#and yall none of whom have kids all nod and agree with each other and when a parent is like um actually

[unforth]

There's another post getting popular on this hellsite that boils down to, "in my anecdotal experience every child is perfectly reasonable as long as you just treat them as a tiny adult" and I'm ready to scream.

Actually mental illnesses are still mental illnesses! No matter how you treat the mentally ill person sometimes they will still show symptoms of being mentally ill because they are mentally ill! Yes even children!

I swear the minute it's about parents or children all the ~uwu take care of yourself~ acceptance crowd on Tumblr instantly reverts back to ableism and cultural Christianity - because obviously children are perfect and pure beings who are only misbehaving because the adults around them, especially their parents, aren't ~doing it right~ aren't ~trying hard enough~ actually mental illness just comes from parent fuck-ups ~obviously~. So any parent that isn't perfect 24/7 is bad and any kid is perfect until an adult messes them up. And yall haven't even unpacked your attitudes enough to realize that's the logical conclusion of these "well I work with kids and I just listen to them and everything goes perfect" posts and never fuckin reblog my angry posts where I try to point it out and I am absolutely fucking exhausted yall are exhausting. Sometimes, for parents with mental illnesses, the mental illness mental illnesses! Sometimes, for kids with mental illnesses, the mental illness mental illnesses! If your premise is "the only problem with kids is how the adults around them treat them" you are completely disconnected from reality.

It's ableist.

It's ableist.

I.t. i.s. a.b.l.e.i.s.t.

I am *begging* yall to think for five minutes before you make yet another "well I saw a kid in the grocery store crying and I asked them what was wrong and they were fine after we talked so clearly this is the secret to parenting" post viral on the 2% of people have children website. Just accept you don't know jackshit about parenting, shut the fuck up, and stop spreading ableist garbage!

[terriblecreations]

Zero Day Part 1/?

Series Summary:  After years of ignoring your parentage, an attack made on your life forces you to seek refuge with your father, Tony Stark. Somehow, you get wrapped up in SHIELD business and become an agent, and after the fall of SHIELD you find yourself working more and more closely with the Avengers. But, unknown to your father, you do have a past, one which leads to even more enemies knocking on your family's doorstep...

Pairing: Eventual Steve/Bucky/Thor x Reader

Warnings: None

Words: 1081

A/N: This is my first Marvel oneshot in a while, so please go easy on me

You casually tossed a coin in the air, watching it spin as it fell back into your outstretched hand.

Your mind was buzzing with the events of the day, which there were certainly a lot of. First, your contact completely blew you off, which only pissed off your boss and led to a screaming match that left your throat burning. Then your favorite barista quit right before you could order your drink, citing that the person before you made him hate life in the city. Finally, and possibly the most serious, you had arrived at your apartment only to find it ransacked and most of your equipment stolen.

Now, you were getting called into a late night meeting with a man you had not seen in over a year. Your father, Tony Stark.

After being conceived after a night of too much partying, your mother made it more than clear to Tony that all she wanted was enough supplemental income to support you and her while she finished her degree. Nothing more, nothing less.

You had to give him credit, though, as he found ways to sneak into your life. It took his disguised appearance at your third grade science fair before your mother finally let you both officially meet.

To say your relationship with your father was strained would be an oversimplification. You had distanced yourself from both of your parents when you left for college, and very much the same after. But after your mother’s death two years ago, you both promised the other you’d work better in keeping in touch.

It of course didn’t help that your father had announced himself as the Iron Man and in later years an Avenger. That, of course, made your job a little bit more difficult. After all, anyone with the slightest bit of power would want to find a way to exploit a weakness of the billionaire, playboy, philanthropist. His estranged child would, of course, be number one on that list.

And with you being a hacker-for-hire, you couldn’t afford your real identity to ever be used against you.

“Miss Stark?”

You barely glanced up at the voice of the AI. “Yes, JARVIS?”

“We’ve arrived. They are waiting for you in the conference room on the left.”

You rolled your eyes but exited the elevator, tossing the coin one last time to get rid of your nerves. Something told you your father just had to include his superhero friends. 

Of course, when you entered the conference room, you found several sets of eyes staring at you. You ignored the nervousness settling in your stomach and met the single eye of Nick Fury, someone whom you had done jobs for in the past, before you found you liked sitting behind the computer more than fieldwork.

“Agent X,” Fury greeted, his expression neutral.

“Fury,” you said through gritted teeth. “I’m not an agent anymore, remember?”

He shrugged. “Once a member of SHIELD, always a member of SHIELD.”

“I’m sorry, what?” Your father spoke up from his place at the other end of the conference table. “She’s the one you called in? Are you serious right now?”

“Stark,” both of our faces turned back to Fury. “Since the Avengers cannot handle this matter by themselves, I had to bring in someone I know can get the job done.”

You chuckled, but the sound was empty of any humor. “If you think I’m doing anything for you guys, you’re as messed up as the other guys.”

A blonde man who you recognized as none other than Captain America spoke up. “She’s just a kid, what can she do for us anyways?”

You pushed down the desire to throw a nasty retort, knowing it’s what Fury would have wanted.

Instead, it was Clint who spoke for you. “Sorry Cap, but this ‘kid’ single-handedly brought down twenty Hydra bases while you were still frozen in the ice.”

You grinned at the older man. “Lovely to see you, Barton.”

He saluted you with a smirk. “Always is, Agent X.”

Fury cleared his throat. “Now, X, I am fully aware that your apartment was broken into tonight, correct?”

You could sense your dad straightening up in his seat. “Yes, it was, but I wasn’t there.”

“We believe the people who broke in are the very same that this team was tasked with hunting down. But, they were unable to, and thus indirectly led to you being found out.”

“And by found out, I take it you mean…”

“That you’re his kid,” Fury said, nodding to Tony whose face was pale.

The other Avengers glanced to your father, each of them sporting their own expression. You didn’t much care for it, instead turning to Fury, knowing your old job was dead and SHIELD, as fractured as it was, was your only way of staying alive at this point.

“What do you need me to do?”

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“You know, kid, you could’ve told me.”

You rolled your eyes as you double checked your weapons. Guns, check. Electric batons, double check.

“I just thought we agreed to keep in touch more.”

You turned to see he was barely holding it together. Something was haunting his eyes, and you would be lying if you said it didn’t make you hurt a little.

“Look, Dad, I know how much you worry; it doesn’t help you don’t talk to anyone about them too. I didn’t want to add onto the pile when you have all of this,” you motion around at the Avengers tower, “to deal with.”

He walked towards you, wrapping his arms around you and sighing as he placed his head on top of yours.

“You’re my kid. I know you’re a lot like me and hate this sentimental crap, but I don’t want you to ever think you can’t come to me about these things. Got it?”

You nodded your head, closing your eyes as you hugged him back.

After a few moments, you forced yourself to pull away. “I gotta go fix this mess now. I’ll see you when I get back.”

He nodded. “You got it kid.”

And that’s how it began. Your life with the Avengers. Yeah, it was a pretty quick change, but when you got back from that mission and Tony forced you to join them for a family dinner, you knew you couldn’t fall off the grid so soon again…

But you still had a past and plenty of enemies who wouldn’t let you go that easily...

A/N: Let me know what yall think. Update to the Way I Feel Inside should be posted in the next few days

[peachymhaechan]

“Not even one snow angel?”

Genre: fluff

Warnings: language bc im too dumb to find better words

Pairing: Jaehyun x gender neutral reader

Author’s Note: yall it’s so cold that they had to cancel school for three days bc it’s supposed to be in the negatives for three days straight, so yall already know what that means: time to write fluff focused around Jung Jaehyun when I should be preparing for my biotechnology debate,,, yeehaw !! also: im shook that yall liked the mark mafia au so much,,, I will have another mafia au out soon, love yall !!

our story is set in fair Verona, where it is cold as tits out

jk its not actually set in Verona but ya know. Romeo and Juliet, am I rite, laid ease and gents?? (even tho that story is high key messed up and I don’t really understand why people aspire to have relationships like that) 

no but for real, classes for the next couple of days were cancelled because of a negative ten degree Fahrenheit wind chill, and that meant you had nothing to do (other than procrastinate your class work)

yeehaw, am I rite, laid ease and gents???

n e ways, 

rather than staying in your dorm all day w your dorm mate whom you did not always get along very well with, 

you decided to carpe the fuck outta that diem and play in the snow with some of you friends

lacing up the boots you shoved over four pairs of socks, you called Johnny, a kid you’d known since your freshman algebra class

“Seo, let’s go outside for once.” 

“Excuse me, what? Is it the sleep deprivation talking or did I hear you just say the words lets go and outside in one sentence?” a sleepy Johnny said from the other line

“Haha, very funny, dumbass. Let’s go play in the snow,” you told him, throwing on a winter coat 

“Y/N, it is eleven AM,” Johnny told you, causing you to roll your eyes as you shut the door

“Really? I had no clue, Johnny, thank you for telling me.” 

“Y/N, it is eleven AM on a day when classes are cancelled,” Johnny rephrased

“Yes, I am well away. Suit up, Seo. I am on my way over, be there in five.” 

on your way, you looked at all the snow and tried not to slip on ice

you made a few stops at some of your other friends’ dorms, and by the time you got to Johnny’s, there was a small army of people ready to play in the snow (and wake up Johnny)

“Mark, can I please wear your hat?” Haechan whined, flashing Mark puppy dog eyes and tugging on his sleeve

“Y/N, make him give me his hat,” the boy begged you, turning those eyes on you

“Mark, do what the baby says,” you told him, knocking on Johnny’s door

johnny seo opened the door, and before you could say anything, you were hit with a snowball in the face

“JONATHON SEO, WHAT THE FUCK???” 

he started cackling and said, “Before you guys got here, I went outside and made a snowball, then put it in a bowl in my mini fridge.” 

“WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??”

“Nothing, Y/N, I thought you wanted to play in the snow?” 

“Johnny, we are not IN the snow right now. We are standing in the middle of your dorm building, while snow drips down my face. I am going to destroy you when we are actually in the snow.” 

“I’d like to see you try, dumbass. Oh, also: do you care if I invite someone to hang out with us today?” he asked, and for some reason, everyone pivoted their attention to the six foot tall man, which you did not notice

“Go ahead, the more the merrier. Right, guys?” you asked, and everyone nodded a little too enthusiastically

You narrowed your eyes in suspicion but didn't ask any questions

“Who all were you planning on inviting?” you asked, trying to get more info out of him

Mark, Haechan, Jisung, Chenle, Jaemin, Jeno, and Lucas all avoided eye contact

“I don’t know, probably just a few of the other guys... Ten, Taeyong, Winwin, Kun, and Jae.” 

so THAT’S why they were acting weird 

those two faced whores

“Jae?” you asked, trying to do some more subtle investigating

“Yes, Jae.” 

“Jae as in... Jaehyun?” 

“Yes, Jae as in Jaehyun.” 

“Like... Jung Jaehyun?” 

“Yes, Jung Jaehyun.” 

“Like..... your roommate Jung Jaehyun?” 

“Yes, my roommate Jung Jaehyun.” 

“The one that I think is hot and told you all that I have a crush on him?” 

“That’d be the one.” 

oh no

oh fuck no

“Unless, of course, you want me to tell him that something has come up and he is no longer invited.” 

“No, no, that’s not necessary, he can still.... he can still join us, if he wants.” 

“Okay, good, because I told him to come with us, and he should be ready any minute now.” 

cue Jaehyun nudging johnny out of the way so he can get out of the door

and all you could think was 

ohhhhhhh mannnnnnnn, he’s hot

he had on jeans, a fluffy winter coat, gloves, and boots, but he had you quaking in your four pairs of socks, okay 

you could feel your cheeks heat up when he gave you a smile

those dimples had you wEAK, BITCH

“Hi, Jaehyun!” you managed to get out, to which he responded

“Hey, Y/N! That hat looks really cute on you! You always look cute, but, ya know what I mean.” 

to say you were malfunctioning would be an understatement

the boys saw you go into a full system reboot

“Let’s get going before all the snow melts!” Chenle said, grabbing your arm and pulling you out of your technical difficulty

“I doubt the snow will be melting any time soon,” Jisung mumbled, getting a slap in the arm from one of the other boys

the only sounds that registered to you were the sounds of the bickering boys, sleds dragging on the floor, and your own heart beat

okay, dawg, just play it cool. 

now that’s easier said than done, isn’t it? dumb bitch. 

the whole time yall walked outside, you were super aware of the proximity of Jaehyun

after about two minutes, Jaehyun was standing right! next! to! you!

wowie, babey! yee fuckin haw!

when yall finally made it to the “lawn” (whatever the fuck u wanna call it, I am not good with words, yeet) of campus- a huge hill with trees all around, right in the center of campus-

yall threw down the sleds a few of you brought, and got right to it

johnny got on a different sled and challenged you to a race, to which you naturally agreed to

while johnny was getting situated before the race, you made a snowball out of his sight, and right as it started, you nailed him in the face

“yOU MOTHER FUCKER!” johnny yelled as he fell off his sled and you took the lead

the boys all laughed (including Jaehyun! let’s gooooo!) and watched you do a half assed victory dance when you reached the bottom of the hill

winning was great and all, but you had to climb back up the hill:/ 

not cool, dawg:/

when you finally reached the top, you found that some of the guys were making a snowman

awwwwwwwwwwwww

Jisung saw your heart melting upon the sight and said, “Stop that, this is emo boy gang, either get on board with emotional numbness or get out.” 

that stopped melting your heart, but you still loved the sight of all of them so concentrated on making a huge snowman

Jaehyun led the group, telling them what to do and assembling everything

by the time the snowman was complete, it easily was taller than you were

“yo. this is dope, bro,” johnny said to Jaehyun, pulling him into a bear hug

“thanks, bro,” Jaehyun said, laughing a bit at how ridiculous it all was

“Snowball fight time?” Jeno asked, all of the younger boys behind him, looking at you Old Folk for confirmation as to whether or not it’d be socially acceptable to start wailing balls of coldness at each other

you, johnny, and Jaehyun looked at each other and shrugged 

“Why not?” 

why not, indeed

without a second of hesitation, the younger boys started chucking snowballs at you three

“FUCK” “SHIT” “BITCH” 

sicko mode or mo bamba? 

“DIVIDE AND CONQUER, DIVIDE AND CONQUER!” you yelled, all three of you taking off in different directions, making the boys split up their force to follow

for some reason, Jaehyun ran along with you, leaving johnny to fend for himself

“Jaehyun, this isn’t a part of the plan!” you scolded, but at the same time loved the situation yall were in

“I know, I wanted to make sure you don’t get hurt.” 

wow, we stan !

“That’s awfully sweet of you, but now we have to figure out how to get rid of them.” 

“I’ll make a diversion while you hide and make ammunition? Send a signal or something and i’ll find you when you’re ready,” Jaehyun told you, making a sharp left and darting through the trees, a trail of boys following him

since you were left alone, you put your hands on your blushing cheeks and then got to work

within a few minutes, you had more than enough ammunition to hit the boys with and you saw all of them at the bottom of the hill, some wrestling and some throwing wads of snow at the others

great idea: take them out from up there?? yes, let’s go y/n, coming in clutch w that idea

without warning, you began to chuck the hundreds of snowballs you made at the boys

by the time you went through all the ammo, none of the boys were left standing except for johnny and Jaehyun

johnny stood up from behind a statue in the campus center and said, “Holy shit.” 

Jaehyun looked at all the boys laying in the fetal position and said, “Holy shit.” 

after that, everyone wanted to go home

not sure why, after all it’s not like they just got their asses kicked in the cold

“I don’t feel like going back to the dorms so soo, though,” Jaehyun said to you and Johnny

johnny went :) idea time! 

“I am feeling really tired from today, but I heard Y/N say earlier that they wanted to stop at the café at some point today and try one of the new drinks they’re making.” :) ;) 

fuck

“Okay, cool. Do you want to go to the café with me, then?” Jaehyun asked you

Jaehyun asked you. 

Jaehyun asked you? 

“Yes, I’d love to!” you told him, handing your sled to Jaemin to take with him to the dorms

after parting ways, yall went to the café and had a kind of?? date

just a lot of small talk, what is your goal in life, what are your deepest fears, blah blah blah

on the way home, though, that was when it got REALLY couple-y

you slipped on ice! 

and he went to catch you!

but he fell, too!

but he made it so that you were laying! on! top! of! him!

Hello, K-drama moment!

instead of speaking, you both stared into each other’s eyes 

before you totally #securedthatman by rolling off of him

and making a snow angel

laughing, he stood up and held out a hand to help you up

“Come on, let’s get going, it’s really cold out now. Too cold for snow angels, for sure.” 

“Not even one snow angel?” you asked, flashing him puppy dog eyes

“Not even one snow angel,” he confirmed and helped you up, and!

he didn’t let go of your hand! 

later on, yall consider that snowball fight turned café trip to be your first date, and boy, was it cold, but your hearts sure as hell felt warm that day

in conclusion, uwu