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[darlingsdontdie]

Yandere Moodboard: Vampire Inspired Gothic WLW — for anonymous

"I have been in love with no one, and never shall," she whispered, "unless it should be with you."

Currently closed for requests.

[dear-yandere]

♡ yandere + dark content writing blogs masterlist ♡

Last updated August 8, 2023.

Recently added blogs are indicated by (new). If you write yandere or dark content, please send an ask in order to be added to this list! Please include your blog name, the fandoms you write for, and whether or not you have a masterlist.

MISC —

@99-nct​​ — kpop — masterlist

A —

@adarlingsnightmare​​​ — multifandom

@after-witch​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

(new) @aluraveil — genshin + bsd— masterlist

@amusedyan​ — multifandom — masterlist

@an-ambivalent​​ — multifandom — masterlist

(new) @another-yandere-writer — multifandom— masterlist

@aph-amorous​​  — hetalia — masterlist

@ariesrondeletia​​ — multifandom — masterlist

B —

@beandaifuku​​​​ — bsd + jjk — masterlists

@bigscaryyanderewriter​ — multifandom

@bigwriterenergy​​ — jjba — masterlist

@blzzrdstryr​​ ​​ — genshin — masterlist

@bloodiedloveletters​ — multifandom

@bri-flores​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@bruisedhusbando​ — ocs — masterlist

@bunnykawa​​​ — haikyuu — masterlist

@bye-bye-sunbird​ — genshin — masterlist ​

C —

@cakepixel​​ — multifandom

@catchingwildfires​ — bnha

@camelai​​ — mostly genshin — masterlist

@chezzywezzy​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@cinnamonest​​ — genshin — masterlist

@closetdegen​ — hq — masterlist

@cryme-a-scenario​ — masterlist

@crow-mlm​ — multifandom anime + games

@cupsofsuga — kpop — masterlist

@cursedyanderes​​ — multifandom anime

@cuteghostwriter​​ — multifandom video games

D —

@dark-and-kawaii-writings​  — multifandom — masterlist

@dark-delights​​ — multifandom

@darlingsdontdie​​​ — multifandom

@darlingyanderes​ — multifandom

@darlingyanderez​​ — multifandom

@dcyandere​  — dc + marvel — masterlist

@ddarker-dreams​​  — multifandom — masterlist

@dearsakusa​​ — hq

@dear-yandere​ — multifandom — masterlist

@dee-madwriter​​​ — bnha — masterlist

@degenerate-yandere​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@deliciousliving​ — mostly bnha

@delusional-angel​  — multifandom

@demonboidies​​ — kpop — masterlist 

@dere-drabbles​​ — multifandom 

@detroitbecomeyandere — detroit become human

@diablo-writing​ — multifandom

@diabolikmasquerade​​ — multifandom

@diejager​​ — multifandom — masterlists

@dovekissed​​​​ — multifandom

@drxwsyni​ — bnha, hq, kny — masterlist

E —

@essenceofobsession​​ — multifandom — masterlist

F —

@fairylucynamipiece​​​ — multifandom anime — yandere masterlist

@falling-heights​ — jjba + dragon ball — masterlist

@fascination-street-writing​​​ — jjba — masterlist

@florencemachina-fics​​ — jjba

@flowesona​​ — kpop — masterlist

@foodfantasyyandere​​ — food fantasy

G —

@ghostiebabey​​​ — multifandom anime

@ghoularaki​​ — bnha + hq

@glimmeringtwilight​​ — multifandom

@grimescoven​​ — marvel

@gxmblinqueen​​ — multifandom — masterlist

H —

@hanayandere​ — ocs

@hearteyes-candyskies​ — bnha

@heartfullofleeches​​​​ — ocs

@helloyanderekitty​​​ — ocs + bnha

@hooked-on-a-yandere​​​​ — multifandom anime — masterlist

@honeyyandere​​ — bnha — masterlist

@hotelfascination​​​ — ocs

@hunnyyandere​​​ — multifandom — masterlists 

@hypnosisyan​​ — hypmic

I —

@i-cant-sing​ — multifandom — masterlists

@im-657-mv​​ — kpop + stranger  things — masterlist

@imagineyanderemagi — magi

@innerunderrain​​ — genshin

J —

@jackrrabbit​ — multifandom anime — masterlist

@j0succ​​​ — jjba — masterlist one, two, three

@jojosprostate​​​ — jjba — masterlist

@jotaros-massive-tiddies​​​ — jjba — masterlist

K — 

@khaenruin​​​ — genshin — masterlist

@kiame-sama​​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@killjoybycandlelight​​ — ocs — oc profiles

@killuaapproved​ — naruto, hxh, ohshc — masterlist

@koiibito​ — haikyuu + bnha — masterlist

@koinotame​​​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

L —

@lacedream​​ — bsd

@lafirmament​ — multifandom anime + games — masterlist

@lilpotatowriter — multifandom

@living-in-the-state-of-dreaming — multifandom

@love-infested — multifandom

@love-toxin — ocs + multifandom

@lovesick-yandere-writings — bnha

@lovesiickness — multifandom anime + games

@lovesickn-ss — multifandom anime

@lovelyyandereaddictionpoint​​ ​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@loyenne​​​ — multifandom — masterlists

@luv-bvgg​​​​ — ocs

M —

@mango-bango-bby​​ — multifandom — masterlists

@marilynfuse​​​​​ — twst and voltage mostly — masterlist one, two

@meiwroo​​ — multifandom

@merakiui​​ — multifandom — masterlists

@mercurymetals​ — jjba

@milkscafe​​ — ocs 

@mirabillis​ — multifandom games + anime

@mirdance​​ — genshin 

@mistabullets​​​ — jjba — masterlist

@mmanjuu​​ — yandere concepts / various

@monstrouslyobsessed​​ — monster ocs

@moody-bloosh​​​ — jjba — masterlist

@multifandomlovers​​ — multifandom

@musutofu — bnha — masterlist

@my-sweet-hero — bnha + ohshc

N —

@needygirl17​— multifandom (?)

@neondreamsareforteens​ — ocs + multifandom — masterlist

@nicebonescomrade​​​ — genshin — masterlist

@novasdarling​​ — multifandom — masterlists

O —

@obscureamor​ — bnha + hq — masterlist

@obsessionsposts​​​ — multifandom + ocs

@ohnununu — multifandom anime

P — 

@pandas-pandemonium​​ — kpop + anime — masterlist

@passmeasliceofthatyanderepie​ — multifandom live action

@phen0l​​​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@pizzaloverhoe​​ — multifandom anime

@puka-writes​​  — multifandom

Q —

@qierxing​​​​ — genshin — masterlist

R —

@ramwrites — multifandom but mainly hunter x hunter — masterlist

@rare-yanderes​ — imagines​

@return-of-a-space-cowboy — mostly jjba — masterlist

@remember-to-be-gentle — multifandom — masterlist one, two, three

@roedye — jjba currently 

@rwbyyandere — rwby

S —

@sawamooora​​ — hq — masterlist

@sailoryueliang​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@seasidefallenangel​​​ — multifandom anime

@secret-nighttime-tea-party​​ — multifandom

@seeuonadarknite​​​ — multifandom anime — masterlist

@seijorhi​​ ​ — multifandom — masterlists

@seiyasabi​​ — bnha

@serendaei​ — mostly bnha — masterlist

@severnrnr​— multifandom anime — masterlist

@shineonyoucrazyyandere​​ — jjba

@shini--chan​ — multifandom anime (mostly hetalia?)

@shumidehiro​​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@silent-snowdrop-writing​​​​​​ — multifandom

@sinners-yandere-blog​ — mostly jjba

@skzyxndere​​ — kpop

@sleepyxdarling​​ — multifandom

@slowburn-villain​​ — mostly bnha

@snailsgoingdowntown​​ — multifandom

@solitudinx​​ — multifandom  — masterlist

@sparrow-stunned​​ — genshin — masterlist

@starcrossedyanderes​​​​ — multifandom + ocs — masterlist

@storybookstalker​ ​— multifandom — masterlist

@sugawara-sweetheart​ — hq 

@sweet-yandere-dreamer​ — multifandom

@sweetdreamsimagines​​ — multifandom

@sweetened-apples​ — multifandom — masterlist

T —

@teabutmakeitazure​​​​ — genshin — masterlist

@teateateagan — multifandom

@tektr0​ — multifandom

@that-yandere-life — multifandom live action — masterlist

@the-grimm-writer — bnha 

@theladyshinigami — multifandom — masterlist

@theodora3022​​​​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@thesacrity — multifandom — masterlist

@thesweetestpoison — ocs — masterlist

@tiaragqueen — multifandom kpop + anime — masterlist

@tomurasprincess​ — bnha — masterlist

@tteokko​​​​​ — genshin — masterlist

@turnaboutyandere​ — ace attorney

@twisted-alte — bnha

@twstedworks — twst

@twstpasta — twst — masterlist

U —

@ukaic​ —hq

@uvobreakmylegs​ — hxh — masterlist

V —

@vermiliren​ — mainly bnha + hq — masterlists

@victim-on-main​ — multifandom

@villain-hotline​  — multifandom — masterlist

W —

@weebsinstash​ — bnha

@wickedyan​ — multifandom anime — masterlist

@witch-psychedelia​ — mainly league of legends — masterlist

@worldwidemochiguy​​ — kpop — masterlist

@writerbyaccident​​ — multifandom

X —

Y —

@yan-purgatory​​ — kpop — masterlist

@yan-twst​​​​ — twst — masterlist

@yanchatforum​​ — ocs

@yandere--stuck​​ — multifandom

@yandere-daisies​ — bnha

@yandere-daydreams​ — multifandom

@yandere-daze​​ — jjba — masterlist

@yandere-flower​ — ocs

@yandere-hero-haven​ — bnha

@yandere-love-love-love​ — bnha

@yandere-musings​ — multifandom anime + games

@yandere-romanticaa​  — multifandom anime + games

@yandere-scenarios​​​ — multifandom

@yandere-sins​​ — multifandom games + some anime — masterlist

@yandere-society​​ — bts — masterlist

@yandere-swarm​ — multifandom games + anime

@yandere-wishes​​​ — multifandom anime + games

@yandereaffections​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@yanderebabshere​​ — ocs

@yanderebloodlust​​ — multifandom — masterlist

@yanderefantasies​​ — multifandom

@yanderehetalia​​ — hetalia

@yanderehetaliadrabbles​ — hetalia

@yanderehetaliareactions​​​ — hetalia

@yanderehetaliashit​ — multifandom (?)

@yanderelovee​ — multifandom anime

@yanderemochii — multifandom

@yanderemommabean​ — multifandom live action 

@yanderepeterparker​​ — multifandom live action — masterlist

@yanderetbzkids​​ — kpop — masterlist

@yandereverse-worldbuilding​​​​ — d&d ocs

@yanderexbabydoll​​​​— haikyuu + bnha — masterlist

@yandrabble​​​ — multifandom

@yansoftie​ — multifandom anime

@yanyanimagines​​​ — multifandom

@yes-ter-night​​ — multifandom — masterlist 

@your-yandere-kiss — multifandom

@yourfaveisyanderematic​​​​ — jjba — masterlist

Z —                   

[darlingsdontdie]

Unconventional Tools of the Trade — an edit requested by @villainousthoughts who asked for "more interesting ways for creepy love interests to kill".

Currently closed to requests.

[darlingsdontdie]

"It's time these desperate bitches realize that this school is mine - and so are you."

Yandere Moodboard: Regina George for anonymous

[darlingsdontdie]

for @randomaccforlurking - thanks for your patience, i loved writing about this so I hope you enjoy!

if somebody asked kurama what first made him like you, he'd tell them it was your fire or your inner strength or your cunning, or something else equally intimidating, but in reality, it was the kind way you treated him. naruto was the first human to treat him with respect, but you were the first human to take it a step further - the first human to be interested in him for his own sake

he's more direct than other yanderes - kurama doesn't have any interest in the intricacies of human ways. when he decides you're his, he'll find you and tell you directly. when he feels like your friends and family are encroaching on his territory, he'll tell you they're annoying and to get rid of them

at the same time, he's a total tsundere. he isn't used to caring and being cared about so when pressed to explain why he protects you, or spends time with you, he'll say something about how "irritating" it would be to replace you, or how he finds you "tolerable"

he vacillates wildly between the two behaviors, sometimes mid-sentence. "you're too ridiculous and pathetic to survive on your own, so if anyone bothers you, let me know and i'll destroy them and everything they've ever loved."

one day he gets a good look at you and realizes that you're a pretty little thing, just his type. from then on, the same directness/denial dictates his flirtations. "i am a creature far beyond you in years, power, and prowess - you should be flattered such a being has offered to grant you a place in his bed"

at first, you assume both of these are just part of his strange attempts to cheer you up after a long day. you consider the two of you friends, as funny as that sounds. and it does sound funny, because to literally everyone outside of you, naruto, and sometimes team 7, he's a terrifying enigma

kurama either cares about people or he doesn't. he parses his affections very sparsely and selectively, and those who receive it, receive it in full force. so, strangely, he can acknowledge to himself that he's willing to kill for you before he realizes how he... feels for you

and he does kill for you. often. with great, open pleasure. thankfully, there are enough actual threats to you in a world of shinobi that he doesn't start in on those that just irritate you

at first.

but the world is getting safer, and there are others, humans who understand you intuitively in ways kurama could never hope to, humans who find you interesting and fun to be around, and he knows exactly how right they are and it makes him seethe

on the other hand, there's also those other humans, somehow even more despicable, the ones who don't know their place, such weak, bitter creatures that shouldn't even look at someone like you, let alone insult you with such poor treatment

he takes it out on you at first, with vitriolic words and cold looks, but the confusion and hurt in your eyes quickly puts an end to that. it wouldn't help anyways - you clearly aren't the problem. it's the others

so. he starts getting rid of the problem. and word gets around. he's smarter than to be obvious about it. his security in the village is too fragile as it is. he starts with threats, and if they're too stupid to adhere to his demands, he's a powerful being, physically and politically. he has them disappear, on missions, far outside of the village. when searching, all they can hope to find is a small mangled chunk of bone or a tattered piece of blackening flesh. animals, they suggest with creased brows, trained hounds, or feral wolves? when naruto glances at him, he licks his lips and shrugs

you won't live forever, you note one day with a shrug and a laugh. it's true, and always has been, but it sends him reeling. you're going to die one day - you will, and he'll be left alone again. alone and alive for who knows how long without you? he thinks of all those years he lived before you. maybe that's when it starts to dawn on him that his interest in you is beyond friendship, beyond carnal, beyond normal

either way, this is the moment he decides you're not going to die. he's one of the most powerful creatures the ninja world has ever conceived, and immortality itself has been brushed by plenty lesser. no one will take you from him - not even time itself

Interested in making a request? Check out my FAQ for ideas, fandoms, and guidelines!

[darlingsdontdie]

New Yandere, Whump, and Dark Shipping Blog: Requests FAQ

Hey! So before I start writing and creating, I thought I'd get some common questions answered and out of the way! If you are concerned about your request or are unsure of its content, please first check this post before directly messaging me.

Request Content

Q: What kinds of requests do you fill?

A: I will fill almost any type of request! But here are some specific options with set structures and examples.

Headcanon Requests (bulleted, length depending on ask, ex: "Can I get headcanons for Requested Character with a short girlfriend?")

Scenario Requests (bulleted, LDOA, ex: "Can I get a scenario for if Requested Ship were getting married?")

Drabble Requests (prose, LDOA, ex: "Can I request a drabble about RC being worried when their darling is sick?")

Playlist Requests (list of songs, 1-5 song limit, ex: "Do you have 4 songs for a jealous RC?")

Graphic Requests (edit style, 1-4 images, ex: "Could you make a graphic for yandere RC with this item or quote?")

Aesthetic Requests (moodboard style, image with 6-9 sections, ex: "Can I get an aesthetic for dark!RS?")

Prompt Requests (list of brainstormed dialogue and short sentences, LDOA, ex: "Do you have dialogue prompts for RC kidnapping their darling?")

Plot Bunny Requests (short prose paragraphs or bulleted, LDOA, ex: "I want to write about yandere RC surprising their darling but don't know how or why. Are there are any plot bunnies you can give me?").

New! RP Idea Requests (selection of 1-4 short rp-style bios/plots/starters, LDOA, ex: "Do you have any yandere rp ideas for Requested Fandom ocs?")

New! Fancast Requests (moodboard or edit style, 2-9 images per RC/RS, ex: "Who would you cast as yandere RC(s)?")

New! Faceclaim Recommendation Requests (bulleted list of names with short explanations or reasons, LDOA, ex: "My yandere OC is tall, has dark hair, and soft features. He acts friendly but is the violent type. Can I have a few fcs?")

Requests that don't specify will be answered with a bulleted list or possibly a short paragraph. There may be times I'm willing to fill some requests but not others due to time constraints, but that doesn't mean I won't ever fill them!

Fandom requests involving AUs and crossovers are welcome (ex: "Headcanons of how yandere Naruto in a wild west AU?" or "Headcanons about what would happen if yandere Ten and yandere Crowley fell for the same person?"), as are original requests based on existing media (ex: "Can I get headcanons about a popular girl type who has a Breakfast Club experience and ends up going yandere for the criminal?" or "Can you write a drabble about a yandere whose story is like this music video?").

Q: What characters do you write for?

A: I'll write for any character that I am familiar with, with a few exceptions for characters I'm aware of but uncomfortable with. To get started, here's a list of fandoms that I have a solid handle on!

Anime (Naruto, Ouran High School Host Club, Death Note, Hetalia, etc.)

Western Animation (Archer, Castlevania, She-Ra: Princesses of Power, etc.)

DC and Marvel Comics

Star Wars (no New Trilogy - Originals, Prequels, Clone Wars, & Legends only)

Other Major Film Franchises (Pirates of the Caribbean, the MCU, James Bond, etc.)

Harry Potter and related properties

Percy Jackson and related properties

Hunger Games and related properties

Twilight and related properties

A Song of Ice and Fire (willing to try TV canon but much more familiar with Book canon)

Crime Dramas (Barry, Good Girls, Hannibal, Mr. Robot, Revenge, etc.)

Historical Drama (Vikings, The Tudors, Les Miserables, The Borgias, Downton Abbey, Peaky Blinders, Taboo, etc.)

Science Fiction and Fantasy TV/Lit (Star Trek TOS/AOS; Doctor Who, New Who only; Merlin; Good Omens; Lucifer; Galavant, etc.)

Horror-Thriller TV/Lit (American Horror Story, The Haunting of Hill House, Hemlock Grove, Alias Grace, etc.)

Sitcoms (familiar with Friends, all the Michael Schur products, Community, That 70s Show, Jane the Virgin, Schitt's Creek, Superstore, IASIP, and others)

Teen Dramas (Teen Wolf, Pretty Little Liars, Freaks and Geeks, Glee, etc., but no Riverdale)

Chinese and Korean Dramas (A Korean Odyssey/Hwayugi, Meteor Gardens, A Love So Beautiful, What's Wrong With Secretary Kim, Romance Is a Bonus Book, My First First Love, Black, etc.)

Video Games (Assasain's Creed, Portal 2, Fire Emblem, AFK Arena, Professor Layton, etc.)

Something that's not here can still be requested - I'm familiar with a lot of media and do my best to keep up.

As I implied above, I am also happy to write for original characters. Whether that means you telling me about your own OCs, or me creating my own characters for you down the line, either is great.

I will NOT be writing RPF or RPS. I do not approve of real person shipping and real person fiction makes me uncomfortable - if that's what you're looking for, there are a huge number of other blogs that will cater to your needs directly. Which leads me into...

Prohibited Requests, and Non-Yandere Content

Q: Will you fill every request you get?

A: I'll fill requests that interest me and that I feel comfortable posting, and that will probably be most of them! I am really excited to get started. But I still reserve the right to refuse a prompt - I'm writing for free, so no one is entitled to have their ask filled. If I choose to deny your prompt, I will answer privately and, if the issue is with content, update the blog so it's made clear that the type of prompt is not taken.

Q: What is and isn't allowed to be requested?

A: To be honest, most stuff is allowed and some stuff isn't. There's a lot of ground to cover here, so I've divided it based on the nature of the concern.

Q: Do you accept NSFW/SFW requests?

A: I'll do NS and SFW work, but I've got more experience with SFW content. This doesn't mean I do it exclusively, just that I won't think to go NS unless you mention it. Specify for NS and it'll be included happily!

Q: Do you accept violent requests?

Violence against non-SO characters and dub-con is okay always, as is situational or over-the-top violence, even murder, involving SOs (ex: "the yandere and their darling are soldiers on opposite sides of the war" or "the yandere saws off their darling's legs so they have to carry them everywhere").

However, there is some tricky area with violent fantasies. If I think the content strays too close to serious physical domestic abuse, then I'll likely deny the request. This is partially why I prefer requests that get violent to focus on non-SO targets, so if it doesn't matter to you, that's almost guaranteed to get a response.

Non-con I can mention and discuss in headcanon posts and possibly prompt lists, but I will not be writing drabbles or scenarios for non-con prompts.

Q: Do you accept kink requests?

A: It will depend on the type and whether I feel morally and psychologically comfortable with it. For example, hypnosis, size kink, gender stuffing, BDSM, roleplay, etc., are all currently accepted because they don't seem to affect me in a negative way. I am willing to do ships for cousins and step family, as well. However, I will not under any circumstances deal with r*ceplay, p*dophilia, fetishizing of trans people or people of color, or inc*stplay, and I will not be doing ship work for anyone more closely related than cousins, including but not limited to siblings, parents (blood or adopted), or aunts and uncles. None of this is negotiable. I am willing to consider AUs where two characters aren't family, or non romantic yandere behavior between family, but even then, the request's on thin ice. Anything super unhygienic or illness related is probably something I won't be interested in not as a rule or for moral reasons but just because it can exacerbate my anxiety and OCD. I also do not fill prompts related to minors at all, be it explicit/adult/sexual content or otherwise. Requests for characters who are minors will have them aged up unless otherwise specified - in which case you will promptly be blocked.

Q: Can I request a dark imagine that is not yandere related?

A: Of course! Just make sure to be specific about what you want from it.

Q: Can I request a ship or character imagine that isn't yandere or dark?

A: Yes, though I won't promise it'll be what you're looking for. I fall towards horror, thriller, and angst when I write, regardless of my intentions.

Q: Can I request something that's not ship or character imagine related?

A: Sure, I'd be honored, but again, I don't promise to fulfill every request. This blog is intended to be stress relief, self indulgence.

How to Make a Request

Q: How do I contact you for requests?

A: Asks, messages, replies on my original posts, and even more casual things like tagging me in yandere or writing related posts are all great ways to interact with me!

Q: When do you accept requests?

A: Requests will be opened or closed depending on how busy I am and whether I'm caught up on them.

Currently, requests are closed. However, I've decided that requests are reopened on my days off. The days should be listed in my bio.

Q: Do you accept anonymous requests?

A: Yes, I do! I also will not publish asks from users unless the user specifically clarifies that they are okay with it, just in case the user sent the ask from their blog on accident. User asks that aren't specified as safe to publish will be responded to privately when the request is filled.

Q: How will I know my request is filled?

A: As stated above, anonymous asks and user asks clarified as safe to publish will be published with a response. User asks without any clarification will be responded to privately. Anonymous asks asking for privacy for any reason will not be published. Messages will also get a reply. Users who send requests that are kept private will not be tagged unless you ask me to. Users with published asks will always be tagged in the final post, but it is totally okay to ask me to change or erase the tag! Other than this, checking for posts is up to the requester.

Other Kinds of Interaction

Q: Is there anyone who you don't want interacting with your blog?

A: Anyone complicit in nazism, racism, transphobia, homophobia, misogyny, xenophobia, pedophilia/MAPs, or any other politicized violence against a people is uneqivocally not welcome to engage with my work. I also have a zero tolerance policy for true crime fans who support or absolve serial killers. Please respect this - anyone who doesn't will be blocked. Anyone who pushes the issue will be reported.

Q: What about kink or otherkin blogs?

A: Honestly, I don't know much about either community. As of now, I'm fine with interaction. I'd ask that I not receive any kin related requests, because I am not familiar with the concept, community, and issues accompanying. Kinks can be requested but as stated above, are not guaranteed to be filled. Please don't bring discourse or discourse related requests here. I am not equipped to or interested in getting involved. If that changes, I have a main and other side blogs. This blog will never be a place for it.

Q: Are you okay if we interact with you or send you asks and messages that aren't requests?

A: Absolutely! I would love to talk with you. I am always interested in discussing any of the topics covered on this blog, or anything else for that matter! I pride myself on trying to be not just nice, but kind, and hopefully that comes through in every interaction. However, I'll expect the same courtesy from anyone who'd reach out to me, or use my posts to communicate to others for that matter. Anyone who doesn't will be, you guessed it, blocked. Anyone who pursues it further, yeah, will be reported.

Q: You have a lot of rules about requests and interaction, but you don't seem to post much and you aren't very active. Is this all just awkward and formal overkill, or is there a point?

A: I've explained all of this clearly, in as an accessible way as I can think of, because I want to eliminate the potential for drama, confusion, and other misunderstandings.

Online communities tend to be chock-full of plenty and I do not, nor does anyone who visits, need another reason to be tired. I'm not detailing all of this upfront because I expect to be very popular, or because I like listening to myself talk for paragraphs on end. I don't want a theoretical lack of information to be used to hurt either myself or others, though some of it shouldn't have to be spelled out in the first place.

But considering how ridiculously easy it is to misinterpret each other online, and how much of a disadvantage neuroatypical people like myself are when things are left just implicit rather than made what you could argue as exhaustingly explicit, I figured a crazy FAQ was a small price to pay for a peaceful environment.

TLDR: it certainly might be overkill, but that doesn't mean there is no point to it.

Q: What should requesters and followers call you anyways?

A: I'm fine with my username. If you're going for a different vibe, Red or Darlings sounds nice too. If you can come up with something catchier, feel free to try!

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On that note, I also may be slow going when it comes to requests. All I can do is promise to put a lot of thought into my replies, even though speed is not guaranteed. Any other questions can be asked directly, and I would be more than happy to answer them!