#literally though the phrase i need you sets off kill bill sirens in my head like the past two most involved relationships i had | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

sodrippy · 5 years

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man when i was young i thought the most romantic thing ever was someone Needing you, i wanted to be Needed and irreplaceable, like oxygen, i thought thats what love was, but honestly now someone saying they Need me like that would just be a red flag. i dont want to be Needed, i want to be Wanted, i want the people in my life to choose me, and want to be with me. i dont want to be something that cant be lived without i want to be something that makes their lives better

#whew deadass none of the things i thought were Love Romance Goalz as a young person align at all with the things i admire and want now #which is no surprise obviously like..tis called growing up sbcjsnm but christ i mean #im just mad lucky and glad that i have crippling issues which prevented me from pursuing those things bc like #none of it was good and if i settled into it...yikes lol!#anyways this post is directly about every time shiv says she needs tom instead of saying she loves him #like babe i see you we all see you hes saying i love you you're saying i need you thats not. thats not the same thing lol #literally though the phrase i need you sets off kill bill sirens in my head like the past two most involved relationships i had #were based around that phrase and they were both Decidedly toxic ajfhwjxn

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