#i get not wanting random horny/homophobic straight dudes on your posts but i mean. a dni isn't gonna stop them anyway
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man why are there so many lesbian posts like omg i love butches/look how cool i am as a butch!!! MEN DNI. like. I've been banned from my own dykery wtf
#how can you be butch thirst trapping and also not recognize that butches being transmasc is like. essential butch history#some of y'all need to get more gender weird in your understanding of lesbianism. you can be cis and gnc but im trans and im a lesbian lol#am i not allowed to connect with other lesbians bc of that#bc im sure plenty of them would say oh that doesnt count you're fine#which means they either don't see me as a real man or they haven't thought through the dni#but like even if you are accepting of lesbian men i wouldn't know that from the dni. so seeing that makes me feel like im NOT welcome#whether that was the intention or not#anyway like 1/5 of the posts in the butch tag i saw on a recent scroll through were like this and it annoyed me#i get not wanting random horny/homophobic straight dudes on your posts but i mean. a dni isn't gonna stop them anyway#but like. you're just excluding the queer men who're tryna engage with you. tis friendly fire without purpose#lesbians and men do not need to be in opposition. that's stupid. get over that#i am a woman! i am a man! my gender is complicated and I'd like to have that not be a Thing in queer spaces. thats all#most of these ppl are probably cool and fine idk. just like. think it over a bit is all#annoyed isnt quite yhe right word either? more like. mild sad bothered
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