#and there is something so inherently materialistic the further west you go
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beachesgetpeaches · 2 years ago
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but there is something to be extracted here on how something that IS (almost) true ("poor people are happier with less", which inevitably supplies that you "dont need money to buy happiness")... can be so twisted in logic so that it is taken away from what it truly signifies in this sad wretched world
(yeah I am feeling weird this morning and I am going to go on a rant)
poor people, or people who in general have less. families that at their very best live pay-check to pay-check... they have more "real world" problems compared to the comfy upper classes. they live with daily, monthly, yearly stress of how can I make my finances handle this next burden. and they struggle and they find ways to make do.
kids get hand me down books or clothes. parents sacrifice their desire for something sweet so the kids can get smth... idk there are likely multiple examples.
but imo the people in such situation have an understanding of money which differs so much from the rich (not even filthy rich) materialistic point of view. i feel like when you don't have as much, or sometimes don't have enough you learn that money is just a means to an end.
or well... money is not something you covet for yourself. thats the first thing. you learn that you need it, and then you want it to fix the injustice you observe or smth. which is why i have this sense that people who grew up with very little and now have a good wage... are more likely to donate a proper amount if they can?
and then on the other hand, when you grow up poor, it idk it teaches some good intrinsic values that are far more important in the world. like how important and good it is to be oriented towards people, how important a community is, how we (the people) can support each other in so many ways.
and my goal is not to romanticise growing up poor and not having anything, but when they say that poor people are happier with less this is what they forget? because the initial knee-jerk assumption is that poor people are happier with less bcs they don't have much anyway.
i think that they just have a much more correct outlook on the true value of people and material items.
"poor people are happier with less" and "money won't buy happiness" is literally classist propaganda. stop buying into it and start making molotov cocktails
#i dont have a degree in anything#i only have life observations#and there is something so inherently materialistic the further west you go#even this grind and hustle mentality and this notion that you need to be an independent individual#it is all meant to somehow alienate people from one another#and so if you grow up with money you 1) likely so not have the right concept of its value#2) do not have proper appreciations for all things material you have and thus you want more (especially when the entirety#of social media tells you you need more).. spoiler alert - you dont.#i grew up in an 88m2 apartment with my parents#my grandparents and my brother#my grandparents had their room my parents their room and my brother and i had our tiny cosy room (literally 2x3 m with a bunk bef inside)#and like we lived comfily enough (which i figured out when i grew up by talking to my friends)#and my grandpa had good retirement funds and my grandma had some as well#and my parents both had decent paycheck so when it all accumulated it was nice#but BOTH of my parents' parents#so all four of my grandparents#they grew up poor and working hard in the field around the house#and my parents as they grew up saw the sacrifices their parents put in to build a better life for them#and it idk i guess it creates an understanding of value of the money#my grandpa would walk each day for a year to his work (which meant his trip to and from was about 2h instead of less than 1h with public#transport) and he saved the money he would spend on each ticket in the funds for the house they were building with their bare hands at the#sea. the house i now go to and live in for months when the weather is nice#like idk#long long rant I suppose
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