#or who knows maybe ive just lost the plot bc i havent slept in like 30 hours | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

styxnbones · 5 months

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throwing this out into the void here mostly just to test how i feel abt seeing it in words, but im starting to think the 100% aroace label is perhaps not serving me quite the way i want it to and maybe harper's Unlabeled Swag (As A Freak With Proximity To The Acespec) was me projecting just tiny bit

#personal bullshit #recent revelations have alerted me to the fact that there are some people i want #i just want them in ways that are Complicated #and in many cases would require a paramedic on standby #but also idk if like formally establishing this would actually make my life any easier #or more effectively communicate what people actually need to know about me #bc to the overwhelming majority of people i meet i might as well be aroace as far as theyre concerned #and the problem with labeling yourself as Unlabeled is that then people just assume that youre bi but a coward about it #which is even more untrue than the assumptions people make about me when i say im aroace #so like idfk man theres no winning here i dont think #or who knows maybe ive just lost the plot bc i havent slept in like 30 hours #so im having untrustworthy 3am thoughts at 1:42 in the afternoon

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