#sending a message doesn't JUST entail saying hello

[pillowbo]

THIS BLOG IS FOR ADULTS ONLY

Hello and welcome to my Tumblr blog!

Points about me:

My name is Bo.

I am an aroace trans man with an extremely high libido.

I love to indulge in my kinks and write erotic stories.

I am an author and narrator.

Single and looking for a partner.

I use he/him pronouns.

I am autistic.

29 years old

5'4/130 lbs

White

Short blond hair

Blue/Green central heterochromia

Small breasts (A cups)

No plan to medically transition

No piercings or tattoos

No smoking or drinking

For exercise, I like to go on walks and light weightlifting.

I can speak broken French and I'm learning to be fluent.

Baby in German class.

I like black coffee.

I like to cook and I do it well.

I like the ocean and its aquatic creatures real or legendary.

No denomination (I am open to spirituality.)

Gemini sun/Gemini moon/Sagittarius rising

(Star charts are fun and interesting to me. I don't take it too seriously. If you don't like astrology, there is no need to announce it.)

If you are an adult feel free to interact with my blog.

If you are under 21 I will not message you or respond to messages sent from you. 18-20 are legally adults and are free to like and reblog my posts, but I feel are much too young for me as a man nearly in my 30s to message personally.

Don't interact if you're a minor or if you're an adult who can't take two goddamn seconds to put your age in your bio or pinned post. You will be immediately blocked.

At the very least put adult or 18+ on your blog. It's not fucking hard.

If your account says men dni you will be blocked not out of malice but because I am a man and I want to avoid accidentally interacting with you.

Although I'm open to cis, trans, men, women, etc, you should know I'm mainly into st4t. I am drawn to trans women/transfems in a way I don't know how to articulate for a writer. Perhaps it's the shared experience of being trans that I find to be relatable and attractive. Panty bulge makes me horny.

Aspiring seahorse dad. (I want to start a family that entails myself being the carrier if we get serious.)

I'm open to a LDR and I'm willing to relocate.

I'm up for mutual masturbation. Message me and we can do a session together. We can send pics or we can just chat if you prefer. I'm not comfortable with sending nudes (unless we are dating then I will send you nudes) but I can do scantily clad if you get off on that.

We can talk about writerly things too if you like to read or write. We can talk about each other's interests or how our days went. It doesn't have to be a sexual conversation.

What do I prefer my parts to be called? I call them my tits and cunt. You can refer to my goods however you like. I'm not particular. Although tits and cunt has such a nice ring to it, I had to write it twice.

I will not engage with you in my kinks unless you explicitly say in your bio, your pinned post, or through messages that you are comfortable with it.

KINKS

Objectification

Tickle Torture

Sploshing

Coulrophillia (ties somewhat into the previous two bullets and dressing like a clown or a jester is fun)

Hypnokink

Overstimulation

Edging

Orgasm Denial

Genderplay

Humiliation

Praise

CNC

Exhibitionism

Voyeurism

Dry humping

Monsterfucking (especially slimy wet tentacles)

Spanking

Flogging

BDSM Generally (I am a sadomasochist)

Femdom (although I am open to chatting with Doms, subs, and switches in between, the thought of being owned by a Domme and being her footstool and personal sex toy is kinky af. Yes, woman kick your feet up on me or ride me to your heart's content. I am but a dumb man and your humble servant and-and-and-bo.exe has stopped working)

Domming (I want to Dom as well. You might think this contradicts some of what I've listed already but you know what else is hot? See next bullet)

Wrestling for dominance

WARNING: The above bullets combined will make my brain melt

Not all of my kinks are necessarily sexual if that makes sense. Some of the things listed make me feel good and spacy, or high and mighty. We can figure it out, baby. <3

I am a virgin. I have also never kissed anyone, or been in a relationship before. I know it's unusual for someone my age. You'd think with all of these kinks, I'd have been fucking someone by now, but we could be. If we're a match we can talk about it and maybe we can be partners.

LINKS

My YouTube channel:

I'm a narrator and VA who enjoys reading creepypastas and making roleplays. Please consider clicking the link and subscribing to my YouTube channel for frequent uploads.

AO3:

https://archiveofourown.org/users/bosandaros

Literotica:

https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=7627422&page=submissions

Thank you for being here!

[yanderefairyangel]

This is going to sound like gatekeeping and I probably should not say it but here goes: I think Raxy should not play any of the other Fire Emblem. It's clear that he hates the medieval tropes that Fire Emblem entails, not to mention the human and dragon co-existence message which conflicts with his HFY desires. At this point, if he's going to shit on the entire franchise because it's not like his pwecious C//F, he's going to make a total ass of himself.

Sorry for the vent, on another note, Engage has been a lot of fun and I got to ch 22.

Hello Anon. Don't worry about it !

Frankly, Idk too much about the Raxy guy but the main question I ask myself is whether or not he acts like that in every fandom he is in or only in the Fire emblem since you don't necessarily have the same discussion/contribution to a fandom depending on the media cause if he is like that for every fandom he partakes in ... yeah...

I haven't intereacted too much with the guy but the little I saw made it very unengaging for me to see his content. And at the risk of comming off as snobbish, he doesn't seem to understand how media analysis works or to respect fandom etiquette. I mean, I blocked him on tumblr all to find him responding to me on twitter about a post claiming and I quote : "There is a clear wealth disparity problem between the royals and their citizens that should be adressed; perhaps Celine shouldnt be praised for sending death squads after people who steal food when she lives in a giant more luxurious version of Mont Saint-Michel" about Céline and Alear's A support.

When I challenged him to find me any canonical evidence that the theives we fight in chapter 6, paralogue 2 and that the higwaymen in Céline's/Alear support were practicing banditry because they were poor and starving, he didn't gave me a single answer. He claimed that the fact that there was one main story chapter, one paralogue and one support chain was enough to say that Firene has a problem with banditry and therefore is built on a flawed economic that creates wealth disparity problem when Solm has more chapter with banditry and that we are essentially talking about a franchise where there is bandits in EVERY game, and for literaly no reasons. They are just there burning village for fun. Kostas is literaly the only bandit that have a plot relevance lasting past 1 chapter.

And that's not all. When he and some mutuals of him claimed that Eddie's real plan in sending Kostas to kill Dima and Claude was actually to just scare off the new teacher, he and his mutuals never answered my simple request or providing me an explicit quote from in game of Eddie making such a declaration.

Or that one time when he tried to prove that the twist in chapter 10 of Engage failed arguing that the only way for Alear and co to escape the cathedral was to never enter... ignoring that at that time Alear still had the dragonic crystal so they could have rewinded or could have break out the door since they still had the Emblems when this scene was actually to built up Alear falling into the sins of hatred and pride, 2 sins in buddhism.

I also have been hearing tales of him blocking evading or having his friends go to blog that blocked him so that he could sporke it etc.

So yeah, that doesn't give a good look at all. Really.

But since I never went too much from his blog I can't tell if he is a 3H baby, or an Awakening baby or a Fe7 baby or an ancient (there for the first game ever) since I know a lot of people didn't like Engage because it was different from 3H who gave them expectation when 3H is the outlier of the franchise, and as you point out, CF is probably the most Anti-Fe a route can get. That a game not really keen on being accurate about medieval setting or the source of banditry etc. isn't that surprising, heck even 3H isn't that derogatory to that rule when all ending in 3H ends up with different models of monarchy. And I agree, if he sees dragon as evil, better drop Fire Emblem since the humanity and dragon can co-exist thing was already there since Fe1, Naga and Tiki being supporting role for Marth.

Anyway, sorry for the long reply. Also, glad to hear you are having fun with Engage ! I hope you'll stick around with my blog, I still have a bunch of essay to write

[theharrowing]

Ahh thanks for the update!! I was going to comment but I guess my comment was too long so I’ll just send it here. This chapter was so angsty my heart is torn for everyone but especially mc :(( she’s going through all these different emotions & is being shut out left & right but then being coddled at the same time.. I wonder if this rift will lead her to taking up Jin’s suggestion. & if it does how would the guys react, joon & yoongi specifically. “Do you think you can fall for someone like me?” Omgggg idk what this means for the relationship jk & mc have .. could they end up falling in love? Is that allowed? How would Tae feel? I personally think mc is so strong to adapt to the relationship between joon & yoongi. It’s so intimate and something the everyone is aware of, they have major history too. I’d personally feel way too intimidated by their love, I’d feel incapable of joining in because I think I’d feel like a third wheel for the entirety of the relationship. What they have is deep and I feel so sad when mc catches glimpses of their interactions when it’s just them two alone. She’s truly understanding for knowing that they deserve their own moments but my heart still breaks for her. At times I feel like they love each other more than they do her but this could just be me projecting my own insecurities & being dramatic hehe. I’m so excited to see what’s to come & what’ll happen between all these relationships. I’m just taking a huge wild guess but I can see a “breakup” happening & mc running off to get away but also getting entail for Jin. I love angst so sorry for the theatrics + I think my periods coming soon so I’m extra sappy 💀 loved this update tho!! <33

anon, hello!!!

since your message contains a lot of what i would consider to be semi-spoiler content, i have been waiting to respond so that more people get a chance to read. if you ever want to comment but it's too long, you are also more than welcome to just spam the comments with long thoughts, i genuinely do not mind that at all!!! i have a couple friends who will leave 2 or 3 comments in a row after reading, and it brings me joy, i promise.

the relationships and the love they all share is definitely a complicated thing. (and then there is jungkook, but i am not factoring him in to this bit.) it's not fair to say they love someone more or less than the other, though. i take issue whenever someone says that. instead, look at it as loving someone differently. you aren't going to have identical love/feelings for two people; even mc has different ways in which she feels and shows love for namjoon and yoongi, whether that is completely obvious to the reader or lot (i try to make it a little clear in her observations and thoughts but i also can't force people to read things exactly how i hope they do.) they are still at an early enough stage to be figuring it out, and needing to have space some times, or struggling to communicate it all part of the process. it's definitely understanding to see the history yoongi and namjoon have and feel intimidated, but if someone is going to view themself as an outsider in a relationship with people who clearly care about and love them, then this type of relationship is likely not going to be good for them. sorry, i hope this explanation doesn't come off as too crass, but i get very defensive of these fake people who live inside my head lol. if people are reading this as "so-and-so loves this character more than that one," it feels like i am failing as an author to tell this story the way i want to.

i'm so glad you're loving the story!!! we'll see what happens next!!! 💜

[hxdrostorm]

I’m sorry rex… doesn’t actually care for his brothers and only acts as he does to “fit in”…. You are messed up in the head. You’re hinting at the fact that if they didn’t have inhibitor chips in place that it would be acceptable for them to feel attracted to each other.

Rex’s character is driven fully on the basis that he cares about his brothers. He risks his rank and life to save echo, he feels crushed by hevy’s death even after just meeting him, and he cries in season 7 IN FRONT OF HIS COMMANDER because he is faced with killing his brothers.

You seriously scare me if you skew your beliefs to think that this thought process is okay. They are brothers, and he cares for them as brothers.

// This is the only message I'll answer about this matter, any subsequent messages about this will be deleted and if you persist in sending these types of messages then I'll have to block you. I don't want to deal with this kind of discourse in any of my blogs.

This is in response to this post.

Hello there anon, thanks for bringing this up & for the wonderful misinterpretation of my words and posts. I really appreciate that!

The post is long, so I'll put a read more here!

To start this off, what you've read is my interpretation of the canon, that's my headcanon for my take on Rex. Which as the post even starts stating, it is my biggest divergence from the canon. Also, I fail to see where I mentioned clone/clone ship in that post. Spoiler alert: I really wasn't talking about that, at all. But thanks for twisting my words in that regard, to suit your freaky narrative and skewed perception of me.

Furthermore anon, I have already addressed those points in some older HC posts of mine. Here's my introduction to this terrifying take on Rex, and would you look at that! He cares about the other clones! (this post is also a compliment to them!) He just doesn't view them as brothers, both as a self-preservation method (getting too attached to anyone in a context of war is extremely bad) and also due to the inhibitor's chip doing. Also, when I say that his views on the clones change after the chip's removal, I never said he'd start viewing them as siblings all of the sudden.

It's no different from what I've done with my Plo koon & the Wolfpack, he doesn't view them as his children (as the popular fanons entails) in order to prevent any form of attachment to them. This is my Headcanon, my interpretation.

Listen, I'm new to this RPC, and I'm certain that no one (besides those I got to plot with so far) are familiar with my style of RPing. But I have a huge aversion to any kind of unplotted pre-established relationship, even those that are canon. Because, I don't like enforcing shit that could go against someone's portrayal, and I hate having shit forced upon me. I like plotting & discussing stuff with people, I want to build stuff with my partners. That's what Roleplay is supposed to be.

I'm sorry that your reading comprehension skills rivals a toddler's, maybe you should improve that, instead of pointing fingers at complete strangers on the internet.

Also, I'd like to point you to a key detail in my Rex's rules:

Do you see that? Can you read it? I'm not looking to write clone/clone ships. While yes, I'm open to it, if someone shows up and demonstrates interest on it. Otherwise, I won't write or post anything about it, because that's not my goal with my take on Rex. But guess what, anon? No one so far that I've come across is interested in it, and I gasp do the unthinkable! I respect their boundaries, and plot with them anything else, but romance. Ironically, I have discussed about boundaries earlier this week.

OH THE HORROR!!! 3SPOOKY5ME!!!

Anyway, I think I've addressed everything I wanted to. So, in conclusion: anon if you feel so fucking unsafe with my mere existence & disagreements over a popular interpretation of the canon, then please leave. Softblock me if we're mutuals, block me, do whatever you want in order to feel good with yourself. Curate your own experience. Because this blog is no one's safe space, but my own. If you're going to give me this treatment, then your presence isn't welcomed here. You'd be right, if I had ever forced that stuff upon anyone, I write with. But as it stands, that hasn't happened, and it won't happen because I always discuss & communicate with my partners. If they say no, then that's it! I know right, that's such a wild concept!

With that, I'll end it here with this meme. Because, I'm honestly sick and tired of people like you, taking advantage over the fact that English isn't my native language. Just so you can twist my words, to suit your weird ass narrative <3

Have a good day, and happy holidays!