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Why is it, that the one time I say that i wish i had a significant other, only for the purposes of having someone to hang out with and having someone that actually genuinely likes me, whoever I’m talking to has to say, “It’ll happen, don’t worry your time will come, just be depend on yourself!” Like omfg I KNOW DON’T YOU THINK I KNOW THAT I’VE BEEN SINGLE FOR 22 YEARS I’VE ONLY HAD MYSELF TO DEPEND ON (relationship wise), and even when i had a boyfriend i couldn’t depend on him for anything because he was the walking, talking definition of a scrub. 

And it’s always these same friends who always ask, “How’s your love life, have you tried online dating or tinder, I could hook you up with someone” like enough with the double standard what do you want from me do you want me to date someone or do you want me to see how much of an independent woman I am?

And it’s annoying how people try to bestow some kind of wisdom upon me by saying “your time will come” like they think that i want a boyfriend so badly that I need to be comforted by some fortune cookie prediction. First off, i don’t believe love is for me at all, and I’m not just being salty about it, I just really don’t think there’s anyone out there for me. Second, shouldn’t my friends know me enough by now to know that dating makes me shit in my pants and boys make me want to gag, like no please I don’t want a boyfriend I don’t know how to date or talk to people ew.

And it’s always the friends that have had boyfriends all their lives who say this all to me. It’s like they’re thinking “let me just tell my sad single friend that she’ll find someone eventually because I’m completely happy and comfortable in my relationship” like part of me wants to just scream “I KNOW HOW TO DEPEND ON MYSELF I’VE NEVER HAD A GUY FOR ME TO DEPEND ON ANYWAY!!!!!!” Just don’t tell me that I don’t need a boyfriend because I need to “do me” and “depend on myself” because I’ve already got that covered. Don’t tell me that I’m doing fine on my own when you don’t even know how to be single, dammit.

Ugh.