#bc it seems to exist solely to abdicate responsibility for one's own life and make things as vague as possible
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my most extremely petty beef is that i absolutely cannot stand the term 'situationship'
#gav gab#nine times out of ten it seems to just be like#'you're acting to weird to be Juuuuust Frieeeeeeends'#it's amatonormativity the term lmao. i hate it. words mean things. please use them.#and it's often used i've observed to like completely avoid agency in one's own life#like 'oh haha it just ~happened'#no people made choices. people are always making choices. whatever relationship you have with a person#you are making choices about it#your life is not happening TO you#if you use this term a lot gd bless good for you i'm not the boss of you#nor do i think less of you for it#i just. hate that it exists and if i could press a button and erase it i would lmao#bc it seems to exist solely to abdicate responsibility for one's own life and make things as vague as possible#i cannot emphasize enough this is the pettest of pet peeves#it literally does not matter at all#i just have a very specific aggravation nerve for it lmao#it's like how some people dislike the word moist or whatever
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