#mod alexis 🖤

[mydarling-suggestions]

**so my bf and i have this weird thing about keeping track of a certain number of something and i was like "we should celebrate at 100" and then he was like "hell yeah we should whatchu got in mind" and i told him to pick it out. well i ended up dozing off before he could reply and i woke up to his text saying what about a kiss and i fell off my fucking bed and cant go back to sleep. he knows that hes the first guy ive ever held hands with or even hugged romantically and now im a bit nervous 1/2

2/2 what if its like not good or something? so many things could go wrong… idk im just like freakin out a bit i guess and im probably overthinking but like how do you handle your first kiss… please help - 🌻

sndfjfndsjaskjdncj well with a grand total of zero kisses i think i’m pretty qualified to answer this fjndjs

okay but in all seriousness, if the thought of kissing him makes you feel really uneasy, it’s okay to hold off a little longer, there are other ways you can celebrate🖤 so don’t feel obliged to go through with it or anything

but with that said, if you’re fine with it just nervous as heck (which is understandable) then it will be okay! if you have already or are planning to agree to it, then voice your worry to him, make a joke of it a little bit. being humourous about it should put you at ease a little, and if you let him know that you’re nervous i’m sure he’ll reassure you and guide you through it. 

and also we’re not talking about a full on pash session djfgnjfds (right? jnfgj) like you can just give him a peck on the lips even. either way, yes things could go wrong, but what’s the worst thing that could happen? maybe you miss his lips altogether and end up kissing his chin, maybe you forget to close your eyes and end up making eye contact from an inch or two away, things like this are awkward yes, maybe a little embarrassing, but you can laugh it off. just say it like it is, be like “sorry haha, i’m just super nervous” or “oops didn’t mean to get your chin there. there really is a first for everything huh” djfngfjd and he’ll probably laugh with you, and then if you wanna try again you can try again. i can promise you that if something does go wrong that it won’t be as bad as you’re probably imagining.

and hey, you gotta start somewhere right? i’m sure a majority of people will say that their first kiss wasn’t great, it takes time to learn how you should kiss a person, because of course everyone will be different. so just accept that it won’t be perfect and probably a bit awkward, and embrace it, because the whole debacle of a first kiss is what makes them so damn memorable fjgnfjds