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likesplatterpaint · 5 years

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In-laws are here, time for ALL the uncomfortable discussions.

Like legit MIL had an uncanny sense of asking about specific things Mike has been stressing about out of silence.

We need to put them on an information diet, but guess who’s trauma/dysfunction relationship with HER mother makes lying by omission REALLY FUCKING HARD UGHHHH

#🙄🙄🙄 we are slowly drawing more boundaries #FIL is here to help mike dig french drains we didnt know we needed #theyve been here for five hours and i love them but i am tired of them #dont get me wrong theyve done SO MUCH for us #but we are having a very subtle boundaries tug of war #starting with MIL just deciding she was gonna stay for a week alone in ourbhouse to watch the dogs while we were away #which was not the plan #and mike is even less comfortable with her being in the house unsupervised than i am #because as salty as i am about my spoons being rearranged #there are things she just Can Not Know and would be a big weird Thing that mike would not like #i am tired and they want to get up at the crack of dawn tmr #pleas please maryland send me all of your thunderstorms

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