#i will prob delete this since she knows my insta and it’s only one letter off from my url

[zodiacsea]

putting this rant under a cut only bc despite this person having no idea my tumblr exists it’s not impossible she could find it and so i feel like i’m vagueing her even tho i am definitely not

i have a dear dear friend/former coworker who is so sweet but like. KEEPS texting me like “i think the group chat hates me :’(“ which like. i feel that we all have those feelings and need validation but she Keeps Doing It. and idk how to respond bc here’s the thing: no one hates her but a lot of ppl feel weird abt how she’s acting about/treating her “ex” (they were never together but she insisted they “basically” were) and so are trying to give her space while she works thru her feelings bc we don’t want to be party to her like. harassing this guy (who is an asshole to be clear but still) bc he finally tried to cut her out of his life now that he’s going to AA and trying to get his shit together. everyone has gently tried being like “girl leave him be” but she doesn’t Listen. and i cannot say ANYTHING more substantial to this 30 Year Old Woman bc she is acting like i acted when i was 15 and well. she won’t take it well. and for some reason *i’m* the person she’s choosing to come to over and over again to be like “everyone hates meeeeee” when no one hates or even dislikes u we just don’t know how to handle u like. harassing the man we’ve been telling u to stop seeing and talking to for a year? bonus is she insisted on driving home drunk last weekend and wouldn’t let anyone stop her and keeps bragging abt how she’s always done this. like. girl. idk what to tell u