#after a while you get used to it and espeshelly expect it

[geronimomo-spd]

people are saying the asking the pronoun scene was a little akward. and im just sitting there like yes!! its supposed to be akward!!

i have been trans and occupied trans spaces for around... 7 years? and it took time for that lingo, that quastion, to enter my life comftrbly. thinking i wasn't good enough at it every time where it felt weird or out of place. but no, its just like that!

like, it never gets more "fluid", it never really feels like there is a spasific place in the conversation to enter it. but when everyone does it, when it becomes normelized, that akwardness becomes real too. we are both sharing the akward but sencere attemt at connecting with each other. and its beutifull. human beings are akward, and that's womderfull.

so yeah, that felt akward because it was the first time we officaly saw the doctor adress this quastion on screen, but that's what made it real. ok? like, that pause to adress it before moving on felt so realistic to me. yes doctor. please lets adress and add this akwardness into our lives because it its another part of existing!