#bc the journey-of-discovery and fantastical framing are a lot more suited to the kind of stuff I need and like

[gloriousmonsters]

mental health app I've been trying (which is actually pretty cool) just offered me the tip of 'if you're very anxious, just telling yourself firmly that you're excited instead can help more than trying to calm down because if you can fool yourself into excitement, your mind can repurpose most of the things your body's already doing' and I'm. I cannot believe that Valentino's 'spice up your business partner's panic attack by giving him a handjob and maybe you can turn a trigger into a kink, doesn't hurt to try' methodology from the fic I'm working on has a possible scientific basis