#it's just frustrating bc I've existed in queer spaces for years now and I'm nonbinary but STILL I mess up | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

vibinwiththefrogs · 10 months

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Earlier today I accidentally used the wrong pronouns for an acquaintance who is a trans and I've never known her to go by anything other than she/her. And honestly it's very frustrating because that feels like an indication that I view her a certain way deep down even if consciously I know her as a woman. What do I gotta do to really unearth the unconscious bias

#kinda a rhetorical question rather than a serious one - no one should feel pressured to answer lol #it's just frustrating bc I've existed in queer spaces for years now and I'm nonbinary but STILL I mess up #and she didn't hear me use the wrong pronouns but it's been haunting me a bit

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