#now she brings him up a lot and it's always sooo positive 🙄

[confinesofmy]

one thing i hate about my cousin is she can't just let anybody be mad at somebody else. she has to take control of the situation. i've talked to her about her brother many times in the past year and every time she's tried to convince me he's more of an asshole than i know, and she basically laughs at me when i expect more of him. recently he was just too fucking mean to me so i skipped out on christmas celebrations at his place because i didn't want to experience more, and when i told her why i was skipping out she began a propaganda campaign designed to make me appreciate him more "despite his rough edges." now she's telling me he invited me specifically by name, he missed me at the party, he told other cousin that he loved the mac and cheese i made at thanksgiving so much that if i ever wanna bring food again i should bring it. i don't think she's lying about any of it, i'm just so annoyed by the psyop of it all. she clearly thinks i was overreacting and is now trying for damage control and it's so stupid because i didn't even DO anything except remove myself from a situation.