#it wouldn't eve be the first time i gave him relationship advice

[netflixofficial]

Ever listen to a song you've heard a thousand times, but suddenly one of the lyrics just jumps out and gut punches you from nowhere?

[sexydreamgirl]

https://sexydreamgirl.tumblr.com/post/671581376465747968/could-you-attract-a-3p-even-if-you-didnt-even

I'm this anon

While thinking it today I can't say I didn't manifested her, in the beginning of our break up I was thinking for the first 2-3 days " now what, is he going to find someone else, OMG I don't want him to find someone else", I even checked his profile for new follows and his tumblr too bc I didn't trust that I'm the only on for him (only for those 2-3 days tho). ALSO while we were in a relationship I always saw dreams about him with a blonde and always teased him that if he ever broke up with me he would find a blonde one and guess what, she is blonde.

Now I can't say I didn't cry during the day but for some reason even tho I freaked out in the morning, during the day while crying I was thinking that it wouldn't last with her bc she is just a rebound and he still has feelings for me so he's just trying to get over me somehow ( we broke up 1,5 month ago). And I don't know but it just gave me the push I needed to change my mindset. I know that he will come back to me either way because I'm persisting and he loves me so if he wants to play that way I will too. I don't need him, so I just went out with my friends and had so much fun. And I felt so much confidence. I even flirted with a guy ( he was 🔥).

I'm sorry if you don't know what to say. It's just that it hurt me so much when I saw what's happening and I was so sure that we will be together for new years eve and our anniversary too( 4th January). I wanted to tell you more about it bc I trust you, your advices and this whole community. Thank you for your time and patience ❤

It's ok bff! I hope you decide to work on your self concept. I know mine definitely made me get over a breakup as well as lose interest.