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#i didnt realize i was trans until uhhh sixth grade? i mean i knew i never fit in but i never had the words to say it
chansgender · 1 year
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unlabeled is a valid sexuality guys btw. in case you didn’t know
#like. do you KNOW how hard it is for some people to find a label? broooo#i spent years trying to figure myself out. and i JUST got there. and sometimes i still question it. i do know for a FACT that i am queer#and that’s enough#ive gone thru a lot of labels. eventually i settled on one i liked#but sometimes you just. never find it#there are a lot of labels out there guys. just go with ur gut#sometimes you don’t know your gender or who you like or if you even like people at all. and that’s okay!!#you dont have to KNOW yourself in and out to know that ur queer#like all the discourse makes me so pissedddf#bisexual lesbians? go wild actually. it’s all just words#but hating on people WITHIN the community??? not okay#aro people are queer#ace people are queer#i could talk a lot about queer identity actually.#but the discourse confuses me because why are you hating on another queer person for a label you dont like. we are a COMMUNITY#im having a very hard time putting words together.#its okay to be confused like WOW it’s very hard to know#some people are born knowing and some people will die not knowing. doesnt make you less queer#i didnt realize i was trans until uhhh sixth grade? i mean i knew i never fit in but i never had the words to say it#bro i am RAMBLING. but who cares actually this is MY blog. i post what i want#dont let people discourage you. especially not people who say ‘oh youre just confused’ uhh yeah. 1: im confused why its ur business#and 2: this isnt easy. it is Hard to look inside urself and try to figure it out.#its okay at the end of the day if u dont know who u are. if you feel like you dont fit in? you dont conform to traditional gender roles?#congrats! ur queer!#and i love the word queer. its so all encompassing of everything ive ever felt#i am strange and i am gay and trans and autistic and all of this makes up ME! i am queer and i am queer and i know this about myself#i do not fit into a lot of spaces so i make my own space. and i’ll let people in because i know how hard it is to have nowhere to go!#any kind of queer person is welcome here#i dont care about controversy i dont care if other people dislike the way you label yourself i dont care if you dont know yet
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