#WhyDoYouHateMe?

[inchidentally]

Inch what is your opinion on this clip? https://www.tumblr.com/eightyonefour/762429464940527616/what-kind-of-guyteammate-is-oscar

It makes me sad that Lando isn’t able to find a lot of words to describe Osco ;-;

ohhh anon I know for most ppl this is all so boring and not interesting but the way excitable!nervous!shy!butextroverted!fidgety!sassy!emotional!squirmy!insecuresometimes!pleaseloveme!whydoyouhateme?!seeIknewyou'dloveme!creative!sexualconfidence!HORNY!travelstheworldintechnicolor!babyfever!workaholic!Lando exists against calm, placid, self-assured, does his job well,what's the point in doing less than his best, work life balance, lowkey, rational, good with kids but talks to them like adults Oscar makes me so emotional for god knows what reason ??? ;_;

but to Get Into It, I know this is the choppiest messiest compilation I've ever done but hopefully it'll be both self-explanatory and also go along well w my usual dissertation on something that has no real life importance for me but that makes me Feel Things

x x x

so the main thing with how Lando's stops for long periods to think and mull it over is for two reasons: one is that he hasn't done the usual PR aspect of his rs with Oscar the way he has with other drivers/teammates - and the other is that if he found Oscar dull or uninteresting then he wouldn't have had to sit and think aslfgsaljfgsajl. Lando's rly good with the media and honestly this answer would've been rly easy and quick if he could just say "yeah he's very fast and a good guy! hard worker and solid teammate!" bc it's not like anyone is expecting any more about a guy like Oscar anyway!

and with everyone else, Lando's got lots of anecdotes and jokes and shared activities as well as lots of experience interacting on camera in ways that give fans something to enjoy. it's not being disingenuous, it's just that they can easily tailor the friendship to be useful for publicity.

but !!! it's also the case of all of Lando's friends on the grid being extroverts as well as being great on camera. and Lando maybe could be seen as an extrovert but he's also naturally (self-confessed as well as confirmed by those closest to him) painfully shy and he relies on extroverts around him to help him out a lot. I got this ask that we don't even need proof of bc it's exactly how Lando is when he's alone among strangers or around huge crowds. same with when he has to do publicity stuff all alone the thinking silences stretch and he gets that upward inflection where he's trying very hard to see if the other person knows what he means??

and Osc is very much not an extrovert and while he likes the odd shared activity, he has said he prefers quiet conversation in small groups away from public places. so literally ! the ways he and Lando are compatible are simply in enjoying spending time together and being extremely low pressure friends who don't like the publicity aspect encroaching on that.

so how do you describe someone to a stranger if they're just quietly a good, reliable person who you like and work well with ?? Oscar himself needs a fair amount of prodding and encouragement to describe himself, let alone Lando being asked to do it !!

which I think is why landoscar has actually had this strong resonance for a lot of us who have those kinds of friendships or love those kinds of people - you can only see it and get to know it by observing it and knowing it in a way yourself. the way Oscar stares at Lando and does his little self-assigned duties to Lando and the way Lando watches Oscar in that wide-eyed trusting way and lets his brattiness out bc Oscar will always find it endearing. none of that makes for snappy PR content but if you get the vibes then it's so so sooooooo sweet ;__;

it's also why their dynamic lends itself so much to fic authors bc you've got a strong foundation of their authentic dynamic since they can't/don't fake it or play it up, from which you can put them in any scenario or any roles and they just… write themselves! not in a sense that the author isn't putting the work in as a writer skfgalsfg but the strongest thread among landoscar fic is that dynamic always coming through so consistently (even in the more challenging dark fic or out there AUs) the classics I can think of first off are playdate by debrief, that one from work can come over on monday night by higgsbosonblues and q&a by corsi

the common development of how Oscar is so blatantly changed by Lando in ways that seem either superficial or purely practical so that Lando ends up initially missing out on the depth of what that means - and misinterpreting Oscar not changing emotionally for him as disinterest. only to find that when someone who is solid and reliable and knows who they are decides they love you, they show it by changing their life for you and not changing themselves for you.

and that irl considering that Oscar always says how important it is for his relationship with Lily that he spend time with her that isn't connected to his career/life's passion, it's clear that he considers that to be proof of how much he cares. so all of the little ways Oscar bends and adapts and fulfills Lando's practical needs are ways for him to say "I value you" "I make you a priority in my life" "I want to fit you into my life" "I am willing to give up something/change something for you"

like idk how much Lando realizes the significance of those things and that's how I interpret him spending a very long time mulling and thinking rather than just getting past the answer in a neat, succinct way. bc Max F is a very emotionally intelligent guy and very capable of expressing his feelings, all of the guys on the grid are varying levels of emotional awareness/intelligence but they all have the same regular expectation of using their words to express how they feel about friends, and ofc the people surrounding Lando for the past ten years are highly attenuated to his needs. Oscar stands out as this very very different person to what he's used to!

and lastly, there's the whole gentleness and communicating through their kitten smiles and their ways of getting lost on a random subject - they're just such a quiet, gentle introverted dynamic. there's this moment after Japan last year waiting for a train, as well as this moment from Vegas where the crowd is singing happy birthday to Lando that I think are like, poetic levels of how their shyness/introversion fully matches up. bc neither of them feels easy or comfortable actually interacting with the crowd, so they keep looking to each other and smiling for comfort and reassurance. if another driver from the grid were around they could probably rely on him to brazen out the situation, but these two kittens just find solidarity in each other to get through!

so a lot of what makes landoscar a flop for bromance-only ppl is what a lot of us love about it <3<3<3 like I love a good bromance and self-aware PR ships too but landoscar made me want to get an f1blr and write insane pointless dissertations about them so shrug emoji !!

[reputayswift]

Santa, Santa, boyyou’retheworst! it’s-the-twenty-fifth, Iwishitwasthefirst! couplesallaroundme, damn-it-hurts! wannapush‘eminthefireplace and watch-‘em-burn! Santa, Santa, whydoyouHATEme? 😫 I’m a gift! 😌 look how God MADE me! 💁‍♀️ (nevernevergetwhat’sonmylist….) fruitcake just makes me sick!!! 🤒

small. talk. in-the-kitchen. dated, dumb-traditions. who. sucks. competition. (OOooOoo) call. it. pessimism. de-cem-ber is-a-prison. it. just. makes-me-miss-him.

iS It nEw YeArS yEeEet?

[goboymusic]

It’s Wednesday. I’ve only taken #adderall once in my life when I was a teenager, and it is one hell of a drug. It does make me wonder whether it’ll become a normal part of our daily routines a few decades from now, like coffee. It doesn’t make you smarter, but it can make you hyper productive / focused.

To talk about this song, I must enter serious, grownup mode: you and I know what it’s like to be disliked for reasons that are beyond our control. Maybe you fall into a few categories that a percentage of the population holds a stigma against (race, gender, appearance, health, religion, area of residence, voice accent, social connections, education level, job status, etc). Maybe it’s as simple as a rumor. People might believe you did or said something that you didn’t. Maybe you DID do something and you believe their hatred is warranted. Maybe you enjoy being hated, because you like the attention.

Needless to say, this song is about being disliked by your fellow humans for whatever reason.

The creation of songs 54 - 59 was a really healthy creative period. High level of optimism and low stress. I cherish those times when they arise, because they don’t last. It would come to an end with song 60 “Everything Will Be Okay,” which messed with my mental health for months afterwards.

The rhythmic mid-high range guitar in the verses is inspired by “Aquatic Ambience” from the Donkey Kong Country video game. You’ll notice similarities if you listen to both.

Almost recorded myself singing this song with an Indian accent, because it may have gotten more attention that way, but didn’t for obvious reasons.

Throughout GoBoy 3 and 4, a lesson was relearned after a seven-year hiatus: listeners can sense any hesitancy in your voice. Confidence is important in a recording booth. This rediscovery would lead me to experiment with drinking while recording GoBoy 6. What results would liquid courage bring? Just an experiment (excerpt from post 50).

The production quality in this song is kinda meh. My vocals do not have enough strength. I should have belted out the vocals, similar to the singing style of GoBoy 6 and 7 (excerpt from post 50).

In April, 2021, almost all of GoBoy 3, 4 and 5‘s songs were restructured to be under 3 minutes (preferably under 2m 30s), including this song. In an attempt to increase replay value in this streaming era, most of GoBoy’s songs are now purposely around 2m 20s (excerpts from post 38).

A bass boost was added to songs 37-99 in Nov, 2021, while I was stuck at home with covid. As a result, this song feels more powerful. The bass boost isn’t a simple plugin nonchalantly added to each song. It’s a process that took about 3.5 hours per song, or one whole month to complete all songs. Admittedly, I pushed the bass boost a little too far for some of them. The bass in some songs sounds like a freaking earthquake (unnecessarily pronounced low frequencies 20 - 50 Hz). Might dial that back someday. The bass boost was also applied to every song on GoBoy 6 and beyond (excerpt from post 37).

[soeffingcute]

What would you put on your custom red shorts? @soeffingcute #xwing #starwarsrebels #ceaselesswatcher #areyoumadatme #whydoyouhateme #activewear #loungewear #custom (at Long Beach, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CiAYZoaPelH/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[harryspouse]

Your blog sucks

thanks i got it from my mom

[rayabookish]

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[bloodstaindfaze]

When I was at the NF concert today 👨‍🎤 I was pulled out of the line by 7 police officers 👮‍♂️👮‍♀️👮‍♂️👮👮‍♀️👮👮 They said they got a report I was going to cut people 🗡️ Truth is that these HATERS are making false Police Reports again 📃 I was able to prove it was a lie to the police 👎 But now I have to act! 🤬 I still forgive these HATERS & I will always love them as Christ has ⛪ It is now enough¡!¡ 😲 . . . . . #HATERS #HatersOnMyMind #AreYouOkay #PrayForThem #WhyDoYouHateMe #LoveThoseWhoHateYou #LoveYourEnemies #LifeOfAMusician #LoveThoseWhoHateYou #PrayingForYou #LifeGoesOn #LoveAndHate #BSF #BloodStaindFaze #BloodStainedFaze (at :'( Where Tear Drops Fall Like Rain From My EyezZ :'( 47!) https://www.instagram.com/p/B2_P-SbHdgg/?igshid=14db69v6mlkm0

[mega-egg-bitch]

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F UCK

[my-bpd-khaos]

I once colored for the pure enjoyment and feelings of creative expression. Then my coloring took a more serious direction in my life as it started being my go to in helping with my depression & anxiety, I was able to let go of a lot of the thoughts & emotions hurling through my mind. Now it is the only way I am able to live another day. It's a way to pass time, to live another minute, another hour, another day it keeps me distracted from the unbearable pain called my life where every second of everyday the hurt overwhelms every sense in my body leaving me feeling hopeless & worthless, shattered and wanting to die. #mylifehurts #IMalwaysalone #IMhopeless #IMneveegoodenough #pleasemakethehurtsgoaway #endmysuffering #youstolemysoul #whydidyoulie #whydoyouwanttohurtme #whydoyouhateme #whydoyouwantmetodie #yourekillingme #lovehurts #pleaseletmedie #IAMworthless #youneverlovedme #youwereonlyusingme #takenadvantageof #whydidntyoujustletmego #YOUCHEATEDONMEAGAIN #IMunwanted #IMunloved #IMafailure #IMAfuckup https://www.instagram.com/p/BxcytCLge1E/?igshid=24frz8jiez2w

[theoceanhashopesforyou]

Want to quit life. #whydoyouhateme #leavemebadenergyandvibes & intentions

[goboymusic]

Happy Friday. Daemon Targaryen is everyone’s cool older cousin. That standoff at Dragonstone was dope.

You and I know what it’s like to be disliked for reasons that are out of our control. Maybe you fall into a few categories that a percentage of the population holds a stigma against (race, gender, appearance, health, religion, area of residence, voice accent, social connections, education level, job status, etc). Maybe it’s as simple as a rumor. People might believe you did or said something that you didn’t. Maybe you DID do something and you believe their hatred is warranted. Maybe you enjoy being hated, because you like the attention.

The creation of songs 54 - 59 was a really healthy creative period. High level of optimism and low stress. I cherish those times when they arise, because they don’t last. It would come to an end with song 60 “Everything Will Be Okay,” which messed with my mental health for months afterwards.

The rhythmic mid-high range guitar in the verses is inspired by “Aquatic Ambience” from the Donkey Kong Country video game. You’ll notice similarities if you listen to both.

Throughout GoBoy 3 and 4, a lesson was relearned after a seven-year hiatus: listeners can sense any hesitancy in your voice (this paragraph contains excerpts from post 50, which apply to this song). Confidence is important in a recording booth. This rediscovery would lead me to experiment with drinking while recording GoBoy 6. What results would liquid courage bring? Just an experiment. The production quality in this song is kinda meh. My vocals do not have enough strength. I should have belted out the vocals, similar to the singing style of GoBoy 6.

A bass boost was added to songs 37-99 in Nov, 2021, while I had covid (this paragraph is an excerpt from post 38, which applies to this song). As a result, this song feels more powerful. The bass boost isn’t a simple plugin nonchalantly added to each song. It’s a process that took about 3.5 hours per song, or one whole month to complete all songs. Admittedly, I pushed the bass boost a little too far for some of them. The bass in some songs sounds like a freaking earthquake (unnecessarily pronounced low frequencies 20 - 50 Hz). Might dial that back someday. The bass boost was also applied to every song on GoBoy 6 and beyond.

[junkfoodkpop]

Whydoyouhateme

[bongela]

WHY?! @barnesandnoble Why, oh why?!?! #cries #kingdomofash #sjm #sarahjmaas #sarahjmaasbooks #throneofglass #heartbroken #whydoyouhateme #ijustwantthisversion https://www.instagram.com/p/BpGfedPhfp0d_UPVx-aGi6bJFX9D2Soae3rnLM0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1hznaq9fuguh

[god-i-wanna-die]

Why does everybody yell at me? What did I do?

[irixia]

"Why did you put me in this stupid shirt, human? It doesn't even fit me." At least, that's what it looks like he's saying. In all honesty, he doesn't care if I dress him up. As long as I pet him and lay attention to him, he's a happy camper. Freaking weirdo. #doge #TJ #dressingupthedog #whydoyouhateme #dumbdoge

[rockstarpaul]

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