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#a person that complains a lot prefers their pain to the work itd take to improve themselves
andersdotters · 9 months
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Analytically speaking, the best way to get a good grasp of a person's inner workings is to focus your attention primarily to their flaws. Flaws and weaknesses reveal exactly what a person is actually thinking, their opinions, their insecurities, their feelings, etc.
#character analysis#by 'flaws' i dont necessarily only mean things that a person is bad at#i also mean things about them that tend to rub people the wrong way#for example does this person enjoy speaking badly of others?#do they tend to brag a lot?#do they pick fights often?#when you're about to pinpoint these habits you gain insight into their person#a person that enjoys talking shit is the kind of person that gets a high from attention and the reactions of others#a person that picks fights often can often reveal an insecurity in regards to themselves#not all the time mind you. some people like picking fights for fun#a person that regularly engages in passive aggressive behavior deep down truly believes theyre better than everyone else#a person that complains a lot prefers their pain to the work itd take to improve themselves#now go one step further#what does a person that gets a high from attention and reactions mean?#it means they'll almost always put themselves first before anyone else. you're not important to them#a person that deep down truly believes theyre better than anyone else nobody will ever be able to give them happiness#a person that prefers their pain to improvement means they're lazy#i mean it means more but what it boils down to is that they're a lazy person LOL#that being said like....#OKAY I KNOW FREUD IS BAD BUT LIKE.....#analyzing a person's faults is getting an insight into their base self or their 'id'#analyzing these things will almost always explain why people do things that you do not understand#or things that hurt you#they explain the whys#BUT FLAWS ARE NOT REPRESENTATIVE OF THE PERSON#dont ignore their strengths#what strengths explain is their conscious attempt to overcome their base instincts#god this sounds so much like freud#but still#a person's whole is representative by both the good and bad
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feycreature · 5 years
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Every other multiple of 2 as well as all prime numbers.
u are. mother fucker.
1. coffee mugs, teacups, wine glasses, water bottles, or soda cans?
coffee mugs. i have so many. 
2. chocolate bars or lollipops?
lollipops but i dont eat sweets much to begin with
3. bubblegum or cotton candy?
bubblegum
5. do you prefer to drink soda from soda cans, soda bottles, plastic cups or glass cups?
i prefer to not drink soda
6. pastel, boho, tomboy, preppy, goth, grunge, formal or sportswear?
somewhere between goth and grunge side note what the fuck is boho
7. earbuds or headphones?
headphones
10. game you were best at in p.e.?
FLOOR HOCKEY. my sophomore year we cut our hockey unit short by a week because the Str8 Boys got mad that they didnt understand hockey and my team kicked ass
11. what you have for breakfast on an average day?
lunch.
13. lanyard or key ring?
i dont have keys.
14. favorite non-chocolate candy?
this is hard bc i dont eat sweets and i dont like chocolate much to begin with. im gonna go with starbursts
17. most frequently worn pair of shoes?
doc martens but theyre hiking boots
18. ideal weather?
60 degrees, sunny, not windy, maybe a little rainy.
19. sleeping position?
side, mostly
22. role model? 
i try to live a life that would make taliesin jaffe proud
23. strange habits?
oh there are so many but the only one that comes to mind is blowing into cups when i take them out of the cupboard
26. favorite activity to do in warm weather?
oh fuck i love swimming. but i havent swam in years. and probably wont get to until i get top surgery. so im gonna go with jet skiing because i can actually Do that
29. best way to bond with you?
i was gonna say share music with me but. the real answer is play dnd with me i am not joking
30. places that you find sacred?
other peoples’ homes. thats not my place to Be thats not my place to interfere with i Hate being in other peoples homes. our last two store meetings have been at my managers’ houses and i HATE knowing where my managers live and i HATE that ive been in their houses and sat on their furniture and eaten their food that is Their Space im not their friend i do not belong there
31. what outfit do you wear to kick ass and take names?
any t shirt, ripped black jeans, tall docs with too many buckles, black denim jacket i turned into a vest with safety pins along the shoulders, an assortment of spiky accessories, probably eyeliner
34. advertisements you have stuck in your head?
my dad forces the o’reily’s jingle into my brain on a daily basis
37. suitcase or duffel bag?
duffel bag
38. lemonade or tea?
arnold palmer babey
41. last person you texted?
u, dork. altho if we’re talking actual phone number texting, then my mom
42. jacket pockets or pants pockets?
it depends what it is. if its something im definitely using and will be annoyed for sure if i leave in my jacket like my phone or wallet it goes in my pants pockets, if its something im temporarily holding or wont use any time soon like pens/my inhaler/pads/change it goes in my jacket
43. hoodie, leather jacket, cardigan, jean jacket or bomber jacket?
comfort and my actual wardrobe says jean jacket, but my heart and aesthetic say bomber jacket
46. most comfortable outfit to sleep in?
sweatshirt and underwear.
47. favorite type of cheese?
gouda i think
50. what made you laugh the hardest you ever have?
learning that one of my coworkers had a crush on one of the clowns from barnum and baileys and stands by it followed immediately by another coworker chiming in with “okay but teenage simba was HOT”
53. what is the current state of your hands?
cold and scabby (my tattoo is still healing)
54. what did you learn from your first job?
dont work in a warehouse. just dont.
58. four talents you’re proud of having?
i can draw, i can sing in front of people, id like to think im a good dm, and im apparently good enough at navigating customer service that in my year and a half at starbucks only ONE customer has ever complained about me and it was over something i said that she misheard
59. if you were a video game character, what would your catchphrase be? 
i was going to say “based on what i say the most itd be okie dokie” but thats a lie by that logic it would actually be “hi! what can we get started for you?”
61. favorite line you heard from a book/movie/tv show/etc.?
“If I could pull the blood of you from my veins, I would.” -vex, critical role
62. seven characters you relate to?
OOH OKAY THIS WAS A LOT HARDER THAN I THOUGHT ITD BE
weiss schnee (rwby)
rabbit (steam powered giraffe)
wolf (kippo and the age of wonderbeasts)
scorpia (she-ra)
aubrey little (the adventure zone)
beauregard (critical role)
ruby rose (also rwby)
66. favorite flower(s)?
lillies!
67. good luck charms?
a collection of randomly found foreign change in my jacket pocket, a pretty d10 that was accidentally included in one of my dice orders in my Other jacket pocket
70. left or right handed?
so. im right handed. but im naturally left handed. my granny was one of those people who thinks left handed people are the devil so she forced me to use my right hand, so i default to using my left hand but its absolutely useless
71. least favorite pattern?
FUCK PAISLEY.
73. favorite weird flavor combo?
i know that this Means like mint chocolate or pineapple on pizza or something but. toffee nut and peppermint starb syrups. nobody believes me that its good except the supervisor that got me to try it. its good i swear.
74. at what pain level out of ten (1 through 10) do you have to be at before you take an advil or ibuprofen?
about a 6 unless its a prescription. if i can stand im gonna suck it up
78. coffee from a gas station or sushi from a grocery store?
im rly paranoid about foodborne illness so i Have to go with gas station coffee even tho im a little bit of a coffee snob
79. which looks better, your school id photo or your driver’s license photo?
jokes on u i dont have either!
82. pc or console?
pc is this even a question
83. writing or drawing?
drawing
86. cookies or cupcakes?
cookies
89. who would you put before everyone else?
buster.
90. luckiest mistake?
the other day i made a drink wrong and more complicated that it needed to be and the moment i realized my mistake someone came through the drive thru and ordered the EXACT drink i had just made by mistake 
94. favorite season?
fall, hands down
97. how many phone numbers do you have memorized?
exactly one and its mine
98. favorite historical era?
romantic.
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