#like she coild have just texted good night??

[magicalzombiegirl]

nan: *texts* are you awake?

me: yes

nan: good night

me: good night.. ???

[datingadviceonreddit]

Wall of text, I apologize in advanceI met this girl on Tinder about 3 weeks ago, we hit it off pretty well by text and we agreed to meet for a drink a couple days later.We met at a bar for some drinks on a Wednesday night. The date was great, we had a lot in common, movies, hobbies, future plans... We stayed at the bar for about 3 hours talking and then walked around for about an hour. It was getting late so I walked her to her car and we set up another date for 4 days later.We texted a little bit in between, nothing crazy. On Sunday, the next date, I picked her up and we went to dinner for a couple hours. Again, a great connection and laugh, she's great, we connect a lot. I drive her home after dinner and we talked about how I'll be leaving for a trip out of country for 10 days, 2 days later. She tells me to get an app so we can text overseas and stay in contact. We talke a little about where things coild go with us and we both say we do not want to rush into anything but the connection and attraction is here. I walk her to her door and we kiss.I leave out of country 2 days later and as soon as I get there the app messaging starts, and it did not stop for the remaining of my trip. We're talking 30 or so texts a day, exchanging pictures, selfies, sweet words and such. Towards the end of my trip she expressed how happy she was to finally be able to see me, after almost 2 weeks, and I say the same.I fly back, when I land she wants to see me right away instead of the planned date 2 days later, but it's too late so I can't. We text a bunch and talk on the phone for a couple hours the day before our while day date (this past Saturday).Saturday is here, I pick her up at 11 am, we go out to eat, drive around, go back to her place, I give her gifts from my trip, she supdr happy, and we watch movies for 4 hours cuddling on the couch. She invited me to her workplace party that night, so we go, she introduced me to everybody, we talk, stay close, hold hands and such. The night is over, I drive her home and we have a long kiss. (We haven't had sex yet)Now things get odd. Since that date, 3 days ago now. The texts have been very very limited. We went from 30-40 a day to maybe 5, and they are almost all started by me, no more "good mornings" or "good nights" ir anything like that. So last night I kind of got fed up and straight up asked her what was up.The answer I got was that she got scared because we were moving too fast, that she tends to get quiet if that happens, that she still wants to "hang out" and "chat" but we need to slow down because she wants to focus on herself. I aggreed to it because I see this going somewhere but everything seems off. She still isn't texting me like before, and I don't want to be clingy so I'm not either, but I feel like if we don't talk things are going to fizzle out.So after this wall of text, I guess my worry is, what do I do?A part of me maybe thinks she just wants to stay friends and nothing more, and another believes her, and that we were going too fast.TL,DR: Datin girl from tinder for 3 weeks, everything going great, she starts pulling away suddenly saying it's going to fast. via /r/dating_advice