and squishy like some dual density dildos. 

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Are there downsides to silicone?

 In truth, the benefits of silicone far outweigh the downsides, particularly when it comes to your sexual and physical health and wellness,  but there are a couple of things you should keep in mind when buying silicone toys. 

Some silicone dildos can have less 'squish' or realistic give than their rubber (ie. Realskin, TPE, TPR) counterparts so look for dildos that are 'dual density silicone' where they overlay a softer coating on top of a firmer core. 

Silicone is very difficult to use when making 'realistic' penis strokers because it is difficult to make it soft enough. You will find most 'realistic' strokers are rubber or pvc. 

Some silicone sex toys are incompatible with pure silicone lubricants. This is a complicated topic and it really changes from manufacturer to manufacturer and product to product, so at Naughty North we advise not using pure silicone lubricants with silicone toys. You can, however, use a silicone/water hybrid lubricant since the levels of silicone are not enough to damage a silicone toy. 

Silicone is more expensive to produce and pure silicone sex toys can be more expensive than their counterparts made with rubbers or elastomers. Luckily, this is rapidly changing and you can now find more affordable silicone on the market. 

We hope this gives you some insight into why we at Naughty North love silicone and why you should too. Of course, if you have any further questions, you can always leave a comment on the blog or email us at info@naughtynorth.ca. Happy playing!

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