#file.mtl

[soraviie]

mtl get jealous when they find out txt likes you? (or if they all get jealous, mtl act out when they find out txt likes you)

JIMIN/JUNGKOOK/TAEHYUNG — the holy trinity. I mean, how could they not? Mr "I don't like to share things", Mr "a perilla leaf will lead to marriage" and Mr "I'll have a little fight if my partner helps someone to peel a shrimp". To have you be cooed at by a group of young, attractive men? Oh, hell no. Doesn't matter that to BTS TXT (that's a lot of abbreviations) are like babies. There shall be no canoodling!

JIN/NAMJOON — wouldn't much care buuuuttt...nonetheless, those are a bunch of young men having a crush on you, crawling over each other to get you things, to accomodate you better? Yeah, some eyebrows would be raised and some jaws would be ticked but eventually, they'd see the funny side of it, after, you assured them, no pair of pretty eyes can seduce you away

YOONGI — largely, he wouldn't get heated about it. People loved you? Makes sense in his mind, you're, after all, you, but! But every once in a while it pokes a big, salted thumb in the underline of some of his insecurities and he'd sulk a bit. They're younger, he thinks, they're better looking, more charming, with less baggage and so on. But all you have to do is kiss the top of his head, remind him that you're plenty in love with his old ass and offer to bark should that inflate his ego.

He says yes.

HOSEOK — I've said it once and I'll say it again, a walking green flag. As long as both of you have trust in this relationship, not a shadow of doubt will enter his mind. Men, women, people can bend over backwards trying to propose you and he'd be on the side laughing, feeling well-deserved pride as he knows you'd choose him over and over again. Plus, he likes seeing you be adored; he genuinely thinks you should be cherished by at least half the population of the world

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[soraviie]

Heyy hoping I'm not too late for mtl lol but

Mtl to give silent treatment after an argument and how long it will take for reconciliation.

Love you take care <333

JIMIN/TAEHYUNG — let the records show the infamy of the Dumpling Fight™ with Taehyung even taking the lead over Jimin though just slightly. Both have been documented to hve left in a huff on slammed doors so... Taehyung would be take the longest to forgive though I have this sense that sometimes he's not even that angry, instead he's stubborn and because of it obviously he's not going to be the first to crawl back. A menace what can I tell you? As for Jimin he'd be more eager to seek out reconcilliation.

JUNGKOOK — would engage frigid sulking silence just as much as the upper two but he'd fold in now time lmao. I'm going by that fight he had with Jimin, y'know the one when he called him in the rain, saying he did not know where to go? yup, fairly much the same. Would oftentimes forget that he was supposed to give silent treatment and ends up calling you, most likely complaining about something

NAMJOON — listeNNN! the man is passive-agressive to a T. Don't come into my house and try to tell me he wouldn't give a snarky silent treatment when he gets pissy. It's preaching the value of good communication when someone else is angry but when he is? He just wants to be pissed off lmao

JIN — the only way I'd see him giving silent treatment if it's so serious it's to the point of ending a relationship or it's his fault and he's been scolded one too many times to crack a joke about it so now he just lingers awkwardly like a lost puppy, weighing the chances of getting something thrown at him if he'd try to cuddle

YOONGI/HOSEOK — sometime back I'd put Yoongi higher on the list but I think that he's mature enough to not give silent treatment anymore. He would probably give space both to his partner and himself to think things over but he wouldn't stoop to just outright not talking at all. He values both of your time much more than that and hates miscommunication, hence why the bottom tier. As for Hoseok, idk, I just always picture him as the guy who doesn't go to bed angry. There probably would be a period of time where things are not so lovey-dovey but he'd make sure both of you understand each other's viewpoints even if you don't enjoy them.

[soraviie]

Hmmm I have an idea for MTL: MTL feel left out/upset if you do something without him / without telling him - nothing bad, just like, eg. at 2pm in the afternoon while he's at work you randomly decide to shave your head or get a puppy and don't tell him til he gets home (who would think of it as a fun surprise, who'd be 'you could have warned me, you know I don't like surprises', and who would be like 'why didn't you tell me you wanted to do this, we could have done it together').

JIMIN — perhaps a predictable one but you can't tell me who wouldn't. Probably wold be standing in a doorway, tapping his foot and sulking.

"What part about we're a couple, do you not understand?"

"It's not even that seriou—"

"I am you. You are me. Understood?"

His eyebrows come to knit together in order to portray a nearly unified line of discontent as his cheeks expand in an insulted pout.

"Yes, sir," with a sigh, you relent.

NAMJOON? — I don't know why but I'd feel like if it's a decision that would impact his life, no matter how inadvertently he'd like to know. If it's would be like what kind of dress you should buy or whether to get a new DLC for your favourite game, he wouldn't care but he would care— ok, lemme just explain. I feel like if you lived separate he wouldn't be as upset. Show him your new dog?

"Oh, you've got a pet...You sure you have the time to take care of them?"

Shave your head? Sure, he'd do a spit take and stammer throughout it but he'd be chill.

"O-oh, you're- you're...without hair! That's...I mean you look great!"

"Joon, you don't have to fake it."

But if you'd live together, I feel like he'd get more upset? In a way, merging your lives together means you debate things more. I don't think Namjoon really likes surprises at home, 'cause it's supposed to be his steady rock and you along with it, so he wouldn't appreciate not having a conversation even if it's a passing one.

TAEHYUNG — I feel like he'd be on the fence about this. Depends largely on what the surprise is and truthfully what his mood is that day. If it'd be a new haircut, he'd hype you up but if it'd be like "let's fly out to meet my parents" he'd sit there like:

"Yeeeeyy, how great." For large things, like changing apartment interior, going away for a couple days, travelling or changing jobs he'd be a bit sulky but largely he'd just hype you up.

JIN — would tease you about doing something, especially, if you'd buzzy your hair (he'd be such a meanie about it T-T calling you egghead for days) but he wouldn't prohibit you from doing so. As long as you don't leave home, come or go somewhere in the middle of the night (I feel like that'd be a rule for both of you. Sort of like "you can go wherever you want just tell me where and when are you coming back") he's okay with it. He might pretend to be disapproving of a pet at first but he'd totally be like that one "dad and the dog" meme.

HOSEOK — our king of green flags. Would actually love if you'd be that kind of person who could go along your wishes and not need to consult anyone about it. I feel like he'd like a certain degree of mutual independence. Yes, you're together and you love each other very much but you've got your own lives and sometimes one just has to do what they feel like it that day. Regardless, he would wholly support you and be a phenomenal hype man, well, until it's a thing that ends up with you getting hurt, he's not fond of that.

JUNGKOOK — You'd place him higher wouldn't you? But...Jungkook is spontaneous himself. If he wants to shave off his eyebrows at 2:30 in the morning, he will so in that way he sort of can't really get mad at you for doing the same thing. Without a single thought in his head, he would say yes if you asked to join. Help you dye your hair in the sink? Sure. Go out and eat some ice cream and children's playground? Sounds good but if you want to do it alone, he doesn't put much fuss. Though obviously he doesn't like you going around at night.

"I got hungry and you were still at work," you weakly defend, twirling your thumbs. Seeing the number of phone calls, reaching double digits, you felt a sickly feeling fester in the pit of your stomach. And yes, it also just could be that 24/7 shop hot dog but coming home to a genuinely distraught Jungkook pacing around the room, certainly did not help.

He heaves a pinched sigh, the space between his eyebrows etched with deep wrinkles.

"I'm not mad at you," he says, both hands on his hips. "But...world is dangerous. You know that, right?"

"Of course, I do."

"Just...just take Bam with you if you go out."

YOONGI — It's not that he doesn't care, he does! but it's still your life. So as long as you don't force him into plans, you answer all of his calls and don't literally leave the country, he's okay with supporting you from the side. He trusts your judgement, in that way. Even if you would change your job , he wouldn't make a scene. At most his eyes would widen, for example, if you visit his studio with an impromptu tattoo all over the arm.

If he thinks something is not a good look but you're beaming with all the world's joy, at most he'd just drawl cautiously:

"Are you...ssuuuureeeee about that?"

"Yeah," you grin broadly at him and a part of him melts as you do. "Isn't it great?"

"Sure, of course," he's quick to agree, nodding along with the lies. "It's your life. Do what makes you happy."

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[soraviie]

Who is most likely to know exactly what to say when you're feeling sad?

YOONGI/JIMIN — god tier level of comforting, don't argue with me

NAMJOON/HOSEOK — if it'd be a race, they'd get silver. Both would have probably two different approaches at comforting. I'd feel like Namjoon would approach it more from a like "what to do" angle and Hoseok would come from like a "how to cope with it" method

TAEHYUNG — I feel like he wouldn't neccessarily know what to say but he'd be great at physical comforting, like, hugging and embracing or letting you cry on him

JIN — well it depends. If you're someone who likes being cheered up by jokes, then he's no.1 but we all know Jin doesn't approach sadness from a serious viewpoint. He makes the atmosphere easier, wipes your tears with a shitty joke is his way to go

JUNGKOOK — he'd be so lost (T-T) I feel like you'd have to tell him how to comfort you. He'd just stutter and stumble upon his words if you're sad and if you keep being silent, he'd grow frazzled, ending up doing stupid, unhelpful shit in a desperate attempt to make you feel better

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[soraviie]

mtl wait the longest to introduce you to the members/close family

TAEHYUNG/YOONGI — I think Taehyung would have a festering fear of something going wrong. Either them not liking you, you not liking them or even both. So as to not lose anyone, he'd perhaps end up gatekeeping you in a way lmao. He'd give excuses and empty promises about someday arranging a meetup but once the date draws nearer, the details remain just as foggy. As for Yoongi even though the members are family, he'd want to keep this part of himself, one that he is with you and by extension the life that you both share, his own. His own private island. He'd show them a picture of you (or someone *cough* Jimin *cough* would just happen to be be peeking over Yoongi's shoulder as he received your selfie), talk about you a bit but wouldn't necessarily be all that keen on making acquaintances you feel

NAMJOON — he wouldn't exactly hide you but he'd want to have this...I don't know a moment of still point. Want to or not, introducing you to members or family is taking the next step, especially family, so for some time he'd just want there to be you and him, no questions, no side stares, no possible conflicts. For some time he'd just want there to be a peace

HOSEOK — similar to Joon but just does not try too hard in either direction. He's not actively trying to either hide you or introduce you to everyone. They know he's seeing you, he's definitely gushed at one point and at another has bought a shit ton of presents for you but his thinkig is sort of to let it unfold naturally. If someone hops by his home and you're there he's game but he won't like orchastrate a big ass date and event, at least not with the members. Maybe. Hoseok is hard to read (T_T)

JUNGKOOK — I feel like he'd be kind of easy-going about the introduction part, given how much everyone adores him (lmao yeah, he might be banking on his own charms rather than yours) and how much he'd actually start scrapping if anyone said anything ill-meaning towards you. Legit would go:

"☺ this is ________________ ☺ and look how well we're all getting along 😃🔪"

JIMIN — he wouldn't force it but the meetings would occur fairly quickly, especially with the members 'cause 1. they're actually glued to each other 2. he'd lug you around probably. There's no way Jimin wouldn't ask you to hear a demo or watch a dance practice or be there at a concert so the introductions would happen almost by proxy. As for family, it'd also be relatively soon but for some reason I imagine him calling ahead and already telling them all about you before hand so the reactions in person are a bit rehearsed hehe

JIN — The fastest. I don't know but I think he's partially traditional like that and partially he wants to just get it over with (T-T) I've said it before and I'll say it again — he would deadass quiz you on what to reply for which question, what to ask and how to act, especially if it's his parents and it's not because he's ashamed of you or wants to change your personality. It is simply to ensure smooth sailing and that no one ends up with sour feelings. You and his family or members being on the opposing sides of the conflict would literally be the worst for him.

[soraviie]

MLT get sensitive/emotional when something has happened to their partner/family/friend

All of them would, hands down. The wind down period depends on what's the damage is (getting into an accident would surely warrant more reaction than a paper cut) and who the person is, with partner and family naturally having larger impact than a casual friend but they'd all get sensitive I think until at least they receive the news that everything is okay