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#also i've seen the criticisms i know this can tend to be about white middle class trans people making it about ourselves
wild-at-mind · 10 months
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Also now I'm feeling really shit about not getting to anything for trans day of remembrance this year.
#i literally missed it because i suck :(#but also i've been feeling kind of weird sometimes about it#the name reading where you just know all the latin american names are mispronounced#this is the uk where it's harder to find a latinx person (or even a spanish person) to be able to help with that or do the reading#but still i think it needs some preparation beforehand if at all possible#i know these things don't have the greatest support network behind them but still :/#i just think there's something really sad about messing up the names of trans people specifically!#even if it's not in a misnaming/transphobic context#also i've seen the criticisms i know this can tend to be about white middle class trans people making it about ourselves#or something but i don't know what the solution to that is#and like any vigil maybe it's main purpose is as a symbol and to bring people together#i just remember in like 2018 when i travelled to the next town over (because there's nothing like that here)#and went to the before event and it was packed out#and my people from my bi/pan meetup group were there (i wish that group still existed :( )#some as allies and many as trans people because surprise tonnes of bi and pan people are trans way more than you'd think from the discourse#i was kind of in the in between space between ally and trans back then#i had no idea what i to do about that but in that moment i felt such love and compassion coming to me from that room#the kind i had trouble giving to myself#i think that has value even though i fully take on board the criticism of the day#we can say trans people murdered around the world are our siblings but we really have no idea what their lives are like#but maybe that's the key thing-that solidarity can still happen if we look outwards as well as inwards?#figuring out you're trans means looking inwards by necessity but we can also look outwards and say 'i can't ever fully understand#but i want to'#i don't know i feel weird tonight sorry to ramble :(
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jordanianprincesses · 10 months
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I don't know if I am alone in this, but I find the royal confessions page on Tumblr very racist. Most confessions attack Meghan. They are constantly critiquing the Middle Eastern royal families (yes, they definitely deserve criticism, but the criticism on that page is not constructive; it has many racist undertones). For example, I don't support extravagant spending or inbreeding (obviously), but these people will turn a blind eye when the European royals do it but have 1000 things to say if an ME or east asian monarch steps a toe out of line. I also think they don't have a lot of respect for cultural differences in Asia. I have lived my whole life in Middle Eastern countries with monarchs and even met some of them, and they are all aggressively normal people. Yes, they may have different customs than you, but that does not give you a free pass to criticize those customs in my opinion. I feel like European royal watchers tend to exoticize Eastern monarchies. As a result, they believe that all ME monarchies are shady, even though there have been M.E rulers who are much better and far less scandalous than popular European monarchs
Hellooo , thanks for coming here is my opinion:
I like Royal confessions I almost visit that page every day. Sometimes the confessions submitted there are sooo weird/ stupid or Idk how to say it. But we should bear in mind that the admins have nothing to do with that. They stated that they submit the confessions the way they are and that doesn't mean they share the same opinions with the submitters. They welcome both positive and negative confessions. They said so many times that they're tired of receiving confessions about the British royal families and that they don't accept racist confessions. Maybe the followers of that page dislike Meghan ( so many negative confessions about her ) however to be honest I've never seen any confession about her race or something like that. I used to like Meghan but honestly I no longer like her , same with Harry ( just my opinion) however I must say that she receives so many unfair criticism and I feel sorry for her sometimes ( like when they say she's faking her pregnancy or when they doubt her good intentions while doing humanitarian work and so on... ).
About , the Arab monarchs I am positive that most submitters are Arab people. And as an Arab I must say that most of the criticism is well deserved. Am not talking about the traditions and culture differences but they're corrupt and authoritarian and they don't allow their people to criticize them. I am Arab and I can guarantee that.
* I agree with you : criticism must be always constructive. And people have to be fair specially when criticizing people they dislike.
* I remember I've seen once a racist comment: It said that : Rajwa doesn't look like an Arab because she's white. Lol Arabs have so many skin colors. In my country we have white, olive, moderate brown , brown....And you can find multiple skin colors in just one family ( that's the case in my family)
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