#fucking predator you live with decides to grope or catcall you or feel entitled to sex

[newlyy]

These are all comments left on a tiktok talking about men sexualizing their female partners when they’re just doing things around the house in comfortable clothing and it’s making me so depressed. There’s a huge theme running through all of them of not wanting to be perceived, and I know that wording is just kind of trendy right now, but it’s also the same thought process that results in a non-binary or male gender identity. If being seen as a woman is interchangeable with being sexualized, then discomfort with sexualization is discomfort with being a woman. Notice too the few references to women turning off all sexuality, or “becoming asexual” in response because again, if female sexuality is this bad yucky feeling they get when men leer at them—in their OWN HOME—then maybe they just aren’t sexual beings.