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[jahica1215]

Let's Talk Sex

The "sex talk" needs an overhaul.

How do you talk to your kids about sex? When I was 14 years old my father sat me down before my boyfriends birthday and told me two things~ 1) all boys want is sex And 2) do not have sex until you are married if you value yourself

Now this talk really messed me up, then and today. He was angry, took me aside on our way to the party and spent less time talking to me about sex and relationships then it took to write this down. I don't have kids but here is how I would talk to my kids about sex.

1) Sex is something special and is meant to be an expression of love, be careful of people's intentions as not everyone treats sex as a privilege. It's a treasure not to be wasted.

2) I am always here to talk with you, no matter how awkward, I will not judge and I will talk to you like the adult you are becoming. I was once struggling too. I love you. Nothing will ever change that.

3) Sexuality comes in many forms, it is perfectly normal and beautiful to love another human being. There are many different types of sexuality that you can be born with: straight, gay,bi-sexual, transgender and many more. All sexual orientations are more then accepted by us. We love you and accept you for who you are

4)safe sex vs unsafe sex.

Preaching abstinence has done nothing for my generation.

[poseysht-blog]

the moment you realize that your baby was your fat so whenever you say i freaking hate being fat, you are being mean to your baby. that’s my brain stretch today.

[slgcmez-blog]

Pizza is literally my best friend right now. Like I cannot get enough of it, I don't know if it's the cravings or just that the baby likes pizza.

[ohannabella-blog]

I got called boring by a twelve year old. a fucking twelve year old ! i can’t help it that inside your pubescent little brain you don’t understand my humor nor my memes ! cousins are the worst sometimes.