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waitingforminjae · 1 year

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i think lee seunggi coming out abt hook only now, eighteen years after their abuse started, does offer a unique perspective in the sense that it shows just how thoroughly it affects a person, especially if they were a child when it started. like even though someone may be 35 years old now and able to put words to what they experienced and knows it was wrong, and have removed themselves from that abusive relationship, doesn’t mean its affects just magically go away.

#him on master of the house in 2021 talking abt how right before he went into the army #he had developed a panic disorder so severe he was experiencing psychosomatic symptoms..........yeah i hope they die actually #like idk maybe it's just my own experiences w how my bullying fractured my self-image so thoroughly #but it makes sense to me that he could understand perfectly logically how talented and capable and popular he is #while also feeling like he's the worst entertainer on planet earth and nobody likes him #like i think w such a huge gap btwn his obvs popularity and skill and what the closest adults in his live were telling him......#i think anyone would develop an imposter syndrome in those circumstances tbh #idk i'm just not sure that the sort of like...........idk how to say it #the transition btwn being an abused child and how that affects a person's life as an adult - esp if its a situation where that abuse #continues to be on-going #idk that that's rlly a topic that's reached the public convo around abuse anywhere (not just sk)#or just. the difference between knowing that and actually understanding it #i feel like a lot of times even if ppl know that they still don't always rlly understand it #anyway #p: lee seunggi

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