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thatreallyminecraftsmygender · 3 years

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You know? I think it says more about state of interpersonal relationship on dreamsmp as whole than it does about c!phil, that whenever c!Phil is kind in any capacity to anyone he's expected to take on responsibility for their entire wellbeing

Surely the fact that mild kindness being seen as a mark of unending loyalty and a way of showing you plan to take on someone's entire life is damning on how fucked up relationships have gotten since everything began. Kindness should be seen as a default way to interact with eachother, not as contract.

It's not Phil's fault he'll help a kid out of lava

#philza #dreamsmp #phil will be like: do you need a place to stay? and then hes expected to give up everything #he showed fundy how to fish and spent a bit of time with him and was expected not to care that his house was ransacked #and his friend was executed by fundy #he BARELY interacts with tommy and yet! and yet..#like... ive watched all of phols streams and i cant think of a time where hes promised to take care of someone forever and ever amen #he reluctantly allowed fundy to stay with him while eret was grtting shit sortes #but maybe hes aware of the fact he isnt in the rifht place to look agter some deeply traumatized people #considering what happeend with will #i just #will i post this? myabe...#idk #literally everything hes done that could be seen as taking responsibility for someone was done with a degree of reluctance.#i think he might be avoiding making deep connections with people so he doesnt have to get hurt again. so he doesnt have to hurt again.#he can trust techno to take care of himself #hes safe with techno. techno wont ask him to do the unthinkable #he tries so hard to respect peoples wishes and boundaries #and he actively avoids interfering with things (because last time he interfered with someone else buisness....)#and yet people will blamr him for not doing more #what dies he owe anyone? when did he sign tbus contract?#maybe im just old but you are allowed to not take responsibility for people if you onow you will fuck it up #youre allowed to be older and still have trauma and baggage you dont want passing on to people #not hc #/negative #i actually have a decent amount to say on tbis topic tbh #it very odd watching phols streams and then logging on ajd seeing how everything hes sajd is interpreted

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