#calls me a gender neutral shortened version of my dead name (though still misgenders me cause. sure ok. ugh)
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things no one tells you abt growing up number one: you start to get inexplicably mad at your dad all the time
#have literally never really experienced this before this year i just accepted him as Like That#i would’ve always classed myself as a mommy issues kinda guy even though i don’t really think i have Parental Issues so much as i just have#Issues. but at some point you realise the reason you have more negative memories about your mother is because your mother was actually THERE#not even in a blaming him way. he just had to work a lot and late hours when i was a kid#but still at some point you see the way he whines about doing things your mom does 24/7 and how entitled and easily enraged he is#and it annoys me because holy shit i’m like that. did i get that from you? the way i can be so snappy and aggressive and entitled?#Augh. it boils down to the fact that my (mildly transphobic/gender crit) parents know i am transgender#and my mom - while still not really supporting it whatsoever - has been Nice about it (though ive made it very very easy for her to be) and#calls me a gender neutral shortened version of my dead name (though still misgenders me cause. sure ok. ugh)#my dad doesn’t even make an effort 90% of the time and it just makes me so fucking angry#you can be transphobic that’s fine my mom is but it doesn’t hurt you one fucking bit to change the way you address me a tiny bit#ur literally the ONLY person in my life still using my deadname#oliver talks
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