#i guess maybe calling him a s.witch would be more accurate

[honorhearted]

Just playing d.evil's advocate for a sec: being full of commands/d.om energy in one setting doesn't necessarily reflect the bedroom (i.e. S.imcoe with L.ola).

Very true! I don't disagree with that. In fact, I don't really begrudge the interpretation that Ben is a s.ub -- I just get annoyed because that's all I can find anywhere, which I personally don't understand since there's plenty of evidence towards the contrary. Aside from the examples I gave in my last post, when we finally see Ben with a l.over, his immediate instinct (despite his inexperience) is to take control. Even with a freaking g.unshot w.ound in his stomach, the first thing he does is roll Sarah onto her back. Granted, this might be because he isn't aware of any other p.ositions rather than it being instinctively what he wants to do, but judging by his "I have to take ch.arge of absolutely everything or else I will D I E" personality, I'm willing to wager it's accurate to who he is.