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[pepecarbs]

"The Harsh Reality: Society's Value Scale for Men"

🕊️📉 When we ponder a man's value, it's disheartening to acknowledge that society often judges him based on what he can provide. Be it financial support, mental stability, emotional strength, physical prowess, or even sensuality. But what happens when he can't meet these expectations? Let's delve into this grim perspective that unveils a harsh reality.

💼💔 It's no secret that society places immense pressure on men to be the primary breadwinners, the ones who provide for their families, the backbone of financial stability. But what about the man who struggles, who faces job loss, financial setbacks, or is unable to climb the career ladder? Does he suddenly lose all value? This sad reality leaves many feeling worthless, as if their very essence is diminished.

🧠💔 The demand for mental and emotional strength is relentless. A man is expected to hold it together, to be the sturdy rock, never faltering in the face of adversity. But what if he's battling his own demons? What if he's overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed? Society's harsh judgment can make him feel like a failure, as if his struggles make him less valuable in the eyes of those around him.

🏋️‍♂️💔 Physicality is another measure, often reducing a man's value to the mere appearance of strength and fitness. But what if illness strikes, or age takes its toll? Suddenly, he might feel like he's lost his worth, as if his value is directly proportional to his physical condition. The sad truth is, this perspective can strip away the dignity and respect a man deserves.

💔🔥 Even the sensual aspect of a man's life is scrutinized. He's expected to be a charismatic lover, always desirable, always in control. But when circumstances or personal struggles affect his sensuality, he can be made to feel inadequate, like he's lost a significant part of what defines him as a man.

🕊️📉 It's essential to recognize the heart-wrenching reality that many men face when they can't meet society's rigid expectations. We must challenge this narrow view of a man's value, realizing that he's more than just his ability to provide. Let's initiate a dialogue about the detrimental effects of this perspective, discussing the importance of compassion, understanding, and inclusivity.

💔💬 Share your thoughts on this heartbreaking issue in the comments below. Let's raise awareness about the struggle that some men face when they're deemed to have lost their value. #WorthBeyondExpectations #BreakingTheCycle #EmpathyMatters

[References:

"The Mental Health Crisis Among Men" - American Psychological Association

"Impact of Financial Stress on Mental Health" - Journal of Family and Economic Issues

"Perceptions of Masculinity and Body Image" - Men and Masculinities]

[mandyjane-lifedesign]

Heroic Story of a Battle-Scarred British Army Veteran

Battle-Scarred British Army Veteran Who overcame Mental illness to become a leader in Suicide Prevention and Suicide Survivor Representation True Story The horrors of warfare leave many people so affected that their mental health is irreparable; however, Nick Wilson has been able to use his experience of surviving a suicide attempt, PTSD, and depression to help hundreds of thousands of people who, without his help, are often forgotten. Nick began serving in the British Army in 1999, where he toured Iraq and Afghanistan and witnessed many traumatic things, which ultimately profoundly affected his mental health. After 14 years of service, wanting to live a ‘normal’ life, Nick left the army and set up a successful chauffeur business’ Purely Platinum.’ Unfortunately, two years later, in 2016, unable to fight his inner demons any longer, he attempted suicide. Fortunately, Nick recovered to good health, and his experience has led him to make an impactful change in the mental health community. He studied Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Mental Health First Aid, and Neuro-Linguistic Programming, which led him to found both ‘360 Well-being’, a foundation dedicated to providing the best well-being strategy for workforces, and ‘First Step Forward,’ which aims to help army veterans readjust to civilian life and offer tips to mental health self-awareness. More information on Nick Wilson HERE! Nick has also been behind some incredibly successful mental health campaigns, such as #RealMenTalk and #TimeToListen, in 2018 and 2019, which reached over 250,000 people. He is now campaigning to get more representation and, therefore, awareness surrounding the topic of suicide and suicide survivors. For every suicide, there are at least 40 attempts. He has seen firsthand how the little information gathered around this issue has resulted in people being failed and ignored. While running a men’s peer support group, Nick witnessed many losing good friends to suicide who received little to no help. He believes the government’s current advice, which states that speaking about suicide can be triggering and detrimental, is outdated and incorrect, a view shared by organisations such as Samaritans and Grassroots suicide prevention. It paints a bleak, hopeless picture of the issue. It deters journalists and reporters from engaging with the stories of survivors or bereaved families to further the conversation around this topic. As a response to this, Nick has launched his podcast ‘Lived Experience Chats,’ where he asks his guests to share their experiences living with disabilities, mental health issues, and suicide to give a voice to people who feel unheard and unseen in the hope that it will provide people in similar situations with messages of strength. It also shows that surviving suicide is possible and creates courageous role models to inspire and empower. Nick’s story is truly incredible, and through his ambassadorship for Global Goodwill, he is continuing to break the stigma surrounding the topic of suicide and advocate for a better understanding of mental health.   Photo by Marcel Strauß on Unsplash Read the full article

[niketaw]

Get Ready for Real Talk, Real Ideas, Real Love! Excited about our special guest L.T. Bourne! We’re talking roles, fatherhood, social media versus real life, and much more! #thespotswemisspodcast # niketanikol #niketanikollifestyleblog #smallglimmerseverywhere #areyouplayinghurt #meditate #beingman #realmen #menoffaith #realmentalk #grownmantalk #kings #blackexcellence #series #episode9 (at Woodley Park) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTVm3NNne5D/?utm_medium=tumblr

[scribesandvibes]

#StateRepresentative @doreenrcarter presents #REALMENTALK REAL ISSUES with #DoreenCarter, 10/25/2020 at 12:00 p.m. Join us on Zoom to discuss #TheElection, #ConstitutionalAmendments, Local #Referendums, The DeKalb County #Ethics Question, and other #importantissues concerning the constituents of #GeorgiaHouseDistrict92. Registration: bit.ly/realmentalk-20201025 (#linkinbio) #FacebookLive: #StateRep. Doreen Carter ・・・ #vibewise: #YourVoiceYourVote | doreencarter.com | #District92Strong | #DeKalbCounty | #RockdaleCounty | #RealMenVote | #LetsTalkAboutIt https://www.instagram.com/p/CGwGwWAhnJP/?igshid=16v3gkwp2o88g

[treneemathis-blog-blog]

When the men take over! The Actor’s Life: the Series. “Men Summitt” Proud Producer #realmentalk #mentalhealth #talkitout #producerlife #anactorslifetheseries #thetalkwtreneemathis https://www.instagram.com/p/CBhc8wShlj9/?igshid=102tmrluv7f0f

[socialightandthecity]

#AllMaleReview Calendar Launch Party is the brainchild of @onehundredpercentvirgin a 38 year old , 💯 % virgin. $25 adv Admission at @640westatl includes calendar, food, #RealMenTalk all-male panel discussion, poetry, live music & more. Hope to see you at 2p today! Tix on eventbrite 👋🏽☺️ #celibacy #purity #singlelife #marriagematerial #wifey #dearfuturehusband #dearfuturewife #pinkypromise (at 640 West Community Cafe & Event Space)

[fifth5rider]

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[thespinningwheelsite]

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[mitzimsadventures]

Current situation~ Sitting outside the BarberShop waiting on the husband! I'm hearing the Final Play Off Game Talk! I stay outside so they can talk their talk in that manly kind of way. It's the place where they let their hair down so to speak...you know like we do at the Beauty Shop!!!! #lovethebrothers #realmentalk #barbershoptalk #sofresh #sofreshsoclean