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#but introspection is a lot harder than public shaming i guess lol
spnshameblog · 2 years
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.ok let me be petty in the tags for a sec. I just fucking hate it when ppl happily dish out but cant take it in return.
#HOW has it never come up that 4*lw included the fetishisation of asian people#in all the months people were talking about it.#idk i just find it weird that some people will be incredibly forceful and SHOWY#about calling people out for problematic behaviour or for consuming problematic media#but yall never noticed this?#and im not talking about ppl who quietly stopped talking about the fic after ppl started talking about#how truly harmful the b*sty asian b*auties thing was a few months back#im talking about ppl who usually jump at the opportunity to rip someones head off when you finally have a reason to call them out#and like. i know some of them have DEFINITELY read it. and they cannot have missed how harmful bab shit is#its like 'accountability but only for the things and people i already didnt like methinks'#maybe some of that. again. very SHOWY energy that goes into calling people out#after theyve already been called out btw. yall never actually add anything new yall just pile on.#maybe some of that energy can be spent on examining the stuff you didnt already kind of hate#and were just looking for a reason to like. be able to hate 'legally'#but introspection is a lot harder than public shaming i guess lol#(im not saying ppl should stop calling each other out. but maybe sometimes the callouts are just for the sheer pleasure#of being allowed to point fingers. absolutely still call ppl out on bs. but maybe dont take such sick glee in it. its very obvious.#especially when its a topic that doesnt actually affect you and youre 'just' an ally)#idk if someone feels attacked now. if you cant see the hypocrisy#in ignoring harmful stuff that you have LITERALLY send other ppl 'haha kys delete your blog' for?#🤷🏻‍♀️#hot take but sometimes self reflection is more helpful than callouts#m
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