#but sungho gives me...intelligent...controlled

[blueberrybeomgyu]

dont know is this fits but dom himbo sungho that’s started realizing he has a size kink but not the “i’m binger and stronger” the “i’m bigger but i want her to push me around and tell me what to do” so basically slowly entering that sub category if that makes sense ☺️

IT FITS!!! the shoe fitting fr rn, i've never heard of himbo sungho before so lets see what i can do *cracks knuckles*

i think a challenge excites sungho, he's a bit cocky in a "sure i can do this, it's not a big deal" kind of way, i think his approach his sex positions would be similar, he'll be in a dominant position just because he can and that's what his partners expect from him

but maybe sungho doesn't necessarily enjoy it, he does want some say in what you guys do but he doesn't want to decide every thing that happens, he finds fun in being surprised by what you decide to do next!!

im assuming in this case reader is smaller or weaker than sungho, so when the two of you start seeing each other, he assumes you'll want the same thing everyone else has, for him to be the more dominant one in bed. he's surprised when you push him down on the bed and lead the kiss yourself, and he finds that he likes when you're in more dominant leaning positions like riding him or sitting on his face

sometimes there's this sense of consensual...encouragement? in ff, like both parties want to do something but one of them needs a little help getting comfortable and brainless (taesan) i don't think sungho is like that, he's assured in what he wants to do and confident enough to ask/go for it. however, when you give him what he wants without him asking for it (such as touching him the way he likes), that's a turn on for him and it makes him comfortable with relinquishing control, he could overpower you but he feels safe enough to not want to, and he enjoys that a lot!!

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the keyword in consensual encouragement (i just made that term up btw lol) is that it's consensual. hypothetical taesan, for example, wants to submit to you, wants to be in a floaty headspace while you use him, but he's in his head about how he'll look and sound, so he struggles to relax the way he wants to. in this situation, hypotetical dom y/n would reaffirm that this is what taesan wants, and would give him the space to change his mind at any time.

in what i call consensual encouragement, you are 100% sure you want to do something sexual but maybe you lack confidence or experience. this is not the same as coercion. it's important to remember that you always have the right to stop sexual interactions or change your mind and do something else during them, and so do your partners. no one has the right to push you into things you may not be ready for!

[bonedo-enthusiast]

bnd's hogwarts houses 𐂐◯𓇋

A/N: second tumblr post yay :p hope you all enjoy! also, lowercase is intended! <3

tws: none

wc: 577

Gryffindor

gryffindor is giving woonhak, what can i say? woonhak is such a sweet, loyal guy who is also quite loud and curious by nature. in that one “what? door!” episode, he wanted to go on a walk with his bandmates, showing how much he cares about them as well as showing his exploring side. even though he’s the maknae, he’s not afraid to speak his mind and he takes care of his other members. he’s a silly guy, yet finds a balance of seriousness at times like when he was mc. gryffindor’s just so him! :p

Hufflepuff

if there’s anyone in bnd that i’m positive about, it’s riwoo being a hufflepuff. he’s just such a sweet guy, and definitely does not scream any of the other houses to me. he’s so hard-working, having become an amazing dancer with a lot of control over his body and footwork. also, as we all know, riwoo is a major foodie, and that’s a trait that is also associated with the people of this house.

now hear me out… jaehyun. i didn’t place him in gryffindor because, quite frankly, he’s a scaredy-cat (/pos <3) and i didn’t put him in slytherin even though slytherins are strong leaders because i feel like he’s not a big self-preservation dude or cunning. sooooo… i say hufflepuff. i mean, he’s a sweet guy and kind of molds himself a bit to fit the specific situation he’s in, trying to give others a chance to shine. he’s very dedicated to his craft, always wanting to improve and make onedoor/his loved ones proud. he’s fairly patient as well, having had to repeat himself several times in that one “what? door!” episode when they were in the storage container complex (iykyk).

Ravenclaw

the first person i thought of for ravenclaw is sungho. i don’t even know if this is true, but for some reason he gives me the vibes of someone who’s into academia. he does have a love for poems and literature, so maybe that’s where i got that vibe from. he’s also an artist, and has a lot of creativity. also, as the oldest, i feel like he has an air of wisdom about him… (?) like the younger members can come to him with questions because i think he’d just have more life experience.

i was super unsure of this dude, but ultimately, i think leehan is a ravenclaw. ravenclaws can be obsessive, especially about their interests. now, would i say leehan is obsessive? well, no. but he certainly does not ever stop thinking about fish/sea life. 😭 this sole reason is why i placed him in ravenclaw over gryffindor. but he’s also a very curious individual, and loves listening to people and learning about them and their interests. leehan is known as a therapist-like member, as he often gives other members advice. for these reasons, i have placed him in this house.

Slytherin

when i first think of who in bnd would be slytherin, i immediately think of taesan. he’s very ambitious and determined, which really shows through all of the music that he has worked on writing/producing over the years. he’s also a bit of a little shit at times (/affectionately <3), so imo he fits right in with slytherin LMAO. he also seems quite well-spoken, and comes across as intelligent. being a leo, he’s also quite loyal with those he cares for, which is another trait of this house.

[xiathewitch]

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[02.12.23]

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Based on Tarot

English is not my first language please understand if I make any mistakes thank you :)

Wow, a lot of cups and knight energy in this group omg. OK, I did know bonedo quite well since I stan them but this reading is not based on the knowledge I have about them, this is 100% based on tarot and the energy I got intuitively while I did the reading (and I think that it was pretty accurate actually 🥸). Anyway hope you like my reading thank you!

Jaehyun

When I connect to his energy I find that he's very cute and sweet, seems to be a happy person but also sad? I kind of feel like I wanna be kind and soft to him, and take care of him, but I also sense indecisiveness energy, and emotional outbursts from him, I feel like he is hiding this side from others idk, he doesn't want to hurt other people.

Now with the cards, he is good at both giving love and receiving love and support he's also very balanced when it comes to that. He is not scared of emotions. He's very healing, very affectionate and intimate towards others, friendly. Is a romantic, who is looking for true love lmao. But often hurt when it comes to love 😭 he might be someone who get hurt quite easily.

He is also Intelligent, witty, smart, is very professional when it comes to his work, can be a perfectionist, career-oriented, has an intellectual ability to adapt to any situation, brilliant sense of humor and his charm makes him irresistible.

Have a lot of determination, passionate, and have a strong drive when doing something, very charming and lovable, high self-confidence, might love showing off. Can be a bit impulsive. Carefree, playful, very active, have an optimistic attitude towards life, courageous and generous. Love challenges, especially when it comes to the creative field. Competitive. Could love traveling.

Can be quite straight to the point, can have a sharp tongue, analytical, would detect BS out of you, has a strong sense of right and wrong.

I can see why he is the leader.

but someone, please take care of this boy, give him a lot of love and be nice to him 🥺

Sungho

Oh, he gives me funny energy, like I laughed when I did the reading on him, he makes me laugh lmao, and he makes me feel quite confident so he might be the type that makes you feel confident around him.

He is kind, like the kindest person you'll ever meet. Sweet and calming. Emotionally generous. He'll bring balance and harmony to any group he's in. Stable. Have a strong sense of security and safety and could be protective. Very sensual. His emotions could be like a roller coaster and he might be dealing with his emotions by seeking pleasures and excess sensual experiences. Might have a tendency to be stuck in the past tho.

He's the type who thinks that "What has worked in the past will work in the future".

He is the rock of his family and his group and these people definitely means a lot to him.

He might look like someone who has it all, and it's always perfect. But he might have deep-rooted issues that need to be addressed. Could seem like the happiest people on the planet, but there are often tears behind the surface.

He could also be good at making money, and is good with money in general. He values legacy and the importance of having a good reputation.

He really is the strong shoulder of the group that everyone can count on 💪.

Riwoo

Now he gives off the vibe of being very mature, calm and is knows what he is doing, confident but also kinda close off and is an introvert.

Based on the cards, it just confirmed what I just said lol, very mature, emotionally and critically mature. Acknowledge his feelings, good at controlling his emotions, pretty self-aware. Emotionally strong but can be close off with his emotions, like he doesn't need others people for his emotions.

Diplomatic, clever, has a lot of knowledge and is well-liked by others, someone you can count on.

Warm, kind, generous, honest, and fair. He has a balance between his creative and logical side and is in touch with both his feminine, and masculine side.

He is an excellent friend and partner, he is affectionate, protective, and could be a good leader. Have a great social skills but he's also an introvert, like if he needs to he could be really good at it. But he could also be a good liar and manipulator so...yeah, but I don't think he is that type of person.

He can be impatient, competitive, and opinionated sometimes too, he just feels the need to use his brilliant brain 🤓, so when he is with people he is comfortable with his talkative side might show up.

He's creative and has amazing artistic abilities. He can be quite spiritual and intuitive too!

This is quite attractive actually.

Leehan

Gives me comfortable energy, people would feel safe being around him and feel free to be themselves, he's giving me the vibe of someone who would not judge you and he seems to know a lot and understand life well.

Now with Tarot. Like Sungho, he's a kind person, like very KIND and generous person. He's a homebody and yearns for comfort and security, he can be childlike sometimes but also is wise at the same time.

He's carefree and seems to be stuck in the past, always longing for things gone by, and this can impact his ability to be present and to move forward with his life.

He is sensual and likes physical comfort, he's fun to be around, and he's someone who's not scared to let his inner child come out, he is someone who embodies nostalgia and can come off as innocent and naive. He likes plants and animals and might even be able to talk to animals (well not literally but yk the vibe).

He's someone with wisdom beyond his age, he's like a wise teacher, the light for others, probably someone who people will come to ask for advice, no wonder he's known as the therapist of the group lmao.

He likes to seek solitude like to be alone but not lonely, he might be prone to be meticulous and over-critical of himself, fixating on unnecessary details rather than seeing the big picture.

He's giving me the vibe of someone who would like the idea of being a monk or a nun. Yeah.

Taesan

Ok COOL vibe like this emoji 😎 is what i get from him. Also he's calm, very arty like a real artist vibe. He also has the aura of someone who's quite experienced in their field, he knows what he's doing bruh. I also got a fun and mischievous vibe from him. But he's also someone who's quite hard to get close to? Like he's shy and kinda close of.

Now everything makes sense with all the cards I got lmao. This is a Singer, Poet, writer, painter, very creative energy. He's optimistic, dramatic and romantic. Someone who's in love with the idea of love. Very artistically and musically inclined.

He's charming, adaptable, and can have strong emotional responses to situations, he might not really show it tho. He's easily influenced by his environment and the people around him. Like to put his emotions into his artistic works.

He is lovable and has a positive way of viewing the world. Someone who like tu put on performance and entertaining others.

He likes being original, and he is, like to create something new, something different and exciting. He knows what he want and is confident in his abilities.

He's courageous and competitive, he wants to get better and be better than other people.

Woonhak

Even intuitively I can feel he's young, which he is. He's very cute and very lovable, I adore him, but also feel kinda sad for some reason.

Tarot says he's someone with meaning and purpose in life. He might have these 2 sides of him though, 1 is him being satisfied with his life and what he has, it's like a wish comes true to him, he's proud of himself and has high self-esteem. He appreciates all the little things around him that make him happy.

But the other side is him always feeling regrets and disappointments, being emotionally unsatisfied, being hard to please, feeling unloved, and focusing on the negative.

But he rarely shows his negative side, he's kinda similar to Jaehyun. He doesn't want others to worry about him so he's working hard both on himself and his career.

Please he needs a hug 😭😭

Riwoo, Sungho, and Jaehyun seem to be the most mature for me which makes sense since they are the hyung line and Jaehyun is the leader.

Anyway, this is longer than I expected and took me a lot of energy. Also, I accidentally posted this when my draft was not complete cuz Tumblr was lacking, yes I don't think it was my fault 🙄

I hope you enjoyed my reading, thank youuuuu. ❤️🖤

*everything here is based on tarot and my intuition, remember that things could change, and I could be wrong. Please take this with a grain of salt.