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windwardstar · 9 days ago

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Anyway the exorsexism that is people saying trans men and mascs and then completely leaving out unaligned or alternatively aligned nonbinary people from any kind of conversation where experiences overlap because they act like any nonbinary person afab is transmasc.

You do realize you're forcing things into the binary here? That you're erasing non-binary identities? That not every non-binary person assigned female at birth is transmasc? That afab enby =/= transmasc those are not synonyms and cannot be treated a such.

The number of times people have discussed things that impact and affect me but don't recognize my actual identity is astronomical.

Take a moment and ask yourself is it truly an experience that is only something trans men and mascs face, or are there other types of enben who experience it too? (Also is it only women and femme or do others experience it too?) are you leaving them out of the conversation? are you reducing the community down to men and women, masc and femme?

Trans men and mascs and other enben. Trans women femme and other enben. Easy enough to do and doesn't force all non-binary people to either conform to the binary or be left out of the conversation.

#also like if you don't like that wording find something better #but also at this point it's like yeah ok bring back the gender trinary because y'alls response to being told not to do that was just to go #back to the binary and forget people who aren't aligned with the binary even exist #also also if you think adding other enbies or whatever is creating a trinary #let me point out that the overlap of trans men and mascs #trans mascs and other enbies can exist there too #exorsexism #brought to you by just seeing a million posts that do this #like you're not meaningfully including non-binary experiences in your theory or discussion if you don't recognize nb identities beyond #transmasc and transfemme #also remember to include intersex people when you talk about things but that's neither here nor there on this post #but there is a habit of forgetting intersex people exist so like while you're at it always make sure you're not inadvertently leaving them #out too

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