#insecureppl

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It's been more than a month and many people are still unable to accept the fact that jimin and jungkook has enlisted together using companion system/Buddy program. They are two friends, one of the two closest friends actually for more than a decade so it actually shouldn't be that hard to accept it unless you think these two are not even friends.

There are many many taekookers and many jk solos who still belive that just because jungkook hasn't said "i do rely on jimin" means he doens't rely on jimin so for people like those let me tell you, the Buddy program itself implies that both individuals in Buddy program rely on eachother, there's no need for neither jm nor jk to say it out loud cause the main purpose of it is "RELYING ON EACHOTHER" for mental stability. Idk if y'all are actually this dumb or y'all just wanna cope with something since it's getting hard for y'all to accept it. "But jungkook hasn't said-" it actually doens't matter if he says it out loud cause the process, the name itself is enough. If he didn't need anyone to rely on or if he wanted to enlist with some other BTS members he is capable enough to do that. This man has said it multiple times that he does what HE WANTS and no one can tell him otherwise.

I read a tweet saying "if jungkook didn't get the unit he wanted then you know who held him back" this was them implying that jm begged jk to enlist with him and jk is some spinless puppy who can't do decide for his own so he went with jimin like i want y'all to go outside your shipping bubble for 10 min and say this to some people and i can guarantee you they simply gonna call you mental on your face cause that's what it's giving. See there's two options, you either Accept that jungkook is spinless human who can't think for himself or he loves jimin too much to deny him anything as lots of you people believe jm begged and jk accepted (Cause saying yes to enlist with someone for 18 months even though you don't want to means you should love that person too much) OR simply accept the fact that jimin and jungkook are two close friends who enlisted together according to their own will without anyone forcing them to do anything.

And if anyone think "jk had no option" then you're completely wrong there's many accounts who update on military service which has made it very clear that there are options for both of them to enlist individually but jimin and jungkook still decided to do it together so accept it as it is without making a fuss about it even after a whole month cause that's screaming stupidity and insecurity and nothing else.

[nothin---g]

Insecurities, paano ba kita maiiwasan?

Pansin ko na halos, oo halos lahat ng babae may gantong problema. Saan ba to nagsisimula? Tingin ko ito ay dahil sa mga ideal type ng mga lalakeng nasa paligid natin. Alam ko na natanong niyo na sila ng mga tanong na ganto:

“Ano... anong gusto niyong mga lalake? Maputi o maitim?”

“Ano bang tipo niyo sa mga babae? Yung maliit o matatangkad?”

“Pwede bang magtanong? Bat gusto niyo ng mga sexy na babae?”

“Nakakaattract ba talaga ang mga babaeng may malaking boobs?”

“Wala na bang magkakagusto sa aming mga flat chested?”

“Pag ba ang babae may pimples, hindi niyo na magugustuhan?”

“Anong gusto niyo, yung mga straight yung buhok o kulot?”

“Mamahalin mo pa din ba ako kahit na mabaho na ako?”

“Ayaw niyo ba sa maliliit ang pwet?”

“Natuturn-off ka ba sa mga babaeng bobo?”

“Lalayuan mo ba ako kung mabaho ang hininga (or kilikili) ko?”

“Ayaw mo ba sa babaeng nagmumura?”

“Kailangan ba may alam akong instrument na tugtugin mahalin niya lang ako?”

“Mahilig kaya siya sa mabait?”

“Hindi pa din ba ako sapat?”

“Hindi pa din ba ako pasado sa taste mo?”

at kung anu-ano pa. At anong resulta? Ikukumpara niyo yung sarili niyo sa ibang babae tapos mapaparanoid kasi maaaring hindi tayo magustuhan or iwanan tayo ng lalakeng gusto natin. Pero diba mas masaya kung tanggap nila kung ano tayo? Yung alam nila lahat ng diperensya sa katawan mukha o ugali natin pero tayo pa din yung gusto nilang makasama? Kaya sa tingin ko dapat mahalin natin kung anong meron tayo, at maghintay sa taong magmamahal sa mga diperensiyang meron tayo kahit gaano pa katagal kasi sa huli alam nating worth it. Pansin ko din naman sa mga lalake kapag nagmahal sila, totoo. Ikaw at ikaw lang kaya dapat hindi ka na magisip pa kung may magugustuhan siyang iba dahil ikaw lang ang magpapakomplikado ng meron kayo. Kung ipagpapatuloy ang pagiging insecure, tayo at tayo lang din ang tuluyang sisira ng sarili natin.