#although i don't identify strongly w the label anymore

[thief-with-the-teef]

I just hope that when some of you are deriding people for "sexualizing" Asta/rion that you're specifically talking about people who ignore his trauma to objectify him in moments where he's clearly uncomfortable or lacks autonomy. I shouldn't have to explain why shaming people for simply experiencing attraction to a character is not cool, but some of the posts I've seen do kind of seem to be suggesting that if you find him hot at all you're "sexualizing" him inappropriately.

[eirian]

You wanted to see if anyone relates to your sexuality issue, and boy do I ever! Except for me, it's my gender identity. I used to identify strongly as genderfluid, but now I just don't even know anymore? I just kind of settled on calling myself nonbinary until I can figure out something more specific that fits me the way genderfluid used to. :/ But I absolutely understand about wanting some sort of concrete label even though it's not the end of the world to go without.

YEAH exactly, i was kinda there w/ my gender at one point too but eventually nonbinary just felt right so i stuck w/ it ever since (although now i slap “transmasculine” onto it as well to be more accurate)