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[toestalucia]

ok so what it takes for gran to feel that 'yep i hate this person' ? ?

mmMM IT WOULD TAKE…….a whole lot.

i feel like pommern should be there, but gran’s more scared of him than anything due to how he’s the reason they died when they were young. but gran can’t forgive pommern for all the times he called lyria a monster either, so that makes it all messy too.

true king could probably fit in partly due to how he’s partly involved in why gran grew up like they did, and gran will have an intense dislike towards the gods at times since they are very much responsible too (and it’s easier to hate something gran has never met compared to hating their own dad, especially since the times when they hate their dad it’s a lot more being upset with him than actually hating him?).

not to mention how true king wants to unite the skies & does so in ways that gran really can’t get behind (the whole gilbert thing, great wall, etcetc), so even if the hate softens to ‘we can’t agree on things’, he kinda constantly ticks off boxes of behavior that gran dislikes.

I THINK THE BASIS IS….gran doesnt hate a lot of ppl due to how hating ppl makes them feel bad about themself, so they just,,,,try to avoid it? and often there’s more to the story so gran feels like they should hold ppl accountable for their actions, but not hate them. there’s still gonna be burst of hate, there’s no changing those emotions. but to have gran genuinely hate you, you kinda have to be someone who throws away ppl w no remorse (so ‘the end justifies the means’ is incredibly iffy for them since gran’s still very idealistic). or you have to constantly be a threat to lyria, vyrn or the rest of the the crew, or just ppl they care for in general? the more personal it gets the more likely gran will dislike you more or less.