#shoutout to g-dlikedyke

[baphometsgirlcock]

re: that last post. there are people with penises who never want to penetrate, same as there are people with vaginas who never want to be penetrated. and for tme trans people, please make sure you’re doing your part to listen and validate your tma partners and friends. respect and love your local transfem who uses a strap on cause can’t they get hard enough for long enough to do penetrative sex, and/or has bottom dysphoria. respect and love your local transfems who have or want bottom surgery. respect and love your local intersex transfems. respect and love your transfems with physical disabilities.

just generally like. stop treating us as tops by default or assuming that we want or are able to penetrate you with our default equipment. like im a stone top because i CHOSE to be, because i enjoy topping, not because i’m predisposed to it. plus, im not going to enjoy penetrative sex without using a strap-on, and i hate that there’s not more love for transfems with straps. that there’s not more love for transfem bottoms. that there’s not more love for post-op and intersex transfems. it drives me fucking insane.

tme people reblog this but spare me your hot takes