#but be firm and strong my love; don’t forget who you are! 💖💓💕

[banglatown]

hey - you don’t need to answer if you don’t want to but I just wanted to know what would you say are definite red flags in a relationship I feel as though I’m about to get into my first relationship but things like what you’ve said in your personal texts have scared me and I don’t know how you’re able to tell that a person will become that way Please don’t feel pressured to reply

hey angel! and omg .. it’s fine dw abt it ! and yes .. i understand what you mean .. my txt posts abt my ex boyf are so awful . and well i’d understand why you’d want to know how to avoid that, if possible

beebs’ comprehensive guide on spotting someone who isn’t suitable to be in a relationship with you but they INSIST that it’s LITERALLY fine

... goes without saying .. PLS address what type of relationship you want, do you want a long term monogamous relationship or do you want something short term and casual? if they don’t give you the liberty to discuss such matters, you know that they don’t give a FUCK abt your comfort and only care for themselves .. a person who doesn’t respect the most vital CONSENT will literally never be good to you

they behave as if they own you .. if they start acting like they know what’s best for you .. even more than your own parents/guardians . if they have a problem w ppl hugging or kissing you even if YOU are totally fine with it???? it’s a downhill battle from there, they literally don’t care abt you, they only care abt how you make them feel, like to them, their pride matters more than your safety

they are obsessive .. pls THINK ! do they care a BIT too much abt the ppl you spend your time w? even if said ppl are just friends or better yet, ppl you share actual dna with? are they FAR too concerned over every time you interract with a person who could possibly have an attraction to you? do they feel entitled to your time? bc if they do, this is not a good sign; bc like in my situation after i broke up w him, i blocked him off of EVERY thing that i could remember and he found the one thing i forgot to block him on and started contacting me, and then emailing me and saying that i ‘hinted’ not wanting to be in contact w him anymore .. it literally became harassment .. as if i didn’t block him on everything, ppl as such are so far removed they LITERALLY don’t see getting blocked on everything as what it is, but as a sign to find a new way to contact you .. that isn’t love, they’ll tell you it’s bc of love tho but it isn’t, it never was love, it was obsession from the start ..

they insult you .. like for literally no reason .. like rly mean shit that’s uncalled for out of nowhere for no reason .. like they’re trying to wear you down until your confidence becomes dust and they are the only person that can make you feel good abt yourself .. or like in their thinking .. they feel the need to knock you down a few pegs .. it’s so vile .. and men wonder why the get trashed .. it’s bc they LITERALLY do shit like tht .. confident women scare them and so they try to make them insecure so they’re easier to manipulate and gaslight