#nsfwitchytalks

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Just so you know, voting no will not stop me if I decide to. Nothing can stop me except my own burn out.

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Yknow when I learned about intersectionality in college my first response was “Oh wow it’s good to know oppression isn’t as black and white as everyone says it is, and we should probably start viewing things more on a case by case basis while still discussing everyone’s individual experiences since so many people in minority groups often suffer from multiple, differing forms of oppression unique to their own life experiences”

But I’m starting to get the feeling a lot of y’all learned about intersectionality and went “oh wow a new word I can twist to justify why it’s totally cool for me to ostracize this other minority group” which frankly is a bit Concerning™️

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Ngl there is something, so fucking funny to me about Trump deciding June won’t be Pride Month anymore.

Like yeah ok at first I was offended but then it was like….. what does he think that’s gonna do????

Does he think we’re all just gonna sadly pack up our fetish gear and pride flags and go home??? Sorry guys all the parades and celebrations are cancelled, the Cheeto in office says no fun allowed ://///

Sir Pride Month™️ has been in the cultural zeitgeist for so long, you can’t just decide it doesn’t exist anymore. The venues have been booked, buddy. The fetish gear has been purchased. You WILL be seeing hairy gay ass whether you like it or not. We cannot be stopped. It’ll just be even more fun now knowing how much he doesn’t want us to celebrate.

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My snuggly little old man 💞💞

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The whole transmisogyny vs transandraphobia thing is so fucking weird to me and the more it crosses my dash and the more I read about it - it honestly doesn’t get…. Any less fucking weird????

Like ok, first of all, why is this even an argument? Like……. How come when trans men came out and went “hey we are also oppressed specifically for being trans and masculine?” - the first response was to go, “UM, ACTUALLY NO YOURE NOT-“. wtf ever happened to “treat others the way you wanna be treated”? Why are some of you suddenly scrambling to speak over your brothers in arms? Why do you feel so threatened by the possibility that they could in fact be oppressed for being trans AND being masculine? Why are you so desperate to deny their identity and oppression? Idk I guess I just expected better from people who are also often spoken over and oppressed but what do I know-

And the other thing is like…. The main argument I have seen so far, hinges on this idea that trans men cannot be oppressed because nobody can be oppressed for being masculine, because masculinity is historically celebrated. Except….. I don’t think that’s, true??? At least not from what I’ve seen???

Like yes from a societal standpoint it is seen as Good To Be A Man™️, but that really only applies to rich white cis het men. It is good to be a rich white cis het man because you have all the power and money and the world is setup in your favor.

But…. What about black men who are framed as rapists and monsters, specifically for being black and being men? Yes the fact that they are black plays an integral role in this oppression - but so does the fact that they are men. Black women are oppressed and stereotyped too - but they are often framed as mammy figures, or overly sexualized, or trashy. Black men are framed as rapists and murderers and monsters - because men, as a whole, are stereotypically seen as aggressive and violent - so black men specifically must be even MORE aggressive and violent, right?

Or what about Butch lesbians who are punished for their masculinity? Yes you could argue that that’s misogyny because it’s trying to control a woman’s body - but…. When I was in middle school, there was a pervasive fear of lesbians in the locker room - specifically butch lesbians. Butch lesbians were the face of lesbianism for a long time, and with them came the ever present fear from straight women that they were going to be sexually assaulted. “Oh but that’s lesbophobia!” I hear you cry, “That’s different!” - except…. I almost never saw the depiction of a sex crazed rapist lesbian who was a petite femme. No, it was always a butch. Butch lesbians are too similar to men, too violent, too sex addled. To the point where they’re driven from their own community because they’re too masculine and no self respecting lesbian would ever want to date someone who looked like a man. Did you guys forget that femmes were shamed for dating butches because we were accused of trying to imitate a heterosexual couple?

The masculinity that is supposedly “celebrated” - is violence. It’s rooted in the stereotype that men are brainless, sex addicted apes. The so called celebrated masculinity perpetuates emotional abuse, misogyny, eating disorders, drug addictions, etc. Masculine men don’t cry. Masculine men don’t have emotional connections, they fuck bitches and leave. Masculine men solve all their problems with their fists. They don’t have feelings - they have sex and drugs and money.

Like… it just baffles me that we can acknowledge that everyone suffers under misogyny in their own way, but we refuse to acknowledge that the way men suffer under it is specific to them being men - the way that women suffer under it in a way that is specific to being women. Women are delicate flowers meant to be protected. We must never sweat, we must never have body hair, we must never say “no” or raise our voices. And we also, must never trust men - because men are sex crazed violent maniacs. We must hide our children from them, we must shun them from our spaces and we must shun anyone who dares to express themselves similarly.

Idk how to end this I just…. Is it truly so hard to believe that maybe this isn’t fun for anyone on either side? Like maybe we really are two sides of the same shitty fucking oppression coin?

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I feel like everyone on tumblr needs a reminder that people’s gender and sexuality labels actually have like. Literally nothing to do with you whatsoever - and are almost solely for them, and them alone.

Like…. Not a single one of my labels I identify with is for anybody except me. They are all for me, to help me explain and understand my own presentation and attraction and relationship with gender and sexuality. They have nothing to do with anyone else.

And I’m only saying this because I saw a post earlier that was like, “If I was talking to someone transfem and they told me they were AFAB I would feel so hurt and betrayed”

Like ok but that has nothing to do with you. Their labels and presentation are not for you, they’re for themselves. And I honestly see this in a lot of queer discourse - where the biggest issue isn’t the label itself but is actually other, completely random strangers, feeling “betrayed” or “hurt” or “attacked” by somebody else’s presentation.

So this is your reminder that other people’s labels are not for you. They have nothing to do with you. You are a complete stranger and if someone else presenting with the same or a similar label as you, without sharing your exact experience, makes you feel betrayed - you need to go unpack why you feel so entitled to the personal experiences of strangers.

Nobody has to explain their label to you. Nobody has to explain why they relate to their label to you. And frankly it’s presumptuous as fuck to assume you know somebody’s relationship to their gender and sexuality better than they do.

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Lemme say, as someone who has not seen the new Doctor who yet and probably won’t until tomorrow - seeing a post cross my dash that says “everyone check on your Doctor who mutuals they are doing AWFUL” feels like the emotional equivalent of a decrepit old man yelling “TURN BACK” at me as I walk by

Like

That’s so fucking ominous thanks I am now very afraid

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Man I hate when the weather is like “we’re gonna get TONS of storms tonight!!” And then night comes and there’s no storms like why did you catfish me like that bro 😩😭

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Tagged by the WONDERFUL @nostalgic90s - coincidentally I was literally just thinking about you last night lol

1. What was the last thing you drank?

Chocolate peanut butter and banana smoothie ✌️

2. Where was your profile picture taken?

…… furaffinity???

3. Worst pain ever?

Migraines, I’m always baffled by my coworkers who say they can work through them - like bestie how are you even standing right now

4. Favorite place you've ever traveled?

Bold of you to assume I’ve traveled. I guess the place I went to college? It was in the middle of nowhere, we had one bus that took us to the nearest city and one bus that went in a circle around town. Also we had cows, pigs, goats, sheep and horses. Sometimes when you weee on the bus you could see deer just wandering through peoples yards. Easily the best place I’ve ever stayed long term.

5. How late did you stay up last night?

Uhhhh fuck if I know lmao I fell asleep on the couch and woke up at 3am

6. If you could move, where would you move to?

Preferably somewhere rural with lots of folklore around it - like Ireland or the Appalachians

7. What do you collect?

Oh boy that is a LOADED question lmao

I guess my biggest collection is dolls - mostly Little Apple Dolls, though I have a few Franklin Mint Marilyn Monroe porcelain dolls and I’d love to get more of those some day. I have my fantasy reborns, which I would also like more of <3. I have some clown dolls and BJDs. I’d love some of the anthropomorphic Betty Jane Carter dolls, I think those are ADORABLE. I also have a hentai figurine but idk if she counts lol

On the smaller end, I collect a lot of Lilo and Stitch and Lion king stuff - extra points if it’s from Lion King 2 because that one is my absolute favorite. I collect a lot of Marilyn Monroe memorabilia, and I collect vintage porn and pinups. Oh, and music boxes, I love music boxes.

8. Favorite day of the week?

Sunday, Monday and Tuesday - hear me out on that lmao. Sunday and Monday are my days off - I usually use Sunday to run errands and volunteer at a horse rescue every other weekend, Monday I usually spend cleaning, taking care of my plants and bugs, or just giving myself a day to do nothing for once except lay on the couch and watch TV. Tuesday is when I go back to work - but it’s also the one day a week I get to work with two of my favorite coworkers, and unless something goes HORRIBLY wrong with the scheduling, we usually have a blast. Like last Tuesday I came into work and one of my coworkers was playing Kesha. You KNOW it’s gonna be a good day when the DJ for the day is playing Kesha 😩😩

9. Amusement park or concert?

Depends on the concert and the amusement park. I’ve always wanted to go to an amusement park for a date with a nice butch who wins me tons of prizes at the game stands <3

But if I’m going alone than I’m gonna say concert lol

10. When was the last time you cried?

I don’t remember and I’d like to keep it that way ✌️

Probably not that long ago but I’m not gonna kill my morning drudging up miserable shit from the past if I’ve already forgotten about it lol

11. Who took your profile picture?

Oh shit I just realized I never put artist credit in my bio, fuck me lmao

Anyway my icon is by Kitchiki on FA, I absolutely love her work <3

12. Who's the last person you took a picture of?

One of the performers at the burlesque fetish ball I went to last Saturday, her performance was just her getting a live corset piercing. My three friends at the show were quite squeamish about it, I…. Was not lmao

13. What's your favorite season?

Spring or summer - I love the trees and green grass and flowers and sunshine, plus seeing all the baby animals down at the pond near my job. Also my wardrobe is like 99% spring and summer clothes lol

Although winter is growing on me lately, I’ve found that my tolerance for cold has gone up significantly this past year 🤔

14. If you could have any other career?

I’m literally debating quitting my job as we speak in favor of becoming a typist, solely for the financial stability. So, maybe not the best time for me to answer this question lol

15. Who's your celebrity crush?

I don’t really have celebrity crushes, more as I have like…. A select amount of female celebrities I find very pretty but more in the sense that I want to look like them. Oh and Dolly Parton - she’s not a crush or someone I want to look like, she is simply Mother™️

16. Are you a good influence?

Depends on who’s asking I guess 🤷‍♀️

17. Does pineapple belong on pizza?

Pizza is not a food I care enough about to really care what toppings other people put on it

18. You have the remote, what are you watching?

Either venture bros or invincible season 3 episode 8

Aaaaand ngl I’m skipping the very last question cause I think it’s stupid

But I will tag @radioactivesourdough @airconditionedgirl @last-knight-who-was @b-rainlet @guroboyfriend @wandering-wolf23 @thotsyndrome @jervis-tetch-my-beloved @syggwolf @spasmolytic-convulsion @evilaroships @princesstokyom @solaceinabandonment

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“Why can’t [gender identity/sexuality] just have this ONE THING!? Why can’t we just talk about OUR experiences?”

Well I hate to be the one to tell you this but that’s because uhhhh that’s just. Not. How human interaction works.

Unless you are talking about SOLELY your experience, and that experience in question is very strange and very unique and could only possibly have happened to you - there is no “one” experience.

There is no one transfem experience. One lesbian experience. One transmasc experience or nonbinary experience or gay or pansexual or bisexual or aro/ace experience.

Whether you like it or not the queer/LGBT community is exactly that - it’s a community. It isn’t meant a group of individuals discussing their individual experience and throwing a hissy fit whenever someone has the audacity to relate to that or compare it to their own experience. It’s a community of people.

And when you have a community of people you will have, shared and overlapping experiences.

So yes the transfem experience may overlap with the experiences of lesbians and trans men. And the lesbian experience may overlap with that of trans men and bisexuals and trans women. The aro/ace experience may overlap with that of pansexuals and bisexuals and nonbinary people.

If you wanna be part of a community, to foster a community, than I think maybe some of you should stop throwing a hissy fit when someone talks about the experience of one group - and other groups chime in because they relate to it as well.

The only way to build a community is to share your experiences, and let others share theirs. If you can’t do that - I don’t think what you’re looking for is a “community”.

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I’ve never been so angry in my life than when I went to look up Lilo & Stitch 2025 reviews and THE MAJORITY were going “this is such a faithful adaption and so full of heart :)”

Like

I fully believe either somebody is straight up paying you to say that, or you genuinely never even liked this franchise in the first place and just cared about how you think Stitch is cute

Fake ass fans smfh

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Idk why I thought that, while stoned, I should watch called “the strongest tornado ever recorded” - but I think I have gained a healthy new phobia

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Ngl let’s say that like. Feasibly I believed a revolution was a good idea that somehow someway was better than voting and didn’t put the lives of thousands of people at risk.

Straight up - I wouldn’t trust a single fucking one of you to lead it though.

I mean, cmon. This is the discourse website. This is the website where trans men were told they can’t use transmisogyny so they made up their own term and then I watched one of you compare them to right wing men’s rights activists for the crime of…. Making their own term, like y’all asked them to. This is the same place where trans women will also be ousted and harassed for the sheer act of…. Liking weird porn. Half this website is constantly calling for censorship because they don’t wanna see “icky nasty content made for grown ups”. This is the same place where I’ve seen people call for celebrities to be guillotined as if an actor is even CLOSE to making the same amount of money as Elon musk or Jeff Bezos. When tumblr released the blue check marks as a fun joke - half this site began likening anyone who bought them to the wealthy elite. You people can’t even handle the idea of someone using the same gender/sexuality label as you but in a different context than you personally.

I have been on this god damn website since 2014 and every year I watch you all cannibalize and tear down each other based on made up words and fictional ships. Why the fuck would I trust anyone here in a revolution?

You wanna convince me that instead of voting I should give you guys weapons and let you storm the White House? Fucking please. You don’t even know who your enemies even are anymore.

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I love clicking a “disturbing online rabbit hole” video and seeing the comments just FULL of people acting like they’re seeing the exorcist for the first time - just sobbing and screaming and throwing up in the comments

And then the video is like. 99% ARG horrors and weirdly specific fetishes.

Y’all gotta get out more. Go to a Walmart in the middle of nowhere. Get on the NYC subway at night. You guys need exposure therapy to freaks before you see someone walking their partner on a leash in public and die of an aneurysm.

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anyWAY EVERYONE LOOK AT MY NEW DRESS I GOT OFF ETSY-

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Slowly realizing that so much of my ideal adulthood so far is like, 5 year old me’s D R E A M

I am out here fucking, playing dollies

My bed is just a giant nest of stuffed animals

I bought flower lights I’m gonna line my stair railing with

I basically buy clothes I would’ve worn to play dress up

I am putting a hand on your shoulder and telling you to indulge in your childhood fantasies like idc how cringe and embarrassing they are don’t let 5 year old you’s dreams just be dreams

What else is adulthood for